i need some advice please!! on thursday there isnt any school, so me and my boyfriend are planning to go out for a movie, and then over 2 his place. its just going to be us to, and of course we will be doing something! we both are ready to loose it, its just that:
1. im scared i COULD get pregnant
2. im just a lil nervous cause i dont know what to do
3. im sorta of on my period, im bleeding just a tiny, and what if i smell bad?!
1)u should b scared
2)every 1 is usually nervous
3)take a shower and wash realli good
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Can sum1 please help!! Am 16 & female so i probably sound silly but am not.
About 3 months ago I meet the most amazing guy ever(Ryan),wat i've always wanted,funny,caring,wild & deep. We started seeing each other rigt away.
We went out for a month in this time he told me he loved me & done everything in his power to show me it was true. Then we broke up!! He told me he still loved me & would go back out with me soon. Then my mum was speeking to his mum & she said that I was the first girl that he had realy bothered about & that he was oviosly in love with me. Then a mouth later people were telling me he was engaged. He says this is not ture. Then 2 weeks ago we had sex at a party. His mate was teling me that Ryan did like me & wasnt shure if he was seeing sum1. Then the other week I aked him if he was seeing sum1 he said yeah. The thing is am good mates with him & his best mate Darren but it hurts me not being his girlfriend coz am in love with him. And was gona cut him from my life but realizied it was way to hard. So am wondering what to do:1- cut him from my life (hurting him & myself) 2- Wait for him or 3- Tell him how I fell. What one should I do? PLEASE HELP!!
tell him how u feel
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ok i'm really tall.... like really tall i'm 5'10 or 5'11 and i'm a girl. I weigh 145lbs and i was wondering if that is healthy.
ya thats healthy 145 is normal 4 about some1 who is about 5'8
~kris~
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Hey, please help me. (14/m) I was with this girl and a friend of mine, and we were all just hanging out, the girl that i was with is my girlfriend, but she's been since Thursday. She really is kind of creeped out by my friend because he likes her, but she won't like him because she likes me, and we're going out. Now my friend (we're going to call him F from now on) is good friends with my gf. Anyways, my gf and I were holding hands and everything until about 6:15 (PM), where my dad was going to drive up and pick me up. So right before he drove up, I asked her, "Hey.. (Gf's name here)... can I kiss you?" (Well my friend was making 2 fists and showing like making them kiss, and he wanted us to, so I asked) Anyways my gf says "Uhhh no," in kind of a laughing way, not meant to be mean, but she still meant no, so I said "Ok.." In kind of a quiet voice, and then my dad drove up as I waved goodbye. My question is, how come she said no? I don't know if maybe F was making her nervous or she wasn't ready or she was scared, or other things like that. Could someone please help me out, and explain to me what I did wrong and/or maybe give reasons why you think she said no?
Thank you for reading, please help ASAP...
i dunno but i think its realli cool u asked if u could kiss her before u did!!!
more guys should be like u instead of being a jackass and kissing a girl when the girl doesnt wanna be kissed
~*kris*~
p.s. if i undastood it right (which i probally didnt) F seemed like he wanted u guys 2 kiss maybe that waz y she said no becuz she thought u didnt realli mean da kiss u were onli doin it cuz F seemed like he wanted u 2 kiss her
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Do guys want a girl who's like all energetic and talkitive and flirty? Cuz its seems like they are the ones getting all the attention. I'm shy so nothing's working for me. What's going on in ur heads guys?
wat i think (cuz i have ALOT of guy friends) goes on in their heads is sex,sex,and damn shes fine!
lol
*kris*
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ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?!
wats wrong with u?hmmmm let me think. did u ever think u were like WAY 2 young 2 have sex? damn younger people have no common sense what so ever when it comes to things like that.
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ok i told this guy i like that i liked him..and i did it in person ...then after i told him he was like "can i see your phone" and so i gave it to him and he was just like messing around ..come to find out he put his number in my phone..wat does that mean!? haha ..im really clueless with "guy languagE" thanks!
um maybe he wants u 2 call him
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ok.. so this boy ive been really good friends with since 5th grade asked me out at this place we have in our town the teen center to hang out..i told him i'd think about it..but im afraid if i say no he wont be my friend anymore but i dont wanna say yes cuz hes not that cute.. i dont want ppl to make fun of me cuz he is ugly but hes reealy sweet& nice.. what should i do?
ok that waz the most ignorant thing i ever heard!!! u dont people 2 make fun of u if u go out with him cuz u think he is ugly.
omg can u say shallow much???
sry but the truth hurts
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is it okay 2 have an online relationship? he said he is breaking up with his gf! and that he wants to go out with me because we have a conncetion! should i tell my friends and family about this relationship? i am scared 2!
i dont think there is n e thing wrong with havin an online relationship as long as ur careful and i wouldnt tell ur family unless u KNOW 4 sure they will understand but i think u could tell ur friends.if n e thing--ill put it this way i like online relationships becuz u get 2 actually kno the person for their inside unless ur 1 of those people who wouldnt go out with some 1 cuz they arent cool or cuz they r ugly.
hope i helped!!
