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boyfriend of almost 8 months.


Question Posted Friday February 8 2008, 10:40 am


Okay, so me and my boyfriend are going out for 7 months it will be our 8 month anniversary on February 27th. He is absolutely amazing and i am really in love with him. He literally is like the perfect boyfriend. but for a little while we had a period where we would like get "testy" with each other over everything, even jokes. but now we are okay is that normal in a long relationship like this?

(I'm 15 (almost 16 in september) and hes 17 (almost 18 in july) and we had sex for the first time at the end of our 6th month. it was Both of our first times if that helps at all.) (i was ready to do it, so please dont say i wasnt even if thats what you really think)


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kipjoyner answered Friday February 8 2008, 5:20 pm:
Yes that's totally normal in long relationships.

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xogiggles37xo answered Friday February 8 2008, 5:19 pm:
That is perfectly normal. Don't stress it. I've been in a relationship for a year and three months. The same thing happens with me and my boyfriend every once and a while.

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lilprincess213 answered Friday February 8 2008, 4:33 pm:
Your going strong i can tell.. fighting is just a stage in a relationship the more you fight that just means its testing your love for each other if u guys get mad at each other and break up the first fight what wood that prove

-Try that-
~lilprincess213~ =D

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Guidance_Girl555 answered Friday February 8 2008, 4:23 pm:
Don't worry it's perfectly normal to have ups and downs in any relationship, no matter how long it's been going on for. As long as you don't constantly have severe arguments, I don't think you have anything to worry about. If you love him and he loves you, that's all that matters, as long as he treats you right everything should go great=D

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askallyanything answered Friday February 8 2008, 4:15 pm:
Relationships are just like roller coasters. They go up and down and up and down. When the two of you are feeling good and things seem to be going well, this is called the "hearts and flowers" phase. Every couple goes through this no matter how old you are. It's been a while since I have been in high school, however, I dated a guy for nearly four years in high school. Now, I am married with kids, (not to the same guy), and we go through our ups and downs. You are still very young - I know that no teenager likes to hear that - I sure didn't, but nonetheless it is true. It is very normal to go through times in a relationship where you will tend to get on each others nerves. Just remember that sex does complicate things, especially when you are only 16. There are many emotions attached, especially for a woman, when it comes to being intimate with someone. It is important to have open communication and to vent your frustrations with one another. It is actually very heathly to argue - as long as you do it the right way. Good luck - and congratulations on being in-love.

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leLovely answered Friday February 8 2008, 4:05 pm:
Yep, it's definately normal. When you're with somebody for that long, you probably see them a lot, and at times you can get kinda sick of them and clash a bit. You both know that you love eachother well enough to just say how you feel and be yourselves.

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Marizzle answered Friday February 8 2008, 4:03 pm:
Hell yea its normal.
I still do it now.
Its really difficult aswell, but you know once your throught that bit of the relationship you know you can get through anything, and if he loves you and you love him then theres nothing stopping you. <3Marizzlex

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