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Normally I'm the to give advice to girls on this site who think they are pregnant and tell them ways to calm themselves so that the stress doesn't affect them any more. Well, one of my BEST friends told me that she thinks she's pregnant. She is on the pill and uses condoms all the time when she has sex. She finished her pill on Saturday (the 26th) and was supposed to get her period on Monday (the 28th) it is now Thursday, and she still has not gotten it and that it has NEVER been any later than Wednesday. Like I said, I'm normally giving other girls advice on how to stay calm, but I can't keep myself calm! I mean, this is my BEST FRIEND we're talking about. I told her to try to stay calm and take a nice hot bath and think POSITIVE but now it's alittle hard on me. I'm really nervous for her right now. What should I do? To help both me AND her?
I'm going to be there for her no matter what, if she really is pregnant I'm going to be there for her through the whole thing. (link)
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okay i kno what you are gonig through (not really) but like i would be there for my best friend too!....what i would do is tell her to go ot a doc....i would go wiht her and like i would prey for her and tell her to prey.....dont worry about it that much....they have support groups for this kind of thing and every thing.....i hope everything works out for her!
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Wow okay. well these 3 friends made me cry today. im in 7th grade and i dont cry normally and they were yelling and making fun of me today and yesterday. one girl said i ditched her when i was waiting for my other friends and then we went to go swim with them and then they left us and it kept happening. my best best friends now hates me and called me a fake today beacuse she thought i was saying alot of chit about her, and i wasnt i spend almost everyday with her in the summer i went to basketball team with her i dont hate her or anytihng! and then the oither ones i dont know, but i dont know what to do now, and they made me cry today and i dont wanna lose them as friends but i also dont wanna continue being best friends with them, but they can get the whole school turned against me. and i dont want that. they arent as popular as they seem but they have a way to get everyone else mad at me. i just dont know what to do, i ask my other friends but they dont know either. it seems as if everything is always blamed on me and now i dont know what to do beacuse they wont believe me on anything. i really need some help, if you could please give me some advice. (link)
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hey yea the same excat thing happened to me except it was durning school........ dont say nethign to them let them have there fun ......my so called friends did turned the whole 7th grade aganist me but i stck wiht my sister (who is in 8th) and like all her friends and yea i didnt say nethign to them i let them have there fun then like in a couple of weeks they relized how gay there where being like dont let them no that you cried......pretend that you dont care and it isnt getting to you i kno it is it got to me but i started talking to a gurl who i kkno dint start it and like she told me she was going along but it was one person who was saying all the stuff........they made a book about me like a burn book and like it hurt but bailey the one i talked to burned it cuz she new it was stupid just wait dont talk to them or let them know that it is geting to you and they willl stop........just dont stoop down to there level and curse them out or say nething to them let them relize that there stupid and imuture!!
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I have this friend which I've been (sort of) best friends with since we were 2. We're both 14, and she's a couple months older than me. During this past year, for some reason we didn't get together as much. But those few times we did [get together], we had a lot of fun gossiping about crushes (she goes to a different school), surfing the Internet, etc. Then we exchanged email addresses. We carried on about 25 emails between us, and it was coming along fine...until one day, I was telling her about my world record, and she suddenly emailed back, calling me a freak. I got angry, and then she replied back saying “You have to face the truth sometime.” It really hurt my feelings. I get that a lot with other kids, and now my best friend!!! She’s never done anything like this before! Advicenator, help me!!!
---Hurt
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okay yea it probly wasnt her like she was probly with another friend and like to impress her other friend she said she probly didnt mean it and like yea that has happened to me and like now the gurl who called me that is my best friend and is over my house right now............get her alone call her when non of her other friends are by her and talk to her abuot it and ask her why she called you or said stuff!!?!?!?
katherine hallie!
