Gender: Male
Location: Florida
Member Since: March 5, 2012
Answers: 8
Last Update: August 27, 2015
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I like the kid, but I'm not sure if he can really reach that note...
Go to 3:15 so you wont have to find what im talkin about :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xAHYKzGGQQM (link)
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In my not-so-expert opinion, every thing in that video looked absolutely legit.
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i had a dream about my long distance boyfriend who lives very far away. we were on this couch and he was laying upside down while i was holding my legs. he just came to america and all of a sudden he tells me he has to go somewhere. i get all damn angry and he leaves. then i go to this big store and there's a lot of people. i run into this guy i know that means a whole lot to me. we have this strong connection. and like i kept seeing him wherever i went in that store.
i feel like this dream is seriously trying to tell me something. do you have any idea? (link)
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First, i'd like to start off by saying that dreams can be extremely irrelevant and devoid of any significant meaning but I can see how you would think this particular dream is worth noting. You should be thinking about this dream from two standpoints. One, it is instilling fear in you of having to move on from your boyfriend and find someone else or two, you simply want to move on from your current boyfriend. If we want to be even more complex, I could say that perhaps this dream is displaying your want for affection from an attractive man but seeing as you can't get that from your boyfriend, the dream reflected the portion of reality in which you would eventually have to find someone else if you want any physical interaction. MY advice to you would be to wait this whole thing out. If you dig too deep into this dream, it will only serve to put both a strain on you and your current boyfriend as well. If you do decide to act upon it, make sure you have thoroughly thought about that decision and what effects it will have on your life as it is. Remember at the end of the day that it really was just a dream. Hope this helps!
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How do i survive from a situation where people around you believe a gossip about you and still continue to make up stories to make it worse? (link)
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Those intelligent enough to realize what others say could easily be fiction or an exaggerated form of the truth will not bother you and simply treat you as you should be treated. If the problem persists, I advise you simply set those people straight or learn to cope with their disposition towards you and move forward regardless.
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I don't have a car.
I stay at my dad's.
I don't have a job.
I don't have any income.
I'm 21, female.
I have a high school diploma.
I'm poor.
I haven't spoken to any of my friends after high school for about the past couple of years. I miss some of them but I don't know how they would feel about me ignoring them.
I cut them out of my life because my life is so sad.
I was suppose to go to college but I felt I wasn't ready and I wanted to have some fun before I went back to school.
I had a fun for a very short time and most of the time I've been living sheltered in my house, never going out to see the sun light. I live everyday exactly the same and I barely feel real anymore or satisfied with life.
I picked up the habit of smoking cigarettes and sometimes over-sleeping or staying up all night.
I don't know how to change this routine.
I'm depressed.
It would be very difficult getting a job.
I'm pretty much a plain Jane when I got out, I wear solids and I only have one pair of shoes.
I want to escape this life style. I really want to move to Florida. Would I survive on my own if I did?
I have some money saved up for the move but not enough to make a living there unless I got a job right away. I could apply to places in the area and go when I get a job. I'm not sure how to do this. Please help, I want to be happy. Another note, I may go to college this fall but I'm not sure yet. (link)
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It seems like you need to read books on your problems and when you feel comfortable opening up to people, go find a good friend to rely on and your entire natural life will change for the better. Good luck and god bless you (I'm 12 by the way lol)
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Well, I don't know what to put this under. So I am 22 years old and I am just now getting a bit more comfortable accepting my body dysmorphic problems. As far off as I can remember I've always wanted to be a boy. I was born female. Growing up was terrible for me, kids made fun of me up until junior high, for acting and dressing like a boy. My parents put a stop to it and told me to "act normal" or else I would never have any friends. For the longest time I've felt very confused, I just always wanted to appear more masculine to others and I don't really know or understand why. Putting sexual orientation aside. My parents and brothers and sisters would pick on me and thought maybe I was a lesbian. But when I told them I liked boys over girls they began to laugh. My mother even once told me, "Let me get this straight, so my little girl is really a little homo." Yeah, well putting that all behind me now, I finally moved out but I feel very distraught about it all. Living alone means I can finall wear what I want. Meaning male clothing. But I am very nerve wrecked about shopping. And about cutting my hair. In high school for my junior year when I cut my hair I was called a dyke all through out until graduation.
