So, there's this guy... He's amazing =] I've been getting to know him and I really like him. I told my friend that I liked him a few days ago. He randomly told her the other day that he's starting to get feelings for me, and she told him that I liked him too and he was really happy and we've been talking and so it's all good. The thing is, I barely see him... I see him maybe once a day, not even. But I talk to him all the time like for hours about everything. Tomorrow we're going on a fieldtrip and he's going to, i want to hang out with him but I don't know we kind of have different crowds and I'm worried he might ignore me, you know? I really have no clue what's going to happen tomorrow. What I'm asking is, how can I make it so that I DO hang out with him tomorrow... I really want to, but I'm pretty shy. Any tips? =] Thanks.
christina answered Thursday May 10 2007, 6:07 pm: If he really likes you, he won't ditch you, ignore you or act different when you're around when him his crowd is there. Same as you wouldn't do that to him.
If he does do it to you, he probably doesn't realize it & you need to talk to him about it. If you're going to talk to him tonight, ask him if he wants to hang out at the field trip. Chances are he'll want to.
So your shy. So what? Sometimes the best thing to do is keep to yourself. If in fact you are in different crowds, then it should prove weather or not he's really the one for you. He should still like you and try to spend as much time as possible with you. Even though their different, they always say opposites attract.
Smile. Smile, smile, smile. Or give the face that you know makes you look cute.
And again with the shy thing. Don't talk much, and just smile!
Most guys love a mystery girl.
And by doing so, He might try to get to want to be around you more, you know, to make you crack a word, or a chat, to see what your into. If he walks up to you, do something like this:
You: "Oh... Hey." *Cute mystery smile*
Him: "Hey..."
If he starts talking say this with that cute mystery smile:
You: "Oh umm.. Can I get back to you hun?"
Be fore he answers, say
You: "Thanks!"
Make sure you're near your friends.
As you walk away slightly turn around and give him that cute smile one last time if he's still standing there.
yourrtrustyhelpline answered Thursday May 10 2007, 5:56 pm: well, talk to him about it today. be like, so tomorrow`s the field trip.. and let it kinda go from there. if he doesn`t say anything, just ask him if he wants to hang out with you and your friends or something, or you can see if he`ll ask you to hang out first. [ yourrtrustyhelpline's advice column | Ask yourrtrustyhelpline A Question ]
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