I CAN help you guys if you guys need it
E-mail: tenzin_35@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Occupation: student
Age: 18
Member Since: March 10, 2012
Answers: 37
Last Update: March 15, 2012
Visitors: 2398
|
| |
|
Im 16 years old in 10th grade and it seems my weekday routine is Step #1:Wake up. Step #2:Do not kill self. Step #3:Sleep. Step #4: Repeat. I have 1 or 2 "friends" at school that aren't really close they are just "friendly" to me. I have some close friends that I hangout with every weekend but during the week its so hard for me to get out of bed and go to school so i am low on attendency. I don't necessarily get bullied but I do see people pointing and staring and talking about me a lot which really makes me REALLY upset. I guess I am very sensitive. I usually come home for lunch and cry then go back to school and ill often cry at night. My parents and friends are aware of this and I go to a counselor but it doesn't seem to help at all its been getting worse and worse. I think im so ugly and I know i have a good life im not poor and i have family that loves me but I'm just so sad and I want to die. I don't want to commit suicide but I've definitely thought about it before. If I don't have something to look forward to at all times I get really depressed I usually look forward to the weekend and hanging out with my friends but now its just to hard to make it through school the whole week because it seems like I just get judged. My grades are getting low even though it seems like I try so hard I can't get them up. I try to do little things to motivate me to get myself out of bed like doing my hair a new way and things like that and it worked for a while but not anymore. I like to sleep a lot because cant feel sadness when I'm sleeping. I've never done any drugs. I'm not good at anything (seriously)I hide my face with my hair and I am emo I cut myself sometimes. I'm just tired of living....I just want to love myself but no matter what I do I just cant. (link)
| |
i think you need some one to take care of you how about engage yourself in something as empty mind is devils work shop you need to do something that makes you feel good and don't think about any thing else that bothers you.
|
|
I'm a fourteen year old girl. How can I get my boyfriend to give me a hickey? Should I give him one first? What would be the best place to give/receive a hickey? (link)
|
how about don't get it or give
and if you really want it or give it then you should make your self than usual so that it attracts him
|
There is this girl, and she thought that I didn't like her.
So our boyfriends are bestfriends, and her boyfriend is my bestfriend as well. We went to play bingo together, and her boyfriend told me that she was worried that I didn't like her.
So when she was sitting down, I went over and explained to her that I didn't have a problem with her at all, I had NO reason not to like her.
Than all of a sudden, her chest got bright red with like white dots in it.
What does that mean? (link)
|
that should probably mean she is ashamed of you now so just try to convince her
|
|
how to help a friend get over a guy? (link)
| |
sorry, but can you just make your question really clear?
|
|
shes constaniy bullied on the bus she super nice and smart people make fun of her cause shes slightly overwieght super smart and non athletic ! its horrible knowing how she was feeling cause ive been bullied to for having a big nose being cuban and just i quess diffrent ... so anyway i almost clocked this chick in the face cause im tired of this i feel so bad for my friend ill do anything i just dont want to get in trouble...help? all help is greatly appreciated :) (link)
| |
this one is really simple ask your best friend to exercise as much as possible and you just give a damn to other people what they say pretend as if you have never heard it how about listen to music with the ear phones on or you can to guardian counselor.
|
|
I wish I could have one ounce of control of my life. I'm stuck in a household that is always drama every night. I'm 20/female, and I have no one else to go to. Everyone is hateful here and threatening me they will ruin relationships with the little family I have with rumors. I didn't cause this and I'm the one left with the shame. Why did God give me this? Could I make it on $400 if I moved now? That's all I have. If I'm lucky I'll find a job somewhere but nothing is ever guaranteed. I don't have any friends or anyone that cares in my daily life. If I moved to another state, maybe that chance are better than the chances of trying to survive this hell. If nobody helps me, I might as well commit suicide tonight. (link)
|
try to get any kind of job so that it can help you make busy as empty mind is devil's work shop. so never give up
just try to engage your mind in something else
hope you feel better but never ever do that kinda bad stuffs
|
|
Well I'm 11 and when I was 10 my brother-in-law lifted up my skirt and ever since he was asking me for naked pictures and he's tried kissing me and touching me he sent me sexual messages so I told my mom about them and I deleted the messages so I didn't have proof for the police I told my sister about him lifting up my skirt but she didn't believe me please help me I don't know what to do! Oh yes and he has a child and he's 32 (link)
|
just be careful every moment!
