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Hey! My name is Kenzie, and I am your average 14 year old girl! I have lots of friends and enjoy helping people. I like listening to music and playing my guitar and volunteering at my Local Humaine Society to get animals new homes. Hope you e-mail me and if you have any problems. Don't be shy.

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ok, i have this friend and i really am good friends with her..and then theres a guy i like and i finally got his sn and then she asked for it. i know this sounds really stupid. but i just dont want to give it to her.. i know that she doesnt like him but something is telling me not to..should i? *

I don't think you should have to giver it to her if you don't want to. You can always tell her that you don't want to give her the screen name but then you can say you forgot what it was.

HoPe I hElPeD!

Hey. Well, there's this boy I like in my school, and I he may like me to, as to what my friend said...but I didn't hear the whole thing. Well, I found out her liked me when he was going out with his ex, so I didn't rush anything because I didn;t want to break them up. The later on broke up because she was cheating on him with 2 other guys, but no he goes out with another girl. I was so upset when they said he had a new girlfriend because I figured, why would he go out with another girl if he really liked me. I don't know what to do, and I think about him all of the time, what should I do because I really, really like him and I'm not to the type to make the first move!

Tell him your feelings.

My friend is thinking of committing suicide what should I do?

Get help and tell them whats going on. Talk to your friend and tell her that her life is worth living.

I know this is wrong but i got myself into some serious mess.My bestfriend has a bf and they been together for 9 months and the other day me and him saw each other at this one place and we ended up in his car doing things.I feel really bad i don't know if i should tell her or not.I dont want to but i dont want her finding out from anybody else because i love her so much she is like my sister.IM confused plz help!

Well you will have to tell her sooner or later because whichever way she finds out(and she will eventually) so there isn't any reason with hiding it.

I have a problem with spyware. I turn on my computer and instead of my regular background it has this thing that says "Warning spyware.." blah blah blah. And you know on the bottom of your screen theres icons you can click, well its there too. It's making me mad...I have tried un-installing anything that it might be in my add/remove programs. Thats not doing anything. I'm hoping someone who knows a lot of computers could help me out. How do I get rid of this? And getting a spyware-removal program wont work, it seems to make it worse. I will rate you!

You can get rid of it by totally re-booting your computer or you can call people that work for computer companies and they can usually help better. The Spyware romoval things are the spyware viruses. DELETE THEM!

I want to buy a pair of vans from a website and I'm wondering..do they run small..big or just regular size?

They run in any size, but it really depends on what kind you want.

what is the best position to sleep in while on your period? thanks

Your back or your stomach. Then again, whichever way feels comfortable will work. :)

Ok so there's this guys Shawn, and he doesn't live here. We have been off and on since the summer, and i'm so insecure about the relationship because all the other guys i've been with have been pricks. I never see him so i dont consider it a relationship..and i can't just be friends with him because i have stronge feelings for him, and it's not going to work ever again. But it hurt's so much when i see him sign on or talk or think about him. He was the first real guy that accepted my eating disorder and my cutting habbits. I need to get over him because i don't wanna feel this weay anymore. But everytime i try it feel's as if i can't feel the same way with another guy. I'm thinking of deleting his s.n and getting ride of anything that has to do with him..taking him out of the picture completley. (Because if he really loves me then he'll be there later in life, right?) What do you think?

I think you should consider being friends even if it doesn't feel right because then you will be even closer and better off than you ever felt with someone.

okay im going to get to the point, i lost my viriginty to a boy who is 2 years older then me, were werent going out but i like him alot, and im not one of those bout it type of girls either. But anyways i lost it to him and we kept talking and we also kept doin it. It sounds dumb but we never really talked in between, we talked sumtimes when we were together but that was it. Every time i asked him somthing about himself he would get defensive, i know he has had bad past realtionships and he doesnt trust girls but...i dont know, then i finnaly spoke up about the way he treats me like his hoe, and he said fuck it but then changed his mind and apologized. He is like an emotional roller coaster and i care for him alot, and i think he cares to by the things he does but he doesnt want to, you know what i mean? hes in a gang and considers that his family but recently they just ditched him in a situation where him and one of his homeboys were stuck to face like 100 guyz by themselves they just all out bailed on him, and he got mad and turned around and yelled at me "and you were not talking any more", i really care about him but i dont know how to reach him or w.e hes complicated, and i wanna stop the fucking, and become more of a friend, but i wanna be with him, i dunno im so confused. I know i should move on but i cant help it, im stuck to him hes my first. But i really want to understand him too, any advice, thankx ill rate you...xOx

I totally understand you. Don't be afraid to tell him your feelings. Tell him that you feel distant and want to be closer.

I had this friend since like kindergarden,and we've been like bark on a tree, 2 peas in a pod. Then now, in 7th grade, she had a scheldue with all of these super popular people, and became best friends with like all of them. I'm not jelous, but like she won't even say hi o me when she's with them. Now, I'm not like super nerd, but I'm definetly not super popular. She acts so different and stupid when she's with them. I hate her being a fake~~!

