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I want to have fun with him again! ;)
20F. I'm going to come out and say this, if you're just going to criticize me for wanting to have fun with a guy, don't even bother I just need advice on how to make this situation happen!
So a few weekends ago I hooked up with this guy Nick, we didn't have sex he basically only fingered me and we made out ..for a long time. Anyways the time we were texting he forgot to save my number because he had been drinking but I still have his.
I had a good time last time we hooked up, pleased me like no other haha but thats not the point. My parents are leaving this coming week, and I'm going to have some people over and I definitely want him to come. I never usually text guys first, I'm too scared of rejection, who isn't? But would it be weird to say something like: Hey Nick it's Linds i'm having people over you should come!
But what if he can't? I want him to know that I wanna have fun with him again, if you know what I mean. I just feel stupid texting him first, and he doesn't have my number since he forgot to save it which is even worse. Last night he texted my friend telling her to come to a party and to bring me but we couldn't! :( so I'm sure he would wanna see me but whats a good way to go about this situation??
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Definitely text him. He's obviously interested in you, and if you don't get ahold of him he won't be able to contact you because he doesn't have your number!
Just text him! Say something like "Hey Nike.. I'm planning on having a few people over on Saturday. You should definitely come! :)" Just be friendly. Obviously you guys have hooked up, and you're both interested in hanging out again, I think you both know that something is bound to happen again physically.
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Shound like he wants to see you too hes proably being beating himslef up for not saving your number. You should text him ans ay come and hang out, but make it sound like he should and not you asking him too much. If he wnats to see you too, its because he likes you and will not just reject you without a real reason. Just say he should copme not will he. nad if he says yeah i should say do then good luck x
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your idea sounds good :) also tell him that you had a good time last time you were together (but don't sound desperate) say you'd look forward to seeing him! if he can't make it then explain that you'd like to meet up with him some other time when you're both free.. ask him if he'd be interested and decide between yourselves when you're going to meet up for "fun" ha :) good luck.
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