|
|
Hello, I read all your pain (and good advice) and I agree. I am a coward, scum and will hurt people who love me and I don't want to. But I can't live any more, I have tried to slice my wrists and it hurts and I was stopped by my partner, now he hides the pills, none of my knives are sharp enough and I don't have a car. I have tried to learn how to tie a noose but none of my beams are strong enough. I know the universe is telling me not to do it, as the only thing left is to throw myself on the train tracks, yes it is a guaranteed way to die, quickly, I don't know about painlessly, but I can't affect another soul with my pain- it's bad enough my son will suffer, briefly, but my partner will quickly erase my memory. He really hates me, but won't let me leave. I am studying Psychology as I am fascinated by what makes people 'tick'. And this man I can't figure out, or leave. I have stopped suicide before because I love my son so much, he is my life and light in a dark sky, but he deserves a better life than a crazy, psychotic mother and a screaming father. I used to be happy and find joy in all things once upon a time and I know if I could leave and still be with my son, I could have a chance for happiness. But if I leave I will never see him again as his Dad is determined to have him and hurt me (I don't even think he is thinking of what is best for my son). My family and friends are sick of the drama and have told me to sort my life out, I can't keep going, coming back only to leave again. I honestly don't think they would help anymore as I have only been back 4 days and they begged me not to return, that nothing would change, that I should get my son and get out...but I had to come back for my son, or he was going to VIC, I live in QLD, and I knew I would never see him again. I had a job, and friends and was starting to really do well in my studies and the black dog of my relationship got in the way- and I gave up everything to be with my son. Unfortunately that means being with a man that resents and hates me, and that has eaten away at my soul. He is turning my 3 year old against me, my son says things like, "stop talking to Daddy, Mummy, he doesn't love you", or " Go home, Mummy you don't live here and we don't want you". I stayed at home to raise him and educate him and love him and give him every thing, but now he like every one else, doesn't want me around. So I have decided to die. I can't just run away, being away from my son, having him growing thinking I didn't love him, would be more painful than my daily life- I couldn't bear it, it's better this way. I won't bother his or his Dad's life any more and my friends and family won't have to deal with my drama. I will make sure no-one finds my body, so as not to cause undue truama- HAVE EVEN THOUGHT OF FRAMING PARTNER, BUT THEN MY SON WILL HAVE NO ONE.- I am so fucked up, so psychologically stressed, exhausted and in pain. So what is the least painful way to die, no mess or stress for anyone? I have heard good things about poison, does anyone know about this? I don't know how much help you can be, because I have decided I am doing it this week, while he is out with my son. I believe in reincarnation and I know I will come straight back to learn all these crappy life lessons again, this time I will not let love guide me- it is all a bunch of bullshit lies-love is not every thing or important, it's just another system of control. (link)
|
hey listen to me, we don't give bad advises to people
just don't ever think of dying
once i also thought of dying and i attempted but when i woke up in hospital i thought " the life that i am living is not mine that is the gift of your parents"
SO YOU NEED TO LIVE FOR YOUR FAMILY
GOD BLESS YOU
|
13 f
i go to a cstholic school i live a great life my dads a dentist my mom doesnt work and i have a lil sister hoo is 10. i was wondering if it is normal for my dad to spank my butt alot and squeeze it and go "oooo look at them buns" in a wierd voice he just spanks my butt and squeezes it alot he is catholic and a dentist but is this molest??? help!! (link)
|
this answer is based on your father's general behavior on girls and other women when they visit your dad for dental checkups
if he shows kinda naughty behavior than...............
|
I don't know what I'd do if this was true. Please help me! I'm from Australia.
Okay so my Dad and Mum have always had a strong relationship. They kiss each other goodbye each morning and never fight. About a 10 months or a year ago, my Dad added this woman on Facebook. She is American and they met online. My mother being the loving, kind person she is, completely trusted him and never questioned his motives and I kind of forgot about it. However, recently I went on to his Facebook to see if my chat was working and I found her name on the list of people most recently talked to. I clicked on their chat session and found all these messages about her wanting to see him and get a hotel room with him and how when they met up she would wear something sexy and said all this stuff about sex toys, etc. Also, I think worse things might've been said earlier because their earliest message dates back to just January and the first message on there is my Dad saying 'Deleted.'
I have told my brother and he doesn't know what to do either. I really don't want my parents to split up and I don't want to crush my Mum like that, seeing as she loves him so much.
I can't sleep or eat and I am behind in my schoolwork. I don't want to be one of those families!
