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I'm 18 and about to enter my sophomore year of college. Feel free to ask me questions about anything- I'll try to help in the best way possible! :)
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How do you make your tummy flatter and more toned and your thighs less jiggly?
What kind of exercises?
Cardio. Run, bike, use gym equipment.
Hi!
I was talking to a few girls from the year above me and they were kind of giving me a heads-up on what to expect next year at school. We were discussing some projects that I will be required to do, most likely, and I had this idea for one.
Bands, musicians, musical artists that just disappeared overnight.
We talked about it and came up with some of the 90s boybands (nsync, backstreet boys, five, lfo, hanson) but beyond that we're kind of clueless. Does anyone know of any music person or group that just suddenly seemed to disappear overnight? Like they were suddenly not popular any more. Any suggestions at all would be GREAT!
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i'm leaving for college this weekend. i dont really have a question but i just need some advice and words of encouragement. i'm a super shy person and i really want to be outgoing and make new friends. please help me! i'm nervous that i will be the same shy person i was before and that i'll be depressed and just want to go home every weekend.
I'm going to take it that you're dorming? Dorming makes it so much easier to make new friends! College takes you out of your comfort zone, but this is the time to grow and meet tons of new people! When you move in, keep your door open. Talk to your new floormates and try to get to know as much as possible about them. Be outgoing and introduce yourself. You're in a place where EVERYBODY is feeling the same way as you now! Honestly, EVERYBODY is looking for friends and to meet new people. In my opinion, being outgoing right from the get-go will definitely help!
do u ave 2 ave sex 2 use a tampoon
Absolutely not.
I have this vaginal odor, I CANT GET RID OF! I have done everything and it just keeps coming back....Plz help me!
A strange odor could be a sign of infection. I would make an appointment at the OBGYN just to make sure.
how can i mastrabate ? i finger and it dont work besides an el. toothbr. how can i get off?
oh and im A 17 yr girl
If you want to check out www.solotouch.com, there's tons of different techniques on how to masturbate.
Two weeks ago, my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex. I started my period on Wednesday. But, it's been going off and on every other day. This is unusual to me. I have been feelig really light headed. Could I be pregnant?
Unprotected sex=higher risk of pregnancy. Yes, you could be pregnant. Take a pregnancy test or go to the doctor.
20F. I'm going to come out and say this, if you're just going to criticize me for wanting to have fun with a guy, don't even bother I just need advice on how to make this situation happen!
So a few weekends ago I hooked up with this guy Nick, we didn't have sex he basically only fingered me and we made out ..for a long time. Anyways the time we were texting he forgot to save my number because he had been drinking but I still have his.
I had a good time last time we hooked up, pleased me like no other haha but thats not the point. My parents are leaving this coming week, and I'm going to have some people over and I definitely want him to come. I never usually text guys first, I'm too scared of rejection, who isn't? But would it be weird to say something like: Hey Nick it's Linds i'm having people over you should come!
But what if he can't? I want him to know that I wanna have fun with him again, if you know what I mean. I just feel stupid texting him first, and he doesn't have my number since he forgot to save it which is even worse. Last night he texted my friend telling her to come to a party and to bring me but we couldn't! :( so I'm sure he would wanna see me but whats a good way to go about this situation??
Definitely text him. He's obviously interested in you, and if you don't get ahold of him he won't be able to contact you because he doesn't have your number!
Just text him! Say something like "Hey Nike.. I'm planning on having a few people over on Saturday. You should definitely come! :)" Just be friendly. Obviously you guys have hooked up, and you're both interested in hanging out again, I think you both know that something is bound to happen again physically.
What are some things to do to a guy while you're making out/being fingered? I feel like its harder to to something when i'm laying on top of him because when he's on top of me i'll run my hands through his hair or touch is body but thats all i can think of. Its hard when hes kissing my all over and fingering me I feel like I can't really move.
Can someone please give me some advice? :)
Go with whatever feels natural, try not to think about what you should do as much as how you REALLY feel at that moment. Enjoy what's going on and go with the flow. Let loose.
You could try touching him down there, breathing heavy/moaning can sometimes just feel natural, and just touching him all over.. If he's on top you could always grab onto his back and kiss his neck as he's fingering you. You just have to go with the flow :)
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ANYONE WHO GOES OR WENT TO MSJC
I have a couple questions.
If you are waitlisted on all the classes you picked, what are you suppose to do?
Do you just show up on the day school starts which is 8/18/09 and sit there with the rest of the people.
I just don't understand how these classes work,
I don't even know my way around the school!
What am i suppose to do??
I'm a new student to college. I'm reallllyy nervoussss
any help greatly appreciated.
If you're a freshman or transfer, there's usually an orientation before you get thrown into the school. Try contacting the school about it. Orientation tells you everything you need to know before you arrive.
