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Dating my "ex"'s best friend?
Okay, it's a long story.... I started talking to this guy about three months ago (We are both 17 by the way) He and I hit it off and he asked me to be his girlfriend, but he just wanted to hang out a few more times first before it became official. He even told me he loved me. Well, between the times we hung out, he met another girl and started dating her behind my back and lied to me about it, telling me he was too busy for a girlfriend with hockey and school and everything and that the distance between us was too much (40 minutes away) However, this other girl lives even farther away from him. Now, he did tell me maybe later on he and I could date if things didn't work out for him and this other girl. But I really don't want to wait for that to happen. And, now I have started to develop feelings for this guy's BEST friend. Would it be okay for me to date his best friend since the original guy and I were never technically dating, and he is the one who broke it off with me? What should I do?? What if the guy I almost dated originally tells his best friend bad stuff about me that isn't true, just to get him not to date me?
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(he did tell me maybe later on he and I could date if things didn't work out for him and this other girl.)
1, He cheated
2, He lied about cheating
3, He has the balls to say if it didn't work out THEN he could date you?!
Basically, You are nothing more then a fall back in his eyes. You should NEVER allow yourself to be a second option. A cheater is a cheater and they should never ever be given second chances.
Dating his friend is sort of an iffy situation. You are entitled to date whoever you want too date. However, Keep in mind that if the guy is associated with your ex then you may run into drama. It's basically a love triangle....One that often doesn't work out.
I would say give it a clean slate and start over, Meet someone that's not drama filled.
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