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He def. has a gf, but he def. hooked up with me.
Alright. I'm 17 and I just need to let someone know and get someone else's advice because I can't say anything to my friends. So, I met this guy a while back and I've seen him a few times. I've always thought he was cute, but he's been dating this girl for a year and a half.
Now, I know this will sound ridiculous, but at the party last weekend I talked to him all night about a lot of different things. We really bonded and he kept telling me all night that he felt we had. He's a really great guy, but he cheated on his gf with me last weekend and I'm going to see him again this weekend. I mean. I really feel bad about it all, I do, but the more I think about it .. he wouldn't have cheated on her if he didn't have doubts or didn't want something more, you know? He says he loves her, but is he in love with being in the relationship with her or is he truly in love with her because obviously he can't completely be in love with her if he cheated on her. And just to clear a few things up, he has only cheated on her one other time before me so please just give me advice and what you think I should do or what you think actually on the whole circumstance. Thanks so much ya'll!
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its best to leave someone like that alone think about if you were his girlfriend u wouldnt want a guy like that good luck
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I'm going to give you some pretty BAD advice here.
you're young, you're energetic, you're probably pretty, and you've found a great guy. He's cute, but he has a girlfriend.
But, these are supposed to be the best years of your life. A lot of bad decisions, a lot of tears, but most of all, a lot of fun. If it feels good, do it. There's no permanent harm in what you're donig, at least not physically. Do what you desire, just don't get attached so he doesn't end up hurting you too much emotionally. He's probably one of the type of guys you should have a fling with, but not a relationship.
If you have a strong sense of morals and standards though, cut him loose. Don't hook up with him again.
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well hello.
Cheating is a very bad lie. And since your so young you shouldnt get into it. Tell him how you fell about the situation. If he really wanted to be with you and didnt love his girlfriend he would have broken up with her. So he could be useing you.
be careful. If you really want this guy. Wait because he could be fooling you.
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Everyone has doubts about thier relationships and sometimes relationships aren't perfect. NOT EVERYONE CHEATS. Other people work through thier problems or break up. This guy decided to cheat and you decided to help him.
You need to cut him loose 'cause no matter if he loves her or not what he is really saying to you when he talks about loving her is that he doesn't love you and that she is more important then you. He's cheated before, which means he's felt another connection before, but he is still with her. He'll probably cheat on her agian unless she dumps him.
He is a serial cheater. You could be the worst women in the world for him, or the best. It wouldn't matter. People who cheat once have made a mistake, for this guy cheating is habit. he is simply that immature, and that selfish. Fooling around with him will only bring you pain.
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Honestly? Don't hook up again. This guy has cheated on his steady girlfriend TWICE- and I'm assuming she's completely oblivious to this fact. You don't want to be involved with a guy who claims to love his girlfriend, but cheats on her with random girls at parties.
You're young, and deserve better than that. Forget about him; you'll be much better off.
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