I know how you feel. Talk to her and tell her how you feel about the whole thing/

There's this girl at my school who's a total bitch and talks about everyone. She always says nasty things about people who aren't just like her and thinks she's so much better than everyone. Just the other day she was making fun of a guy that's in a wheelchair & in the hospital because he's having problems with his lungs. She said "wow what a retard... Why are we wasting our time talking about him?" like it was some big joke. People told her that was REALLY mean but she burst out laughing like it was the funniest thing in the world.

She also found out that me & my friend said something about her.. Now she yells shit at us in the halls & even drew on a picture of us in a classroom. I'm so sick of her acting so childish. We'll both tell her to grow up & get a life but she just keeps on doing it & dragging other people into it. It's getting so irritating and really getting to me.

What am I supposed to do? I can't just ignore it anymore.

She just thinks that putting other people down will make her cool. SHe isn't cool and she needs to know what other people think about her. DOn't ignore it. Tell her what you think of her and don't be afraid of she says back. That is what she wants in the first place.SOunds like she needs a reality check on what life is.

ok well im not quite sure how to ask this but....anyways my boyfriend came over today and fingered me but i didnt orgasm or even come close and im not sure why like i felt like i had to go to the bathroom realli bad so i like tried to hold it but i wasnt sure ...and does what im thinking while hes fingering me effect having an orgasm?

I think so

my best friend well that is what she says that she is my best friend but she keeps hangin out with tiffany my other friend and she just leaves me out when she grabs tiffany away from me or like if a am standing by tiffany she get right in the middle of us. And she is not good sercet keeper wut should i do should i till be her friend even though she leaves me out of stuff and the only reason i and her friend still is because the school is a cathoic school and there are only like 13 kids in a class. what should i do

Tell her that you think she is leaving you out. If she gets in the middle of you two, move to the other side of her.

Ok, I'm 13/f and my parents won't allow me to have a boyfriend. I've tried almost everything!! If any of ya have any ideas to get my parents to think it's ok to let me have a boyfriend, please message me!!

Tell them that you already have guyfriends and a boyfriend is the same thing.

I think I might have diabetes because:

1. I feel tired and sleepy a lot of times
2. I'm always hungry (but I've always had a big appetite) and lately I've been eating a LOT
but I'm not overweight
3. and thirsty
4.my maids told me that there are ants in my panty!

I'm only 20 yrs old...anyway can anyone share info about what procedure is done to test if I have diabetes? where do I go to?

I have phobia with injections getting blood from me, will I have to do this? some sort of glucose tolerance test? how much blood will they get from you for the test?

People younger have diabetes too but you can go to a doctor and tell him whats been happening and ask the doctor if you can have a test done to see if you are positive for diabetes.

You might need an injection but only to take a little blood for the test. They won't get that much from you. At the most, a teaspoon

I ahve ben going out with this girl for about 11 months and we both want to do things together but we never have time between school and sports we dont really get to see eachother and her parents are going out next weekend and she'll be home alone should we just do it then or should we wait and not have to take the chance of her parents coming home early and catching us what should we do????

You two should get together whenever you two have the chance. I would go over and hand out with her.

Im 17f and ive never had a boyfriend. It used to bug me, but i dont have a problem with it anymore. Not to sound conceited, but i could easily get a boyfriend if i wanted one. But right now Im not really looking for one. Plus, i have high standards. Well my family constantly makes fun of me because ive never had a boyfriend. And my sister (14, who is the hugest slut and will have sex with anyone who says hi to her) always calls me a lesbian. Then my dad and her will laugh and make jokes back and forth about it. It really offends me that they say things like this because it hurts, even if its not even true. I try to not let it bother me, but they do it all the time and its hard to ignore. Ive already told them to shut up about it, but then they bother me even more. What am i supposed to do? Even if they are joking, it still bugs me.

Tell them that even if it is a joke, it isn"T funny. You should tell them how you really feel. Say that it hurts you and that it isn't right of them.

hey Im 13/f and im in the 8th grade lately I have been thinking about college and I plan to go. I just dont know whats the best college to apply to in or around NY or not to far away I need to know things about it and like top 10 best thnx

I don't know too much about colleges but you can go online and do a search of colleges that are in your area and see which ones fit you most.

there is going to be a dress up day at school on s. patricks day and we have to wear a st. patricks day shirt i love good luck bear from the carebears selection does any one know where i can get a good luck bear shirt???

Hot Topic. Almost anywhere they have shirts because Care Bears are totally in these days.

okay so i like this boy names josh and he is really sweet and nice and just perfect! well so i think. and we went to this place for school and he was always tellin me how pretty i was and how he loved to spend time with me and we even started to cuddle twords the end of the day. and well we went back to school and i barley ever see him at school maybe like 2 times when we're walkin down the hall but thats it! and we say hi to eachother and maybe talk for 1 minute but then we are off to class again! well tonight there is a party and he and i will both b there and im just wondering if he even still likes me... should i try and dance with him? and flirt with him? cuz its been 2 weeks since we were on that feild trip thing... so can if you can help me thatd b great!
thanks

If I were you, I would definitely go for it! Especially if he says he thinks you're pretty. Flirt with him and see if he flirts back.

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