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Okay I'm extremely confused. I'm a freshman in school and I have recently come to terms that I am gay and by the way I'm a guy. I have a friend who is a guy also and he comes over all the time. I am extremely attracted to him and I don't know what to do. I want to tell him how I feel but there is never the right time and I'm afraid if I do and he's not gay, he'll tell everybody about me. I have a pretty good feeling that he may be gay too but I'm never entirely sure. He has made comments before that if we were both women he would totally kiss me and he has made other moves on me as well but I think he may be waiting for me to make the first move. I feel that if I do, he may freak out. I've smoked with him a lot (not legal stuff lol) and all he does is say how he really likes me and he gets cuddley. How can I determine if he likes me and how can I start a relationship with him without completely ruining my life. Please respond immediately and keep in mind that I REALLY like this guy. Thanks! (link)
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okay to me it sounds like he is gay and like talk to him say hey what if we were both gay would we go out and ask him like that and then it will happen or not i hope he is gay cuz i love happy gay people here so cute!!!
hope it all works out for ya!
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well im gonna be cheering this year, i've only cheered once in 6th grade. but the squad im about to enter they do stunts and jumps, my question is how can i get better in the jumping ? i have until august, i wanna be good at the jumping because this is a competitive squad ! ♥ (link)
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hey okay im a cheerleader and i have been competting since i was in 4th grade and like its alot of fun...okay to work out your jumps ummmm stright alot like in the leag area like do a strail and like yea i cant think of any right now cuz im alil tired but put a question in my inbox and it will remind me and ill tell you more later!!!
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ohk well im 13 and colombian (spic) woot woot yeah i know lol. anyways my mom and my dad asked me what i want to have a sweet 15 or a sweet 16.. its kinda early but they wanna start saving up since they wanna have my party at the hilton ... but the thing is that most if my friends that im going to invite are white or black and like 6 are spanish ... and i think that they will enjoy a sweet 16 better , but i mean its a tradition for a spanish girl to have a sweet 15 ? im confused help me out (link)
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do w.e. you want i mean have a big sweet 15 to keep the traditon and then ahea lil sweet 16 wiht a couple gurls like at your house!
or do the total opposit like have a sweet 15 wiht you parents somethign really small then have a big sweet 16!!
hope i helped!?
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What is 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th base? I've been told a lot but I can never remember! I know 4th is all the way though. A guy I know told me he wanted to go to 3rd base with me and I dont know what it is. And I'm wondering what the other bases are too. Help! (link)
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the 4 bases are the 4 f's
french
feel
finguar
fuck!!
your welcome!
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ok I have known some one sence I was like born and then we havent seen each other in like 6 years and then we both change schools and it turns out that we go to the same school. his name is Colby and I have fallin in love with him. BUt I dont want to be because I think it will mess up are friendship. I dont know what to do what should I.
Megan (link)
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okay allthough i love the name colby i wouldnt do it not yet one everyboy that i went out that had the name colby turned out to be a gay fag but i dont kno in your case okay one you are never to ask him out the guys do all the asking 2 just talk to him let him kno how you feel and just leave it at that if he likes you and you tell him that you like him then he would probly make a move but yea if he asks you out then you should i dont think it would ruin your friendship unless you cheat on him but i dont think you would!?
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My sister has been smoking for over 6 months. She's only 16. I live with my mom and my sister so out of us three I'm the only one who doesn't smoke. I hate second hand smoke and how they don't even care enough to smoke outside. I've asked them numerous times to smoke somewhere else but they tell me to deal with it. My other sister who is 27 comes over with her boyfriend and they also smoke. My brother and I are the only ones who don't smoke but he doesn't even live here. I get so mad and my sister and I get into fights over this. What should I do? They don't think I have any right to be mad or anything and it's just not fair. (link)
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you could like go live wiht your brother or runaway and show them how mad you are and they should care and it might change ther minds if you run cuz everymother loves her child
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hey i was thinkin of after my shower putting gel in my wet hair and scrunching it. do i need to blow dry my hair as/after i do this? can i just let it air dry? thanks (link)
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okay what i do is let my hair air dry when i put gel in it and scrunch it then once it is dry or not as wet i would style it how ever
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im soo confused.. this one guy says he likes me alot, and told my best friend that he loves me. He told me he had feelings for me he cant explain. but every once in awhile he'll stop talking to me, and like wont say a single word to me.. hes out of town so we can only talk over the internet, and he wont talk to me when i IM him.. whats wrong with him? (link)
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sweeetie...it sounds to me like your his booty call....his just talking to you when he needs someone .......right now it sounds like he has found someone eles ....but when that is ove hell come running back and i hope you dont let him in......he will just hurt you!?!?!
