There is this girl, and she thought that I didn't like her.
So our boyfriends are bestfriends, and her boyfriend is my bestfriend as well. We went to play bingo together, and her boyfriend told me that she was worried that I didn't like her.
So when she was sitting down, I went over and explained to her that I didn't have a problem with her at all, I had NO reason not to like her.
Than all of a sudden, her chest got bright red with like white dots in it.
Carriebeca answered Tuesday March 6 2012, 7:17 am: This sounds like an embarrassed reaction. Perhaps she told her boyfriend about her worries over you in confidence. WHen you said that you had no reason not to like her, she realised that her boyfriend had betrayed her trust and told you. This sounds over-framatic, I know, but that's how it feels when this happens. possibly she, didn't tell him to keep it a secret, just assumed he would.
Also, some peolpe react like this when they feel singled out, being the focus of everyone's attention can be embarrassing. Maybe she feels awkward because you and her boyfriend are best mates, perhaps she suspects you may be closer to him than she first thought.
Hope this helps, best wishes. [ Carriebeca's advice column | Ask Carriebeca A Question ]
stonehelm12 answered Monday March 5 2012, 8:47 pm: Well it could mean a lot of things! It sounds to me like you have a case of "your friends girl likes you more then her boyfriend". Good luck with that, I can't help you anymore from here. (I'm 12 by the way lol) [ stonehelm12's advice column | Ask stonehelm12 A Question ]
Rena-Chan answered Monday March 5 2012, 3:09 pm: Typically when someone gets red blotches or red in general, it could be a slight trigger of anxiety. It's nothing against you, as she may have been either over worried, or extremely embarrassed. Many people are not good with confrontation, and react in many different ways. Even if you meant no ill will, she may have just been afraid, and typically when someone gets scared anxiety hits them. It's not a medical condition, unlike what doctors like to say, anxiety happens to all of us. So there is no worry on your part, as I'm sure it happens to her often. Chances are though, she was more likely embarrassed, and everyone blushes, and not everyone's face turns red when they blush. I had a friend who would blush and her ears would turn red.. and that was all ;p Hope this put you at some ease. [ Rena-Chan's advice column | Ask Rena-Chan A Question ]
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