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Please read! This is the most confusing and hurtful thing that happened to me!
I have a boyfriend and I really love him. Even though I still am going out with him I've liked this guy soooo much this whole year! This guy knew that I liked him and he liked me to. Like 2 weeks ago him and his girlfriend broke up. While they were going out he was telling me that he really does like me and that he wants to go out with me. Well, he asked me out but I was still going out with my boyfriend. This weekend we didnt talk much. When I did he told me he wasnt over his ex girlfriend! I dont know what to do! Im heart broken! He told me he liked me and now I`m not in the picture anymore. He forgot about me and moved on! Please help! What did I do to change his mind that quick. I cant talk to him about this and I wont so please dont tell me to! Help! Im so confused and hurt.
O.k. This guy iz obviously a jerk if he thinks that of you. I think you just need to carry on in your life. There's someone out there just for you, and he's obviously to much of a jerk to be the one for you.if you broke up with you b/f then see if you can get back together w/ him but if you didnt then you dont really have too much of a problem.
Across the street from me, an elderly couple sold their house and the people that bought it have two young boys, ages 4 and 7 I believe. They have asked me if I'd like to babysit for them and that's fine with me. I've babysat before but normally I'd do it free of charge. It's come the time where I'm getting older and I need to get money. I'll be driving in a year and my parents aren't going to be paying for my gas and car insurance. What would be a good amout of money to ask for? I don't want to be asking for too much. I'm 15/ female.
O.k. 5 dollars an hour iz wat i would do. It's not much, but it's polite. Normally people just pay you the amount they want to give you.
Thanx: Lacey
Ok!
My friend always texts me on my phone! And we were on the phone w/ a boy the other nite! So yesterday i got this text from my friend saying that the boy we were talking to ( that i like ) said i was annoying! i was like no! She then texts me saying i was jk! I was like ooooo! SHe does it a lot and it is really annoying is it normal 4 me to be mad at her! cause she does it at least twice a day!
Taller
If you think she's so anoying get back at her. Think of some ideas like the guy she likes. Say stuff to her that's possibly not true. See wat her reaction iz and tell her about wat you feal like when she does that to you to. Then she'll totaly understand. Hope you take my advice. It can be mean, but it will work.
i think my brother smokes with his friends cuz when he gets home he smmells like cigarettes but im not sure if its him i know for sure his friends smoke but im not sure if he does i dont want to tell my parents because my parents will just tell him that i think he smokes my parents warn him alot but i dunno if smokes or not what should i do
confused...
you've got a bad situation here. Ok? If you care bout your bro. so much, ask him if he's smoking or if hiz friends are convensing him to. If You love your bro. alot, you need to tell your parents wat iz going on. You are supposed to be brave. Not scared of wat others think about you. At least you know deep down in your heart, that you love him alot. He may be a pain sometimes, but you gotta tell someone about it.
I HOPE YOU TAKE MY ADVICE!!!!!!!!!
Thanx: Lacey
Alright, I came to the realization that I love this guy that I have been friends with for nearly 5 years. He lives a couple of hours away from me so we talk on the phone. My question is, should I tell him that I love him? Would it freak him out? Would it make things wierd? Should I tell him why I love him? Im in a biit of a spot right now. All comments are well appreciated. Thank you so much.
~Nokomis~
O.k. Nokomis,
If you really like your friend call him and tell him how you feal about him. If he freaks,
there's alot guys out there. There's a guy out there for you, and you need to find him. Make sure that the guy you like, likes your personality, if not he's going for your looks. Ask him wat he likes in a girl when you call him. And then tell him everything you like about him.
my parents are divorced and it seems that all my friends have a very happy family. i cant help but feel theres something wrong with me...why cant i have a perfect family and perfect life like everyone else? what have i done wrong!??!
Hi, well parents are divorced to, but I get to see my mom every now and then. Nobody has a perfect life, only one person does and that's Jesus just to let you Know. Every now and then you are going to think your life is not perfect.
Well everybody makes mistakes and your parents prob. meen alot to you. My parents talk to eachother every now and then. Hope wat i said answers your Question. Thanx. -Lacey-
My dog has REALLY bad dandruff(sp?) and i do not know what to do. Is this normal? Ive tried brushing him but theres just so much! Does anyone know of any good products?
O.k. well how often are you washing youre dog? If alot that's wat is causing the dog bad dandruff. Try washing your dog every 2 weeks. It helps my dogs. Hope you take my advice.
My mom waon't let me have a b/f or watch some R movies. It seems like she is Overprotecting me from the outside world. What should i do? HELP!
Feelings from the inside out,
Jess P.S- I rate HIGH!
O.k. Jess, I don't Know wat the answer is, but if you find a Teen bible, you could get the answer from GOD, trust me it really worked when I thought my parents were overprotective with me, hope you take my advice.