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I am a homeschooled girl, I'm turning 15 in about two months. I am doing this program for middle schoolers, where I go and pick up tons of work each month. Apparently, theres so much, that its hard cramming it all in a month, but I manage to get it done the very beggining of the next month, meaning I turn it in late. This happens, because either I didn't have parents take me because they were gone, or I wasn't done. Most of the time it was just not going on time. I expected a lot from myself when I was in public school, my grades were always in a high range. But now, I am failing three classes. Ever since I saw my grades, I have been feeling guilty for eating, sleeping, or doing anything I want because I shouldn't deserve to do what I want. I am so full of stress, I think that maybe another reason. I see a therapist that takes both of my parents sides, and my parents are divorced, but they still fight. But, I'm not going to drown myself in excuses because I've managed to do well in the past. There are lots of other stressful things going on, but I am just really scared that I'm going to get held back. I havn't finished the month of May, I tried to last night, but those thoughts of being a failure took over and kept me from concentrating. I have no idea what to do with the present work, but I do have goals for high school, I might be staying home again. Could anyone share some advice that could help me get my stress out and my future thoughts in?
I'll definetly rate because of the length of this question. It will be more than just thank you. (link)
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wow what the freak is wrong with you.....i almost faild 2 classes but brought my grade up the last week of school.....its nothign you should feel undesevein of......kids fail all the time its just as you go on the work gets harder and harder.....just try your best adn try not to think about ...relax and go just dive into the work adn dont stop till your done....it worked for me and i hope it can work for you!!?!?!?
katherine hallie!
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Ok so today is my sleepover little gathering for m bday. Only three of my bff are coming, what are soem things we can do?!All girls'
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hey opkay if you do go rolling i want to kno what happens hope you dont get caught!!!! and IM me to tell me what happened or writ in my inbox!!!!
HAVE FUNN!!!!
happy b-day
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Ok, so i like this guy, but he said he likes my friend and he told that friend he likes me. Whats going on!?
Plus, my friend and i are nothing alike. (link)
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well it sounds to me like he is trying to egt yall 2 in a fight..... dont listen okay go along wiht it or just stop talking to him but he probly dosent like ne of yall and just wants to have alil funn messeing wiht yall!!!
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Okay so I'm thirteen years old and I just got my period yesterday. I was at a pool party that day and my friends gave me a tampon, instructions, and locked me in a bathroom trying to get me to put the damn thing in. It was ''regular'' size (Tampex with the yellow code or w/e) and it hurt soooooooooooooooo much! I had the tip in and then after that it hurt soo much, it wouldn't go in. I just bought Playtex ''Lites Junior'' or something and I'm too afraid to put it in. Help! (link)
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okay
1. the one you had was too big ( i made the mistake)
2. you ahve to use the lil ones
3. make sure it is in far enough
it gives you insturtions read them the are helpful!
please rate!
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ok... so i know this is going to be one of the dumbest things you've ever heard... but... my best friend.. idk she doesnt make me feel very good.. she does things that cause me to cut myself.. and she steps all over me.. i bend over backwards to try and make sure she's happy and everything.... but she just doesnt seem to appreciate me.. i'm a really pure hearted girl.. and it's gotten to the point where she could slap me and say she hated me and i'd still love her.. kinda like when you hear about those guys that beat there wives and they stick arond and dont rat on there husbands.. i know its dumb.. but idk... im not happy in life... she's made me weak and insecure... she swore she hated this girl amanda....those two hated eachother for the longest time... and now its like nothing happened and they're best friends again.... i hate it.. and all of my friends say to just forget my bf because she isn't worth it.. but no one understands how hard that is for me..... i know i shouldnt stick around... but gosh.. its so dang confusing.. please help me anyone!
5's to anyone that helps...... :'( (link)
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hey
okay i had the same problem...i had this best friend and then when she meet some one eles she for got about me like she still said we were bf and everythign adn then she would make me do her homework so she could go off wiht veryone eles i left her made new frinds and now im happier.....you could talkk to her about it but i dont want to say ne thign that might not work yall might end up fighting and it will just get worse from there say that you have to spend some time alone to her then durning this time you would go make new friends .......right now the real only thing to do is talk or walk....if i were you i would walk!?!?!