What do I do? Should I approach her? (link)
| |
i think you should black mail your dad in the sense of joking with your dad and if he really loves you guys he will realize by the way how old are you guys?
|
|
I'm a single mom of three. Two girls (19,9) one boy 18 today. He won't spend time with me. He stays in his room or hangs out with friends. today is his birthday and he doesn't want to go out to dinner with us. wouldn't travel with us for thangsgiving either. Really worried. He gets good grades and is going to a great university in the fall. He also works. But I fear he's depressed, he doesn't like me or worse...Unfortuneately, Dad isn't a very positive influence. What to do? I love my son. I need to connect but don't know how. (link)
|
just let your children know that you are there for them every time and every where
but don't ask his or her friends that why is your son and daughters are depressed that can make it worse
|
|
does getting braces out of your mouth hurt? (link)
|
oh my goodness don' ask that kind of questions........
as far as my point of view it wont hurt that much as you are worried of.
|
|
I am thinking of having my birthday party at a hotel. I know it happens a lot but I dont understand how thats possible. There will be alcohol... obviously so everyone will be drinking and it just seems like a hotel room would be too small and sense we will probably be pretty noisy it seems like we would get complaints and be kicked out or have to pay extra or something. Plus there will be a few underage girls there so I wouldn't want the cops called on us... can that happen in a hotel or would they only tell you to keep it down?. I dont understand how its possible to have a party at a hotel. Advice, Tips? PLEASE!!! (and also if you know some of the best hotels to have it in that would be cool too. I live in Utah by the way) (link)
|
i just want to say DON'T TAKE RISK!!!
|
Hi I am a 30 year old male.
And let me break it right down...
I'm rich, came from a wealthy family...
Has been rich all my life, and it's a girl that I'm dating, well we are long distance...
She's in La and I'm in Miami...
So were now in a long distance relationship...
Ok, so I'm rich and she's not, and it's fine, because I don't judge people based of there income weather I should date them or not.
So a long time ago, she wanted to be my personal assistant, because she knew I was looking for one at the time. And I told her I don't mix business with pleasure, then. Plus I kinda thought that she just wanted to be my personal assistant, for the money and the fact that she could go to the hottest parties and me Celebs. So I was offended that she would offer to be that since we are suppose to be dating.
And so six months pass, and she know I don't have one, because my recent one just quick. So now she's asking again. I've had problems with her before when it came to loyalty. I've found out that she's been talking to her ex the whole time we've been talking... An we have been talking for almost two years.
Just this Christmas I found out that her ex brought her some expensive Red bottom shoes, and she's been wearing them. A couple months ago I found emails, where she had conversations with her ex, telling him she love him. So I know her loyalty is bad, but we have such a strong connection, and it's hard to let go.
I'm not sure if she just wants to be my personal assistant to just make money off of me or what. I cannot understand. And I question her loyalty to me everyday. I mean, i've seen her in slutty pictures and everything since we've been dating. And we also have a eight year age difference as well. So please somebody help me out tell me what you think. thank you so much for reading this, weather you can help or not.
(link)
| |
i think you should get rid of her by giving her a PA job that should be far away from your work place and live your own life.
|
|
i am a 14 year old girl. My mom always yells at me for things that she thinks i did, but she wasnt even there for. for example i was teasing my little brother, and he WAS giggling and smiling. my mom was listening from the other room, called me in and told me i was making him feel small, being a bully, that i was a little brat and i was a mean person. this happens on a very regular basis, like at least 5 times a week. my self esteem has gotten really low, and i have apparently started to act differently. my mom told me i should b the me that everybody loved, and toldme i had promised not to turn into one of those dumb teenagers, but i was breaking my promise. i snapped and said "oh thanks, so now i'm dumb" and she accused me of not being able to take a joke and said this was exactly what she meant about my change in attitude. once i tried to stand up to her. i showed her how my hands were shaking because i was so scared to talk to her, but she just told me that was because i knew i was wrong about my feelings. she then told me she was human too, and she deserved to have respect. i have been scared to talk to her ever since. so basically my mom doesnt like my new clothing style(which isnt trashy because they let me dress like that in a catholic school) my new attitude and actions that i didnt even know i aquired, and i lost her trust. please tell me how i can get through this!! there is no way i can talk to her obviously, or my dad. my siblings listen but nothing changes. i dont know what to do. i have actually concidered going through extremes to escape this. (link)
|
sorry to hear that, first of all who do you think whose mistake it is? and i consider that how about you listen to your mom for couple of weeks and check how it changes her. you don't need to worry because this happens to lots of people.
and i can answer some more later on
|
|
I need help. My boyfriend loves kissing me.. he loves to make out and dry hump and stuff but im not to into that stuff.. What can I do to get used to doing it and like...make myself fell more comfortable doing that kinda stuff?? And kissing in public is a big issue for me too. Help? Please? (link)
| |
sometimes guys just wanna use girls if he is that kinda guy than sorry to say that but you should break up with him
|
|
Is it ok to be taller than your boyfriend? Im a couple inches taller than him and my friends say its weird... (link)
| |
it might look awkward for some people but actually it doesn't matter at all if you guys really love each other.
|
|