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is this bad? is this being molested?
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i go to a cstholic school i live a great life my dads a dentist my mom doesnt work and i have a lil sister hoo is 10. i was wondering if it is normal for my dad to spank my butt alot and squeeze it and go "oooo look at them buns" in a wierd voice he just spanks my butt and squeezes it alot he is catholic and a dentist but is this molest??? help!!
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if he shows kinda naughty behavior than...............
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if your uncomfortable then yes. but he's just showing affection then maybe he's just "horsing around". but talk to your mom about it your growing up & NO ONE not even your dad can touch you if you dont want them to. :)
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If someone other than your dad, a stranger or a teacher were to do this to you it would be wrong as he is touching you someplace he should not be touching you; and could be considered molestation.
If dad slaps your but, spanking is disciplining, and gives you a playful squeeze over your clothing, this may be just dad showing love to his daughter. Something he may have been doing since you were little. If this is something dad just started doing then it is questionable. If this is something that makes you feel uncomfortable just say to your dad something like: "Dad I'm a big girl now and you slapping and squeezing my butt makes me uncomfortable could you try and stop."
Boys have the same problem with getting there dads to stop hugging and kissing them. There is nothing wrong with dads hugging there sons. My Uncle use to hug and kiss all of his nieces and nephews until the day he died. That was they way he was. None of us thought anything of it and would have been hurt if he had stopped.
What dad is doing may just be a sign of fatherly affection and if it bothers you just ask him to stop or ask mom to talk to him.
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It is not being molested, although if you don't like it you should really tell him this. Its more like being Sexually looked at I forgot the name for it but a lot of fathers do it no a days to there children. Honestly he may not know in his mind he is doing it in that manor. Just talk to him in front of you mom because you dont want to be alone and say it and him get upset. Just ask him to please stop spanking you butt and saying that to you.
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