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I think my Dad is cheating
I don't know what I'd do if this was true. Please help me! I'm from Australia.
Okay so my Dad and Mum have always had a strong relationship. They kiss each other goodbye each morning and never fight. About a 10 months or a year ago, my Dad added this woman on Facebook. She is American and they met online. My mother being the loving, kind person she is, completely trusted him and never questioned his motives and I kind of forgot about it. However, recently I went on to his Facebook to see if my chat was working and I found her name on the list of people most recently talked to. I clicked on their chat session and found all these messages about her wanting to see him and get a hotel room with him and how when they met up she would wear something sexy and said all this stuff about sex toys, etc. Also, I think worse things might've been said earlier because their earliest message dates back to just January and the first message on there is my Dad saying 'Deleted.'
I have told my brother and he doesn't know what to do either. I really don't want my parents to split up and I don't want to crush my Mum like that, seeing as she loves him so much.
I can't sleep or eat and I am behind in my schoolwork. I don't want to be one of those families!
What do I do? Should I approach her?
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You should tell your mom, even if it's hard you shouldn't let it keep going on, that is just wrong.
unless you blackmail your dad.
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i think you should black mail your dad in the sense of joking with your dad and if he really loves you guys he will realize by the way how old are you guys?
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I am probably not going to give the best advice on this one as this isn't exactly my sort of question. However, I'll tell you what I would do.
You can message her and explain to her that you are the daughter of your father and that he is a married man with a family. This women may not be aware that he is married as there could be a possibility that he never even told her. After you do, I'd block her.
If your father goes to try and talk to this women he will then know that someone picked up that he is cheating or trying to have an affair on your mother. If he confronts you or your brother then I would let him know that you caught him having an affair with another women and you let her know that your father is married and had a family. If I were in that situation I probably would even let my father know that he has an ultimatum 1, He can be faithful and honest about the affair and messages with your mother. or 2, You and your brother will tell her yourselves.
Sure, No child wants to see their parents split but at the same time not telling Mum what's going on is a loose loose situation but that's just me.
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