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Dating his BEST friend?
Okay, it's a long story.... I started talking to this guy about three months ago (We are both 17 by the way) He and I hit it off and he asked me to be his girlfriend, but he just wanted to hang out a few more times first before it became official. He even told me he loved me. Well, between the times we hung out, he met another girl and started dating her behind my back and lied to me about it, telling me he was too busy for a girlfriend with hockey and school and everything and that the distance between us was too much (40 minutes away) However, this other girl lives even farther away from him. Now, he did tell me maybe later on he and I could date if things didn't work out for him and this other girl. But I really don't want to wait for that to happen. And, now I have started to develop feelings for this guy's BEST friend. Would it be okay for me to date his best friend since the original guy and I were never technically dating, and he is the one who broke it off with me? What should I do?? What if the guy I almost dated originally tells his best friend bad stuff about me that isn't true, just to get him not to date me?
PLEASE help!!! And what do I say in my first message to his best friend?
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Okay first off, he never loved you. If he had, he wouldn't have lied to you behind your back & chose the other girl. You definitely should not wait around for this guy, don't be his back up plan. You want to be someone's first pick, not second. Stay strong. As for the best friend, you were never official with the other guy so I say it is okay to date him. It shouldn't bother the other guy because he chose the other girl. If The new guy feels like he has to choose between you & his best friend, let him go if you care about him. Also, if the old guy tries to tell lies about you, if the new guy is worth it..he will believe & trust you. Hope I was helpful! Good luck :)
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