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hey i'm dani im here to help you with any possible questions about life love friends and whatever else you have on your mind...xox

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my boyfriend lives in illonois, and i live in florida
and he hates the phone... and his parents dont know about us.
so that leaves the internet, we both have school
and have church on sundays. that doesnt leave alot of time for each other, but breaking up is not in the question, i love him.with all my heart and he says he loves me too, any ideas?

sometimes long distance relationships are the most sacred. if you say you love him, then your heart is there even though you are not. keep your chin up even though there is no one to lean it on. he cares about you but maybe some day the test of time won't matter and you will finally show his parents that you love each other
x0 dani--trust me

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Hey! I have this really close friend of mine but lately we have started to drift apart from each other. We were especially close--from calls every day to zero calls now. Um, this all started when our council had this summer camp thing at my school and it taught us a lot about ourselves and friendships and it like, totally opened my eyes. I now saw how much she took advantage of me, even when I was a completely loyal friend. Now, I feel because we're not talking to each other anymore, she is trying to make the rest of our council and the rest of my friends turn against me. What shall I do??

signed,
lost

ok well make sure that you tell your friends that she is trying to do this horrible act but if she does have them turn against you then they are not and have never been your true friends.
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i heard that if you put toothpaste on your pimple overnight, the next day it because less red and smaller. do ya think colgate works well ?

personally from experience...i dont think it works. try clearasil or any acne fighting cream or ointment. if toothpaste has worked for you in the past, then continue with it and use colgate

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Ok .. I don't want to ask my parents, or friends, so Im just going to ask u guys:

What is a dildo??????????????????????

thanks .. i rate good answeres =D

its really disgusting...but it is a fake, rubber, winkie that women use as a substitute for a winkie

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okay so i am around 5'3 and i weigh around 130.. i have stomach fat and i have been doing crunches for a long time and they dont help that much.. my question is, what can i do to lose this stomach fat?

eat more strictly and run a few times
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I'm tired of my super straight hair and since it's nasty outside it doesn't come out straight anyways so I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on what kind of scrunching gel or whatever works best and keeps the "wet" look even when you're hairs dry? And eliminates frizzyness too? I've heard of Pantene has one but i'm not sure. Thanks for all your help. I rate high.

ok i love to scrunch my hair...first wet your hair then let it towel dry for about 5-10 minutes... then brush your hair smooth with a comb. tthen take some mousse in your hands and start scrunching your hair then keep using mousse and scrunching until its curly then take hair spray and spray your head with it...keep scrunching throughout the first half hour after your done...it should be perfect
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Hey. I'm so close...so close to killing myself. Everyday I have to FIGHT not to, its the hardest thing i've ever done. My mom knows... im seeing 3 colnsulars.. but nothing helps. Nothing at all makes me want to live anymore. It hurts to talk, it hurts to smile... I've stopped doing everything i used to love. Nothing can make me happy. I don't want to hurt my friends though, their the only ones keeping me from..ehh. If you cant help me, please do..

please dont kill yourself...every 25 seconds someone dies from suicide. there are lots of people who love you and dont want anything to happen to you. try doing something you like...get a vanilla and chocolate swirl ice cream with rainbow sprinkles on top..and look at each color..each color represents a good quality about you..name those qualities and then eat the ice cream before it melts because if it melts then time is running out to believe in yourself..
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Ok i'm ahving a swimming party for my b-day and i might invite some guys and i kinda ahve a pooch and the guy i like might coem and i was wondering how i get a flat stomcah in about 1-2 weeks.i have volleyball practice in the mornings at 6 30 so we run there and when i get home i'm really tired so no like real powerful stuff.i rate high

well try doing-- pushups crunches situps running eating carbs but not a lot (carbs give you energy) and other excersises...
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My brother is away for the week and i'm normally allowed to stay up to 11 and my brother makes sure i go to bed. So i'm staying up later (a lot later) and i'm eating a lot at night. i'm afraid that i'm going to gain a lot of weight because i'm not going to be able to work it off. i don't want to throw it up because 1.that's just nasty 2.it's unhealthy 3.if i try it i might continue and become bulimic. could someone help me on what to do?

excellent choice not to throw it up!! you are smart. you wont really gain weight as long as you excersice during the week...try to go to sleep a little earlier because i know from experience that when you continuously go to sleep late, you get grumpy and low patienced.
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Ok see im 13 and im normal weight for a 13 yr old girl, but it seems like all the boys in my grade are smaller.. i mean literly smaller than me- shorter and less weight. i don't no what the " deal " .