Ok so I'm 15/m, and I was at a school function, and some girl that I didn't know danced with me. So after I left she got my AIM screen name from one of my friends and went home and asked me to the prom and and asked if I would go over to her house Friday to have dinner and a movie and all that stuff. Problem is, I really don't like her, and I don't really know her at all either. What should I say?
O.k. Hi My names Lacey I'm about your age, so i'll help you. If you don't like her then tell her maybe yall can just be friends, and do fun stuff together, but if you really don't like her that way, then tell her the truth. Tell her wat you really feal about her. She'll find someone else to like.I've never had a b.f. and all the guy's i liked put me down, but there also just my friends, so things will hopefully work out, hope you take my advice.
i am SO ugly. i know most people think they're ugly when they aren't, but i AM. i've been called ugly before, i've seen mirrors (unforunately), and they look horrible lol! how can i sort myself out so i can look pretty? my hair is kinda frizzy, i've tried SO many products on it; frizz ease, pantene pro-v, andy collinge, herbal essences, sun silk.. and loads more. anyway, none of them prevented frizz or 'flyaway' hair. i have straighteners that aren't really all that good, worth about 60 quid. i want some ghds but i'd have to wait until like august to get them, for my birthday (unless it's worth spending my bank account on them?). and then there's the fact that i don't wear make-up. i haven't got a clue how to put it on. i don't even wear stuff like lipgloss, i'd probably get it all over the place, and if i tried eyeliner/mascara i'd end up poking my eye out! lol! so anyway i'm clueless when it comes to make-up, any tips on how to use it/the best make up to buy would be so helpful! i've worn lipgloss before, but it just feels so.. greasy, and uncomfortable, it was from the body shop i think.. anyway, if you can help me look pretty instead of an ugly duckling, i'll be really grateful. thankyou!! xo
O.k were all pretty in many different ways, but you can get cheap makeup at Mirl Normans place. There's always someone there to help you. They can put your makeup on you and show you how to put it on. You are not ugly, evan though i've never seen you. Try not to put alot of base on or you get alot of pimples. Thanx, hope you ues my advice. Love- Lacey
i am getting a cat soon...i dont know if it is a boy or a girl yet but, my problem is that i cant think of a good boy name or a good girl name. if you have any suggestions...please tell me! thanx! :)
it depends weather you like certain shows i name my cats after cars lol and im getting another one but ok well it kinda depends on how you look at the cat and how it acts really lol mine are crazy like joe
Ok, 1st off I'm hoping I can get a few good answers fairly quickly. I'm going to kiss my boyfriend for the 1st time tomorrow (2 weeks weve been going out)Im just going to kiss him on the cheek tho. I was just wondering how u guys think i should do it. Please answer quickly
you should ask yourself first before you kiss him this question. Are you ready for this. Guys like it when a girl gently presses her lips toward a guy's cheek. Just a peck will make him feal good.
Okay I dont know what exactly to say about this but I'll try. I have this problem. Everyone makes fun of me becasue I sitll think about it all the time but its something hat has really gotten into my mind. Well... I am a music freak, and I love to sing, and everyone tells me that I can sing.. and everything.. but then the person whose opinion matters the most to me just recently told me that I cant sing and in all seriousness. I want him to think that I can sing.. that I can do just as well as any of his other "favorite people" that CAN sing! It tears me up that he thinks that I cant sing... All of my friends tell me that this person is just joking and that I'm good and all.. But I still dont believe them ever since this person told me that I cant sing... I feel so horrible over it.. like I dont even want to isng anymore.. what should I do? Much help needed... And please only serious answeres for this one.
Okay, this guy is lieing. Guy's lie alot, but that can be a sighn that he likes you. I bet you can sing very pretty, and if he gets in the way of your music and says you're no good, he's obviousely jealouse. Stick with your talent though and don't let people get in the way of them.
What do you do when the only person in your family that understands you is gone?
If you're a christain read the bible and GOD will answer your question.
Ok, there is this boy named David in 1/6 of my classes. He sits in the last seat in the row next to me. My friend sits right behind me and whenever I turn to talk to her, I catch David staring at me and we suddenly make eye contact. Out of that infomation ( I might add more ), do you think he likes me?
Girl, if a guy makes eye contact with you, he likes you. If he's shy, you should talk to him more often, and maybe he'll ask you out. I wen't threw that and it's love at first site.
Say hi to him or say something and he'll show his true side. Hope you use my advise
ok im best friends with this girl i knew her before but this year we are best friends. but whenever we make plans they'll either change or she'll blow me off! i dont know why! and we've been best friends all year and i have never been inside her house but shes been to mine so many times, and she says its because shes self consicous about it but do you think shes lying? SO my question is... why do you think she is being like this and is she using me?
maybe she just wants to be friends and ive been in a situation like that and i went out with my friend and it didnt work out. there isnt a good chance that yall will stay together if yall ever go out and i think you should give her some space cause theres other girls out there and she might need some time to think about whether she likes you or not.