So I guess I would just like some tips or sites or books that can point me in the right direction of passing as a boy rather than having people view me as a butchy lesbian. Not that I have anything at all against them. I just feel terrible having to force myself to look all female. I've done some searching online but all I find are ftm but "lesbian" wise. Nothing on "transfags." One more thing is,I work with two siblings of mine in my mothers catering business. So of course I see them everyday for a few hours. I feel uncomfortable about it all with my family for obvious reasons. Everyone else in my family is, "normal." Meaning straight. At least that we know of, so it only makes me feel more alienated. I don't know what to say to my family about it if they ask. My youngest brother is support of it, he always asks me about it, and he states. "You'll make a handsome gentlemen one day sis." lol But as for my sisters and elder brother, they tell me I'm disgusting and to just be normal. Otherwise I will never get married or have children. Which honestly I don't care much for finding anyone, I just want to feel comfortable with myself and understand myself. I mean you can't love anyone else unless you love yourself first, right?
Well I'm sorry if this is long and hard to understand. But any help at all, thank you for it. (link)
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I think you need to do some scientific research and describe what you really feel inside. You need to dig deeper within yourself and find how you truly feel then maybe you can turn all of this around. As far as your family goes, your family just needs a explanation to the "issue" and time to accept whatever it is going on inside your body. When you have seen things change in your life according to my answer, then you can live in complete peace. Good luck and god bless you! (I'm 12 by the way lol)
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There is this girl, and she thought that I didn't like her.
So our boyfriends are bestfriends, and her boyfriend is my bestfriend as well. We went to play bingo together, and her boyfriend told me that she was worried that I didn't like her.
So when she was sitting down, I went over and explained to her that I didn't have a problem with her at all, I had NO reason not to like her.
Than all of a sudden, her chest got bright red with like white dots in it.
What does that mean? (link)
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Well it could mean a lot of things! It sounds to me like you have a case of "your friends girl likes you more then her boyfriend". Good luck with that, I can't help you anymore from here. (I'm 12 by the way lol)
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I have tried everywhere and everything and have gone above and beyond to get a job. but without any luck. its like i am going to be unemployed throughout my life and i wish to end my life. i moved to a different city for a guy who promised marriage but the relationship ended within 2 and 1/2 months. now am unemployed without a bf and low savings. (link)
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Sorry to be so honest but see the thing about killing yourself or even contemplating suicide is all the memories and treasured things in your life that you lose. Its just not worth it but lets get to the point. I'm not the grim reaper, i'm not here to guide you to your grave. There are plenty of people like you in this world. My best advice is that you need to go out and meet people. Build your social skills and start finding people who will actually be able to help you in the long run. Someone you can rely on when the times are tough. That does not mean go out and find a bf because having a "special" person in your life is not always the greatest choice of action. Sometimes its just good to have a friend who cares, who will help you when times are tough, someone who sees you fall on your butt and lends you a hand to help you up. Those kinds of people! Good luck and god bless you! (I'm 12 by the way lol)
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ok so basically i've been bullied ever since i started middle school. im in guidance ALOT so i have not really been in the classroom. Im getting 40s and 50s. i also sit alone at lunch and talk to no one at school. The guidance consulers and my parents wont let me go to another school or get homeschooled. School is so bad, I've nearly committed suicide at school but backed out. The only option is dropping out but I dont know what to do. No one understands. they tell me to lighten up and suck up. My science teacher said I ruin class for everyone when all I do is take notes. Everyone at my school is pure selfish, even the teachers too. (link)
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This is definitely no laughing matter, it seems like you have a problem that can simply be solved by changing schools. I know that your mom refused to let you go anywhere else but screw your mom. You need to sit her down and have a conversation about your life at school. Maybe then she will consider moving you to another school. Until you have that conversation, life at school only gets worse so gather all the courage you have and set her straight
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