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Help! I like this boy a lot and he thought we broke up and so he asked this other girl out who he said was annoying and i think it was just to make me jealous but whatever. This other girl said stuff behind my back to my friend. She now wants to talk to me and i don't know what to do? I really like the guy but i don't know how. I have tried ignoring him and stuff but it just doesn't work. What to do????????
I rate high!!!!
~fellow advicenator (link)
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if i were you i would talk to the dude figure out what teh hell is going on .....but if he asked a gurl to get you jealous then thats a clear sign he still likes you i mean if he didnt then he wouldnt ahve botherd ...... talk and get the side of the story and as for that gurl dont say a word o her things will just get worst...trust me i did that and now my life is a liveing hell!?!?!
~hope i helped~
kathren hallie!
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my brother just got kicked out of my house, and I really dont know how to feel. at first I was sad and I cried a little, but now I don't really care because I remembered this friend i have that has a brother that's the same age as my bro but he lives in a different house 3 houses away from my friend. i dont know if he got kicked out, but they dont seem to mind.
How would you feel? (link)
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hey man if i was you i would freaking cry my eyes out i mean i love my brother to death he is leaveing for colloge (sp) and like im so sad he isnt going to riht down the hall ne more...you cant reall tell some one how to feel i mena you feel like how you feel ....if it was fro a good reason (probly not) then i mean feel like how you want ot feel ...cry you head off if you want to i kno i would
~kathren hallie~
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Ok, i have no clue what a physical is or what they do to there.....
can you please help me like tell me what they do u there.?
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hey ive had to take a physical three years in a row now since 5th grade for cheerleading....dont be worried its nothign bad....first they takr your blood presuar then your doctor will check all you movemnts and thats not bad then you hav to pee in a cup you might be embarrised but dont be its nothing bad......then if you ahaveent gotton any of your shots then you get those......
if you still dont get it IM me on kathrenhallie!
~hope i helped~
kathren hallie!
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Sorry I rewrote it as you couldn’t read it well..
i have never got on with my dad very well from a young, i didnt like something he did (it was sick and twisted) so i told him and he didn't seem to get the message to stop, so i said stop or i'm running away. he didn't stop.. so i did what i said and ran away, my friends. dad was there and he knew everything that had been going on and said he would hit my dad if he didnt stop. so my dad being like 1/5 of his size stoped, this was like 18 months ago now ever since he has been trying to like get me back i use to cut myself and he knew everytime it didnt change anything though its like i'll be on the phone he'll shout... i'll be on the computer he'll shout and make up things when i yell back he'll just say that im over reacting and twisting what he is saying.. hes always taking my phone off me grounding me for things i havent done.
e.g. i got the wrong coat out the cupboard he grounded me for 6 months from ahving or going to a sleep over.
i use just my folk at dinner yesterday and not with the knif he goes who out ya friends have you got that off then i just went no one and walked out the room saying fine then i wont eat at all.
he didnt offer me any food all night.
my mum doesnt do anything about it she just says its your dad and its how he does things.
when i go see my councellor she just says look what your parents are going through and im just like there punishing me for something I haven’t done.
i endded up in hospital in dec for taking an overdose and my parents just told the nurses i had fallen out with my friends (making me look stooped) my dad just didnt want to get in trouble.
he blames me for everything and i think its just to do with what happened like 18 months ago i seriously cant do anything right i walk in the room and he'll say something. he hasn't been talking to me for the last 2 weeks because i do everything wrong and i just dont know what to do anymore im only 14 i cant move out or anything im just stuck here being blamed and punished. i have a sister (16) but she dont care she only thinks about herself and does everything our parents say and they never say anything to her even if she does something wrong if i were to do that they would ground me, im always being grounded or told off for something and its just taking over me right now.. is there anyway i can get out of here, or at least stop my dad from trying to take over my life?? (link)
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okay you need to get out of that house befor you or your dad kills you....go to a friends house tell your mom were your going and say like if you dont let me go i will kill my self where you are at right now is not a safe place your dad needs to go to counicling from what i am hearing he is not a good father figure.....dont sit around and let him boss you around but dont get him to mad stand up for you self......but for right now try figuring out how to get out of that house and to a safe place...
if you need more help IM me on kathrenhallie
~hope i helped~
kathren hallie!
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