Wow okay. well these 3 friends made me cry today. im in 7th grade and i dont cry normally and they were yelling and making fun of me today and yesterday. one girl said i ditched her when i was waiting for my other friends and then we went to go swim with them and then they left us and it kept happening. my best best friends now hates me and called me a fake today beacuse she thought i was saying alot of chit about her, and i wasnt i spend almost everyday with her in the summer i went to basketball team with her i dont hate her or anytihng! and then the oither ones i dont know, but i dont know what to do now, and they made me cry today and i dont wanna lose them as friends but i also dont wanna continue being best friends with them, but they can get the whole school turned against me. and i dont want that. they arent as popular as they seem but they have a way to get everyone else mad at me. i just dont know what to do, i ask my other friends but they dont know either. it seems as if everything is always blamed on me and now i dont know what to do beacuse they wont believe me on anything. i really need some help, if you could please give me some advice.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? kathrenhallie answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 4:38 pm: hey yea the same excat thing happened to me except it was durning school........ dont say nethign to them let them have there fun ......my so called friends did turned the whole 7th grade aganist me but i stck wiht my sister (who is in 8th) and like all her friends and yea i didnt say nethign to them i let them have there fun then like in a couple of weeks they relized how gay there where being like dont let them no that you cried......pretend that you dont care and it isnt getting to you i kno it is it got to me but i started talking to a gurl who i kkno dint start it and like she told me she was going along but it was one person who was saying all the stuff........they made a book about me like a burn book and like it hurt but bailey the one i talked to burned it cuz she new it was stupid just wait dont talk to them or let them know that it is geting to you and they willl stop........just dont stoop down to there level and curse them out or say nething to them let them relize that there stupid and imuture!! [ kathrenhallie's advice column | Ask kathrenhallie A Question ]
xxBrOkEnxx answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 3:40 pm: i know this isnt going to be good advice but go up to them and be like 'if you want to talk shit about me, say it to my face' and the they say something and punch her. or say stuff back to her. im bad at this stuff but thats what i would do. and today these 2 girl go into a fist fight and everything because they were talking bad about them and so she held her down by her neck and punched her non stop and now her face is all messed up.so yeah.maybe talk to them one on one. [ xxBrOkEnxx's advice column | Ask xxBrOkEnxx A Question ]
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