Help so i can undersatnd

its the same thing with me...boys develop slower than us girls...now you know why they are less mature...but anyway its also because boys are usually more active than girls...but its mostly because they are not matured yet

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is there anything wrong with being a guy and listing to britney spears.

nahh i dont think so. many guys like her..you are intouch with yourself and what you like...keep it that way
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well you see i have this friend lets call her...d wel my friend d uses all these weird words like instead of saying blister she says "blist" and like instead of saying runner she says "runn" what should i do?
haha! jkjk
hmm guess who this is hmmm...
u popped my blist at the beach
hmmmmmm
xox-popped blist

well person...cough cough kara...she isnt annoying...shes just different
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Hey. I'm 13/female. See, my mom just sent me to go live with my dad who.. well he hits me a lot, and sometimes he touches me in places that..ehh your father shouldn't go. And yes, my mom does know this, she just doesn't want me and my sister living with her full time. I cant tell the police because im the only person he does stuff to and it owuld kill my sister and step-family if he were put away... and the would all hate me. I'm thinking about just..ending everything but i don't want to hurt my friends. Can anyone help.. ?

you need to tell someone reliable. you must have a horrible mother to not take immediate action. fathers are not supposed to do things like that. hitting...well i hear stories of that a lot but touching you in private areas...ew...tell an adult, and if it comes to the last resort...TELL THE POLICE...they can help you and will help your father. please listen to me!!!
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ok, im 13 and i have a boyfriend,we talk and everything, hes like a best friend...actually more then a best friend..but anyways im just relizing what if he asked me to be his girlfriend because he was pressured??????

what do i do exactly???

if he was really a good boyfriend, you wouldnt have questions about him like this. im sure its all ok, i mean, he would have broken up with you already if he wasnt happy...
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What are some things that turn on a guy whenever a girl does something?
[Example: Biting ear, kissing neck?]

well i think hugging and smiling at him would be good...
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Hey my name is meaghan, and I really want a nickname for myself besides meg. I`m having a hard time finding a nickname, i just want a pretty one, not a goofy-ish one...i used to have the nickname mya but i got sick of it, so if anyone has any ideas on what i could use as a nickname, i would love to hear your ideas!


things about me:

I`m 15
Puerto rican, colombian , spanish
Dark hair

just in case you needed that to help you think of ideas.


THANK Y0U S0O0O0O MUCH ! x3

well its difficult to come up with a nickname off the bat but when i wanted a new nickname, i told people to call me the first 4 letters of my last name...stru...it kind of stuck
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ok well i am really bad at math. like pretty bad. and at school i always get a different test then everyone else bc the work they do is too hard (so the teacher thinks about me). it really bugs me and ll the kids are like " aww lucky!!" i do get ok grades for math about that but, it just bugs me. i have three tutors, and they kinda help. its like i have a mental block. but i was born that way and its not my fault. and when the teacher asks me a hard question that all the other kids know and i get it wrong they all look at me and its sooo embarrassing! idk what to do, i do my best at math and i try hard but, you know. most of the stuff in homeroom math i dont even know bc i dont go to that math class, i go to an "easier one" with my totur!! HELP
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signed,
math wizz i wish

dont pay attention to the people who laugh at you. just remember that you tried your best and there is nothing you can do about it. you can go up to your teacher and please ask her to talk to the students about laughing at you. its truly not nice. try studying a little harder and doing a few math problems a night. and make sure you read in your spare time. reading increases vocabulary and understanding of word problems.
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I just got a brand new Ipod. I set up Itunes and everything, but i already have Limewire. I totally need help loading the song from Limewire to the library of the Itunes. Help please! I rate high!!!

ok i have an ipod also...i downloaded limewire and it totally screwed up my whole computer...$300 worth of fixing i suggest deleting limewire because it slows down your internet and entire computer.
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if you talk to a boy online and you never saw him and you love eachother and have soo much in common and stuff, is that considered have a boyfriend even though you have never saw him and stuff?? bc i really love this guy and he feels the sam way but he lives real far away. is this like a boyfriend? and if it is say i went out with him and then i have a boyfriend here, would that be cheating on my online boyfriend?
I RATE SOOOO HIGH!!!
please help me quick!!

signed,
young, curious and in love

ok first..whatever you do...NEVER GO TO SEE HIM unless you are with a supervised adult. stories of kidnappings and rapes are heard pultiple times a week. stay safe..if you think you are in love then you may be just in lust. be careful who you talk to.
xox danii trust me

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How do you get rid of pimples.. fast as possible that is.

well, pimples are a change that symbolizes growing up. my face is invested with acne. but i try my hardest to get rid of it. a common suggestion will probably be clearasil, it doesn't work for all people but it does for some. proactiv works for many people...it just didnt for me. i now use clinique acne cream and wash it works really well...
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