about

My name is Racquel. I am eighteen years old and I am a student at NCIVS.♥


I have blonde hair and deep blue eyes.I weigh about 120 pounds and i am 5'5 inches. I think thats all you really need to know about my apperance.♥


I'm quite funny when i want to be around my friends. I'm out-going and i will talk to anyone, even if i dont know them. I have a few close friends, but that's all i really need =P. I can get really angry sometimes, but that is only if you make me mad. I didn't really have the best childhood, but that's beside the point. I'm very easy to get along with, im fun to be around, I don't really have a lot of self esteem, but im workin on it. I say good things about myself some of the time. But other than that, i would love to talk to anyone who wishes to. =)♥


If you need questions answered, ill try to answer them to the best of my ability. I will tell you like it is, because im that type of person, so dont get offended if i say anything mean. But, please give me feedback, i'd really appreciate it very much!♥

advice

I can't stand my parents! I'm 15 and have only 3 years left of high school but I don't think I can wait that long. My parents continuously call me nicknames I've explained to them I don't like being called, and they never listen to me. They always say I do things that I don't and I'm always the first one blamed for everything, regardless of the situation. They do not support any of the things I want to do- particularly with music and sports- but I love doing what I do and I'm actually good at it. My twin sister is never treated like I am- they act like she's the Perfect Child. Plus, my dad has a serious anger problem and my mom is an in-denial alcoholic, so they always over react to the littlest things lots of the time. I feel like I may end up hurting or even killing myself because of them because they're the reason I used to cut! Though I've gotten a lot better with my best friend's help the problem started with my parents and it's because of them I may start again. Please help me.

okay.. you are one of the people who piss me off a lot.. GET OVER your stupid problems... and the fact that you cut?!??! what the hell did you do that for.. that is f***ing stupid!! ALSO! the fact you want to kill yourself is stupid too! Go to the a f***ing counsellor and TALK and GET YOUR PROBLEMS OUT before you end up like me... angry all the time.. because once you get to a certain point there is no hope.. sorry i was rude... but, go see a counsellor... it will help.

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i like this cute guy. he's cute, funny, and smart. really what my problem is, is that i think he might have a gf. im new to his school and i have no idea whats going on with other ppl. at lunch he would finish his lunch and go sit with these other girls for like 2 minutes. but he will do this at every lunch with the same group of girls. he is in 3 of my classes everyday so i would like some advice on how i could get him to like me or even just what i should do about this situation. thx in advance.&hearts

P.S. im 13/f and i am wearing miniskirt to school tomorrow.

um okay.. do not wear a miniskirt to school.. bad idea.. that is not the way to get attention from a guy, you'll attract the wrong type of guys if you do that..if you want to talk to him, just do it. Since he's in three of your classes ask him questions about homework or something.. do not dress up yourself and be someone you arent, that is wrong.. you just gotta be yourself and if he likes you for who you are then thats great, if he has a girlfriend, at least then maybe you'll be friends.

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what do girls look for in a guy

well, im different from most chicks in a way also, so my answer might be different from others.

I look for a guy that is nice, funny, caring, respectful, and trustworthy. Im not too picky.. but thats basically what i look for in a guy.


-Kell

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when my friend is telling me something online, sometimes i will just be like, "alrightty" or "kay". i dont do it alot, either. then she thinks i'm mad or annoyed, when im not. there's just nothing else to say. what should i do? i tell her im not mad but i dont thinks she believes me.

well its because you are talking on the computer and she cant tell by the sound of your voice.. its just you typing... thats whats wrong with MSN, Yahoo, AOL whatever... they cause too many fights between people... they should just learn to talk face to face... for your situation.. just try and type different words to make it seem like you are interested... simple enough

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Is it possible to fall in love with someone who you have only met once? :)

Yes, you can. It has happend to me and now, we have been going out for 6 months almost :).

-Kell

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Ok so,ive recently started playing guitar and i was wondering if anyone know any good, easy songs that i could play??

Brainstew - Green Day
7 Nation Army - Whitestripes
Smoke On The Water - ?

Once you start playin you'll get the hang of it. I started a few months ago and im not that great but im happy with what i can play. :)

Hope I Helped!

Racquel

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Let me start by saying that I am a huge music fan, I like most types of music and I think you can express yourself through music. I am in a situation where I need songs that are about missing someone that you love but is far away from you. Does anyone have any suggestions?

Missing - Evanescence

-Racquel

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does anybody know of a website that you can get onto at school, and not having to download anything, that you can listen to music on?

Hev

Some people at my school just used the Yahoo Launch and just didnt watch the video for the songs.