Okay, Sometimes when I go to the bathroom and I wipe myself after going pee I have this clear white sticky gooish stuff on the toilet paper I don't know what it is? It doesn't smell, burn and it's not painful at all. I have no idea what it is?! Could anyone give me any suggestions?
Thanks so much!
BahaiMa22
Discharge, and it's completely healthy. Unless there were weird colors, burning, or a strong odor, you're fine.
Okay, so me and my boyfriend are going out for 7 months it will be our 8 month anniversary on February 27th. He is absolutely amazing and i am really in love with him. He literally is like the perfect boyfriend. but for a little while we had a period where we would like get "testy" with each other over everything, even jokes. but now we are okay is that normal in a long relationship like this?
(I'm 15 (almost 16 in september) and hes 17 (almost 18 in july) and we had sex for the first time at the end of our 6th month. it was Both of our first times if that helps at all.) (i was ready to do it, so please dont say i wasnt even if thats what you really think)
Yep, it's definately normal. When you're with somebody for that long, you probably see them a lot, and at times you can get kinda sick of them and clash a bit. You both know that you love eachother well enough to just say how you feel and be yourselves.
latley, ive been really bored with life. i havent had any suiciadal thoughts of any kind. im just bored with life...i do the same stuff everyday. and then i got to sleep, wake up, and then do the same stuff. is their something wrong with me?
No, from the information you provided it doesn't seem as if something's wrong. You are probably bored with your routine. When it's the offseason for sports I'm always bored with my routine too. Try to get involved with things at school, volunteer, or get a job. It'll add more things to your schedule and you won't seem so bored.
ia it normal for your cherry to pop while getting fingered? are there any diseases you could get? is it safe? thanks
Yes, it's normal. There aren't any STD type of diseases that you can get, but if your partners hands are dirty/they have dirty finger nails you might get some kind of infection. Make sure that their hands are clean.
did they really stop making the small ipod nano's if so y
Yes. Usually when any type of technology is updated, they stop making them. You can still probably find them around, but now that there's a new generation of iPods out, those are the 'new' nanos that are going to be sold all over.
Alright, Im f 16 5'5 145lbs. IM NOT FAT.. && I know Im not.. But I have like I wanna baby fat that I have from tearing my ACL a year ago, and not doing anything untill now, Basketball. Im built small, but im strong and thats where I get most my weight.
I dont care about the weight. But that little fat I have from not doing anything. You can really see it when I sit and I have pants on, and hangs out. Everyone does, but I dont like mine, It never use to be there. Now Im not suppose to be sickly skinny, but skinny. What good healthy girls look like. I have big boobs a small stomach, but that little fat.
I told you all that so you dont think Im crying about this little fat I have and Im sickly skinny. Bc Im not..
So what can I do to help make that fat smaller. I use to have abs before I got hurt.
What can I eat to help make that fat go away. I run at basketball, so I already do that.
Im going to start running on sundays when we dont have practice. But tell me some good foods to eat. Im a very picky eater, and I dont like most veggies. Fruits I can do, but I dont like Oranges,I like the juice, just not the oranges hahaha..
Thank you so much and Im very sorry it was long..
I snapped my ACL & got surgery, too! So I know how you feel. After my surgery when I couldn't do anything for like 6 months I gained weight and lost all muscle (I'm used to playing sports often) What you have to do is stay active, make sure that you're exercising almost every day. This past summer I babysat everyday so I rode my bike there and back, then I went for an additional long bike ride later or a run. While doing this I didn't really cut anything out of my diet or eat anything specific, but if you're concerned with what you eat, everytime you eat/drink something, write down the time you ate, what you ate, and how many calories there were. It helps you to keep track of what you're eating so that you don't overeat that day. It helps! Good luck.
Ok, so I think my hymen might have broken, but I'm still a virgin. I'm only 14, and sex seems like a scary thing to me. I think it might have broken while putting a tampon in. Later this month, I have a doctors appt, for kidney stones, and they have to go up inside me. I'm worried that if it really did break, they'll tell my mom. She would freak out. I don't think she'd believe that I've never had sex. Do you know maybe what I could do? Like, what I could maybe tell her?
The doctor's wouldn't tell your mother that your hymen was broken unless you were at risk of dying, and you aren't. Your doctor also isn't really checking to see if it's still intact, he/she's checking for kidney stones. Even if they did notice that it was broken, they are multiple reasons why it is. You can break your hymen not only from sex, but also common activities like bike riding, horseback riding, play sports, using a tampon, etc.
is it true with those new ipod nano's with the video that you can't put your songs from limewire to it??
i don't have it, or limewire i just heard that.
Is it true?
No, I just got the new nano like 3 days ago and I use limewire. Just drag it into ITunes and it should work fine.
How old should i be to have it
Whenever you're ready. Not just phyiscally, but mentally and emotionally. Don't do it until you know that you're 100% ready. You might make a mistake that you'll regret later on.
If someone fingers you are you still a virgin?
Yeah.