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ex best friend drama !
My ex best friend will do anything to get "revenge" on me when I didn't even do anything to her.. We got in a fight like 2 months ago and ever since then she'll do anything to make my life hell.. Any new friend I make she has to go steal them on me and then become "best friends" with them and then she tells them lies about me so they hate me. I'm losing tons of friends because of her! The worst part of all was yesterday. My best friends Sarah and Olivia that I had finally gotten sooo close to (because I have a hard time making friends so I couldn't believe I had made friends) were taken away by my ex best friend. She buddied up with them during school and she was telling them I was bitch and that I had talked about them behind their backs (WHEN I DIDNT BECAUSE I LOVE THEM AND WOULDN'T IN MY LIFE) and they believed her because she seems so innocent so my ex best friend got them on their side and they were telling people I was logging on to peoples screen name and making up schemes to ruin my life (while I was away from my computer) and when I logged on my computer my ex best friend and 2 other friends that she stole made up a group name called the "tempting three" when OUR group name used to be the "sinister six" and their AIM profiles said "omfgg i love the tempting 3 biffs for ever ever we've been through it all" and they had only talked like twice!!!.... later on when my ex best friend signed off i told my 2 friends that i would NEVER talk about them if my life depended on it and that i love them and my ex best friend has caused me trouble all my life.. and the line "see what she's doing to me? well think about what she could do to you guys!" made them believe me and we were friends again. they said they wont talk to my ex best friend again...
well as you can see my ex best friend breaks up all of my best friends in a sneaky way so i don't know about it till the damage is done.. and i am sick of being in a new fight every day because she buddied up with ANOTHER one of my friends and told them i talked about them when i didnt...
what can i do to make her back off and show her that im strong and i wont let her ruin my life?! because shes tooken away at least 7 of my friends. and shes put me through so much pain. ADVICE!
[sorry its semi long]
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Don't listen to what the girl below me said. She only gave you a way to make things worse. Fighting won't solve anything [trust me] & it'll only get you into trouble. What does that do? Nothing. So don't fight her.
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What you can do though is tell people the truth. Tell your old friends that you never said anything about them because that's not how you are. Tell them how sneaky your ex best friend is & how she's doing this on purpose over something dumb.
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If they don't believe you, then they were never your friends. And don't worry about your ex bff. There's no reason to get revenge on her. Yes, it's sweet. But KARMA will come around & bite her in the ass eventually. Remember that.
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beat her up show her your not gonna take her shit well......maybe not but i would call her out in front of people and be like why you lying and then everyone will know what she does and not to believe her but if you wanna be more calm have a nice talk with her and maybe yall can settle this good luck
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