*kris*
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did your grandmother really not start her period until she was 28??? what was wrong?
i dunno wat was wrong i never asked her but she didnt get it until she was 28
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Hey Thanks for all the answeres about the dance question!! but unfortunately it looks like i can't go becuz my mom doesn't want me to she is afraid the girls r gonna take me 2 some alley somewhere and beat me up!! so should i fight with my mother and ask me to go to the dance or should i just stay home?
i'd fight with your mother if u really wanna go but if u dont really care if u do then juss drop da subject. but i'd fight wit ur mom
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Should i ask out a girl everyone hates in school?
if u like her yea.it doesnt matter if every 1 else hates her or not. go for it!
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okay, I didn't really think I'd get any more answers to my previous question, so I'm going to put my addition to my additional answer here.
Here is my question. When you cut yourself, which by the way I'm trying to stop, so I don't really need help there, I was wondering, will the scars ever go away? Because I cut first letter of my first name in my arm, and now I regret it, and it's not that deep. None of the cuts I made had actually bled, they jstu got scabs over them. So will the scars be there forever?
when i first started 2 cut i just got scabs 2 but then i started 2 bleed. if the first ones didnt bleed the scars should go away. im pretty positive they should. when they first start 2 go away u may see them a LIL bit but soon they should be completely gone.
hope i helped
~*~kris~*~
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Okay, I know that there have been many questions on the subject, but I looked, and I haven't found any other question/answers that were helpful. Okay, well here goes. I've gotten so addicted to cutting, that lately I've been doing it in class. I even cut my initials into my skin. Well today I got caught, and I was telling a friend about it, and my 4th period teacher heard. Well after the test in that class, she called me into the hall because we were allowed to do anything, and I got out a needle, and when that teacher saw she called me out. Then she was all like you know what you do is dangerous and stuff, and I was like yes... and she said other stuff like I care about you, and want you to stop, and I was like yeah, whatever. Well, now I really want to stop, but I can't it's like I'm addicted. I want to end my life, yet I want to live. And so now, I don't know how to stop. And I would bring it up to one or both of the teachers that know, but I wouldn't know how to bring it up, and I'm afraid that they would tell my parents, and my parents wouldn't sympathize, they would get really mad, trust me I know. So I was wondering, how might I get over this addiction, and if I were to tell the teacher that I need help, then how would I bring it up. What would you do to get help, and if you were to ask a teacher for help, what would you say. And if you were a cutter, but no longer cut, I'd like to hear your stories, no matter how long! Thanks a bunch!
Sorry it's so long, but I'm really worried about how far I might take this.
Ok i kno exactly how u feel i have the same exact problem. What helps me is a put an elastic band around my wrist before i go to school and then everytime i want to cut i just snap the rubber band against my wrist it helps me stop cutting in school. I also know exactly how u feel with wanting to die but live. You can't think about that. I hope the rubber band works for you!
*~*kris*~*
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dear advicenators i have a friend who cuts herself i havent known her for a long time bcz i just moved here but she does it and she cant stop !!! i would like some advice on how to help her stop ...
thanx
ok i have a completely different opinion then all the rest of these people. i think u should talk 2 her about it but if i were u i wouldnt tell her parents right away becuz especially if u havent known her 4 a long time cuz she will fell like u have betrayed her somehow and might not wanna be ur friend n e more. maybe u could tlk 2 a counseler but DONT mention n e names or say like "this kid i kno cuts themselves". if u have n e siblings maybe u could also ask them wat they think about it.
hope i helped!!!
~*~kris~*~
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hey ive been going out with my boyfriends ernesto since may 15th and i really like him.. but he always ditches me for hsi friends.. he never even thinks about ditchin them once for me.. it really makes me sad and i dont know what to do i always tell him it hurts me and hes like im sry ill stop.. but he keeps doin it.. he never really talks to me in school and we dont really have a real conversation.. i know i should dump him butt ill probably regret it:-/
4 get about him if he cared about u he would respect ur opinion on it and spend more time with u
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i took a girl on a first date with a girl and she is a sophmore and i am a freshman. she made me pick the movie and i accidently picked a blood and guts movie. she said she liked it and i asked her the next day for a second date and she said yes. do you think this is a second date out of pitty?
naw. most girls would tell u if they didnt like the movie.
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hey u guys im a 15 year old male, and i was of course playing truth or dare with mostly grls and a few guys, and a grl dared me to go in the bathroom right then and there and SHAVE MY LEGS! well i wasnt gonna turn down a dare so i did it, but im wunderin if i should like wear pants to school until they grow back cuz usually guys wit shaved legs r gay, or do grls think is hot??
lol. personally i think its weird and the only guys i kno whos legs r shaved and they wear shorts are my brothers friends cuz they r all swimmers and their coach wants them 2 do it 2 make them go faster in the water and every 1 knos y they shave their legs and think its no big deal. if i were u i would wear pants or if u dont wear pants and people ask juss tell them. hey at least u werent chicken and u took the dare!
~*~krista~*~
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Wats some good websites that are free that have really good games that are really fun
addicting games.com ---those games rock
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i sing..and if u work ur voice alot..for example ima cheerleader and i yell alot..is that good or bad for ur voice power? does it make ur voice stronger or weaker?
thx
if u scream loud during cheerleading then it can weaken ur voice
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