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boys always screw me over...


Question Posted Friday June 30 2006, 3:31 pm

lately ive been having SO much trouble with guys! first of all this guy said that he that i was hott and thought i was a cool girl and seem really nice and said "we should get to know each other better" but then he said he wanted to do stuff with me..and he just broke up because he had to with his girlfriend of over a year..he still always says i love you lauren on his away messages and everything but then he acts like he wants to get to know me better? we didnt talk for awhile then today hes like hey im gonna be at my friends are you gonna go over to his neighbors house? and im like nooo im leaving tomorrow outta town and hes messaged back and was like dangit i was looking forward to seeing you!! which i dont even know if he is going back out with his girlfriend because their parents said they couldnt go out for some reason but they wanted to behind their back! i mean i told him before that i dont know if we should "get to know each other better" because they were both like in love and then hes like well shes probably gonna leave me for another guy anyways..so now thats all confusing! and all this stuff..and then i kinda was crushin on this other guy before we always flirted and i loved talking to him and he just just adorable and the sweetest ever but he liked this other girl and now they are going out..so that hurt me too..now we cant flirt and stuff and he always talks about his girlfriend and it makes me sad seeing him because i know we cant talk and flirt like we use to and he probably doesnt see me as that kinda girl now since he really likes his girlfriend..and then a couple days ago i was talkin to this kid on AIM that i thought was really cute and everything but we havent met yet ive just always thought he was cute and stuff...ive seen him around alot ..well he just blew me off so now i feel like a complete idiot! now if i see him again im gonna be embarassed because im gonna feel like he thinks im some stupid girl that he doesnt want to talk to..im so fed up with guys ive never even had a boyfriend but ive madeout with some! im 16/f..

should i keep hanging out with these guys and trying? but i dont want to get hurt...i just really want a guy..or a friend anything!! they all seem to screw me over :[ i just wish i could have someone that would understand me and could be there for me! i have my best friends but a guy would be nice too...ive waitied 16 years for a guy!? i feel like i'll never get the opportunity because things always get messed up

well sorry so long but thanks for helping and taking your time to read this!


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kellyy answered Sunday July 2 2006, 4:24 pm:
Well, by the sounds of things.. i think he is going to use you because thats usually what guys who use chicks do.. believe me i know. Just be careful and if you are unsure.. dont date or hang out with him anymore

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aShKnOWs answered Friday June 30 2006, 6:20 pm:
Well no, you DO NOT WANNA BE second best. Beleive ME. My frend was in this sitiation like 2 days ago! lol...well they guy was like noo i like the other girlfrend better...stop trying so much. it sounds to me like guyz really like you, it maybe that you come on a little strong. i noe its hard not having a boyfriend but i was just like you once and i was like..why does this keep happening and a long story short after this guy was a total jerk to me...two days later i met this guy named cory and weve been dating for TWO YEARS! lol..so the right guy will come you just have to trust that he will

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