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Questioning her loyalty
Hi I am a 30 year old male.
And let me break it right down...
I'm rich, came from a wealthy family...
Has been rich all my life, and it's a girl that I'm dating, well we are long distance...
She's in La and I'm in Miami...
So were now in a long distance relationship...
Ok, so I'm rich and she's not, and it's fine, because I don't judge people based of there income weather I should date them or not.
So a long time ago, she wanted to be my personal assistant, because she knew I was looking for one at the time. And I told her I don't mix business with pleasure, then. Plus I kinda thought that she just wanted to be my personal assistant, for the money and the fact that she could go to the hottest parties and me Celebs. So I was offended that she would offer to be that since we are suppose to be dating.
And so six months pass, and she know I don't have one, because my recent one just quick. So now she's asking again. I've had problems with her before when it came to loyalty. I've found out that she's been talking to her ex the whole time we've been talking... An we have been talking for almost two years.
Just this Christmas I found out that her ex brought her some expensive Red bottom shoes, and she's been wearing them. A couple months ago I found emails, where she had conversations with her ex, telling him she love him. So I know her loyalty is bad, but we have such a strong connection, and it's hard to let go.
I'm not sure if she just wants to be my personal assistant to just make money off of me or what. I cannot understand. And I question her loyalty to me everyday. I mean, i've seen her in slutty pictures and everything since we've been dating. And we also have a eight year age difference as well. So please somebody help me out tell me what you think. thank you so much for reading this, weather you can help or not.
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i think you should get rid of her by giving her a PA job that should be far away from your work place and live your own life.
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Sounds to me she's not committed to you, she's having an affair with her ex. It seems serious with him when he's buying her things and her telling him she loves him. She does sound like a gold digger or in need of extra cash.. depending on her financial needs. If you're questioning her loyalty everyday then there is a big problem between you two. Have a talk with her and if the both of you can't resolve these issues then you need to break it off. Listen and find out what her intentions are, whether or not she has a hidden agenda, and what her feelings are for you. If none of those answers satisfy you then there's something missing and you can't fill that void. I don't know if I can really help you, I can only give suggestions. If you need an assistant, I can take the job (;
I hope you can get this worked out and that you get what you want.
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Move on
This women has feelings for someone else and she even admitted to it.
She is nothing but baggage and bad news. A women who is in love with you will appreciate you for who you are and be faithful.
1, She never told you about the emails, She's accepting gifts from her ex..
2, It's plain and simple she is having an affair
Move on and meet someone else that will respect you and treat you the way you should be treated. The women is a gold digger and that's why she is keeping you around.
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