-Racquel♥

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Hi all,
I just got a new iPod:)!
Can I have some help transfering my music from Limewire, or at least into an area where I can put it onto my iPod?

Okay, i have an Ipod and Limewire and this is what i do.

I take the music i have downloaded and drag the music onto Itunes and viola.

-Racquel

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Which do you prefer, iPod or MP3 Players?

Well im an owner of both of them, and i say ipod is much better =)

-Racquel

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lately ive been having SO much trouble with guys! first of all this guy said that he that i was hott and thought i was a cool girl and seem really nice and said "we should get to know each other better" but then he said he wanted to do stuff with me..and he just broke up because he had to with his girlfriend of over a year..he still always says i love you lauren on his away messages and everything but then he acts like he wants to get to know me better? we didnt talk for awhile then today hes like hey im gonna be at my friends are you gonna go over to his neighbors house? and im like nooo im leaving tomorrow outta town and hes messaged back and was like dangit i was looking forward to seeing you!! which i dont even know if he is going back out with his girlfriend because their parents said they couldnt go out for some reason but they wanted to behind their back! i mean i told him before that i dont know if we should "get to know each other better" because they were both like in love and then hes like well shes probably gonna leave me for another guy anyways..so now thats all confusing! and all this stuff..and then i kinda was crushin on this other guy before we always flirted and i loved talking to him and he just just adorable and the sweetest ever but he liked this other girl and now they are going out..so that hurt me too..now we cant flirt and stuff and he always talks about his girlfriend and it makes me sad seeing him because i know we cant talk and flirt like we use to and he probably doesnt see me as that kinda girl now since he really likes his girlfriend..and then a couple days ago i was talkin to this kid on AIM that i thought was really cute and everything but we havent met yet ive just always thought he was cute and stuff...ive seen him around alot ..well he just blew me off so now i feel like a complete idiot! now if i see him again im gonna be embarassed because im gonna feel like he thinks im some stupid girl that he doesnt want to talk to..im so fed up with guys ive never even had a boyfriend but ive madeout with some! im 16/f..

should i keep hanging out with these guys and trying? but i dont want to get hurt...i just really want a guy..or a friend anything!! they all seem to screw me over :[ i just wish i could have someone that would understand me and could be there for me! i have my best friends but a guy would be nice too...ive waitied 16 years for a guy!? i feel like i'll never get the opportunity because things always get messed up

well sorry so long but thanks for helping and taking your time to read this!

Well, by the sounds of things.. i think he is going to use you because thats usually what guys who use chicks do.. believe me i know. Just be careful and if you are unsure.. dont date or hang out with him anymore

Racquel

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ok, i took videos with my camera and loaded them on my computer. is there a free downloadable program where i can edit the videos?

You could also use Quicktime, it is free and it works very well.

-Racquel

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Ok, so every time my cell phone rings, and its any where near my cable modem, the signal gets interupted, and I get booted off the internet. Also, the speakers make a funky sound. Does anyone else have problems with this? And is it something that could just be wrong with my modem, because its still under warranty (I think).

Its a motorolla ROKR and a SURFBoard modem if that matters.

If you dont want to interupt your connection with your computer, i suggest keeping the cellphone away from the computer, because it has happend to me as well, all ya gotta do is keep it away from the computer, there is nothing wrong with the computer, dont worry.

-Racquel

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So I started talking to my ex and we were getting along and we were just going to stay friends. Well, I see this guy I used to know he's a year and half older. He's a saufmore I'm an eigth grader. He hugs me and keeps flirting w/ me and hitting on me. He hints he wants to go out, but he's really perverted. I think I like him though. I don't know if I should go out with him, he's said some...umm bad stuff. My mom would kill me if she found out, but I'm not too worried, I'm not the goodie goodie type. I'm kinda afraid if I go out with him I'll do a lot more than I want. I mean one of the first things he asked me was how far I've gotten and what I'd say if he fingered me, and I said I dont really care {ik i'm so freaking stupid}. Now my ex asked me what I would say if he asked me out and I pretty much said yeah w/e no it's just bc you can't go out w/ this one girl and he said no she still wants togo out but nvm. Are all guys perverted at 15?? Is it ok? There aren't that many good guys that I really like. I mean he's nice and everything just really really perverted...please people my age answer this! I don't want mom's opinions sorry and all!

Well, from the looks of things, yes, he just wants to use you. If you are afraid to go out with him, then dont. About guys being perverted at 15, im sorry to say, but most of them are, in fact all of them are. Sometimes nice guys can be decieving, if you want my advice, i wouldnt go out with him, he seems like a bad person to go out with. My reason is because he will force you to do something you will not want to do.

Good Luck,
Racquel

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