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i had a dream that i feel had SOOOO much meaning to it!!
i had a dream about my long distance boyfriend who lives very far away. we were on this couch and he was laying upside down while i was holding my legs. he just came to america and all of a sudden he tells me he has to go somewhere. i get all damn angry and he leaves. then i go to this big store and there's a lot of people. i run into this guy i know that means a whole lot to me. we have this strong connection. and like i kept seeing him wherever i went in that store.
i feel like this dream is seriously trying to tell me something. do you have any idea?
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I once heard someone say that good dreams are the universe/God's way of rewarding you for handling difficult life situations well. I believe that 100%
The details you gave tell me that you are finding your long distance relationship with your boyfriend hard in real life. It sounds like the universe is providing you with comfort in this difficult time with dreams of the other guy that you have a connection with.
Does this mean you should leave your current boyfriend? Absolutely not! The dream is a reward because you are handling a difficult situation WELL. In other words, keep doing long distance. You are doing well. And, I bet you if you keep it up, you will be rewarded with more romantic dreams about the other frog ;)
Toodles,
Miss Piggy
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First, i'd like to start off by saying that dreams can be extremely irrelevant and devoid of any significant meaning but I can see how you would think this particular dream is worth noting. You should be thinking about this dream from two standpoints. One, it is instilling fear in you of having to move on from your boyfriend and find someone else or two, you simply want to move on from your current boyfriend. If we want to be even more complex, I could say that perhaps this dream is displaying your want for affection from an attractive man but seeing as you can't get that from your boyfriend, the dream reflected the portion of reality in which you would eventually have to find someone else if you want any physical interaction. MY advice to you would be to wait this whole thing out. If you dig too deep into this dream, it will only serve to put both a strain on you and your current boyfriend as well. If you do decide to act upon it, make sure you have thoroughly thought about that decision and what effects it will have on your life as it is. Remember at the end of the day that it really was just a dream. Hope this helps!
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I do know that LDR's in real life have a bad track record of working out if the two can get together. The ones that are successful are the ones where the two already knew each other in person and dated but one went away to college or into the military. Those long times apart are hard indeed but there is that known quantity about the other person already, knowing you can trust them, knowing what it is like to be held and kissed by them so you know you have that special chemistry and attraction in person for example. Those things I just mentioned are things you can't know from only meeting on line. Its such an iffy thing.
So perhaps, in your subconscious mind you realize that its very iffy and so you dream of your LDR guy being with you in person but soon after taking off on you. This means there are no real guarantees that itn did move to America, that he would not end up really liking or feeling attraction for you after all that.
The guy in the store that you already know more about than ldR guy, is a more promising avenue to take so that is why no matter where you went inthis big store you kept running into him as you already have a strong connection. My guess is that your subconscious mind which has the role of making sure you are happy, just wants you to take the path where you're more likely to end up happy and that would be chancing becoming close with the guy at home you already know.
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