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im karlyn.
i love volleyball.
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i missed my period took a pregnancy test came back negative what should i do (link)
As the last answer back said...your missed period can be due to a lot of other things besides pregnancy. However, if something happened to where you think you could be pregnant, you should go see a doctor to get a more accurate test.


My boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months now and been lving together for almost 5 months. We have sex several times a week, and use the pull out method. I started birthcontrol in the beginning of April, so i have been on it for a little more than a month. Last night my boyfriend decided to cum inside of me. I didnt think it was wrong because i am on birthcontrol. But now he is scared that i am preg. What can i do if i am cummed in again. And what is the chance that i am preg.? (link)
If you are seriously worried take the morning after pill if it is still within 72 hours. Since you've only been on birth control for about a month it is less likely to help...I would say don't let him cum in you again, especially if you don't want to get pregnant. or use condoms!


16/f. I am about 5'4", 150 lbs... My doctor told me I should be about 138. I would like to lose some weight on my arms and in my stomach and thighs..Are there any particular exercises that can help me with this? I have no access to a gym or weight lifting equipment. Please be kind of descriptive! Thanks! (link)
For starters you need to do some cardio work. Like running, riding a bike, swimming. Anything to get your heart rate up for a period of time. After that to help with specific areas for your thighs you can do lunges, forward, backwards & to the side. Do about 20 for each leg of each kind. For your stomach, do some crunches, and leg lift types of things. If you google ab work outs you can find tons of different exercises to try. Arms are hard to work on with out any weight lifting equipment. All need is like 5 pound free weights. But you could try doing push ups. And if you go swimming, that will help your arms.

Hope this helps & good luck!


Is it okay to kiss my g/f on her forehead while we hug? Would she find that weird or ok? I love her a lot and want to show more affection for her. I don't want to make her uncomfortable or unhappy though. What are your thoughts on a guy kissing his girlfriend on the forehead? (link)
definitely...my boyfriend does it every once in awhile & i love it...its super cute. he does it when we're just like sitting on the couch or something like that too.
so i would say go for it :)


was there a gossip girl new episode last monday the 25th? and when is the season finale? and when does it start back up again? (link)
no there wasnt a new one on the 25th, the season was over the week before, but i don't know when its supposed to start up again...all the episodes are online if you missed the last one! :)


Hi, i am a female junior high school b ball player and i was wondering...Ive always wanted to get recruited and play at a (small) division 1 b ball school.... but what do you think about me not going to college for sports....like have you ever heard of a great high school player that didn't move on? i meant i almost have my 1000 points and i averaged 22pts last season and i just feel like i should be playing college b ball....what do you think? (link)
Ok... I play volleyball in college now. I play at a small school, but that is by choice. I don't know much about basketball, but I can tell you a lot about recruiting. Junior High may be a little early, but if you are truly D1 material it's really not. The earlier the better...you need to start narrowing down what you want to go to school for. You need to choose a school that has the major that you want.
There are also online recruting agencies..you post all your contact info, stats, and all that other good stuff...then coaches can go on that webpage and they will see that. When I did that I was getting at least 3 emails or calls from coaches a day.

if you have any other questions or want more info just message me in my inbox


ok, my boyfriend gets an erection just about everytime we make out, is it normal for that to happen every time? thanks (link)
yeah its normal...but if you start doing more than making out more often then it might not happen so often, because it would take more to turn him on...


which is better for homecoming?

http://www.papayaclothing.com/shop/goods_detail_v1.php?goodsIdx=3928

http://www.papayaclothing.com/shop/goods_detail_v1.php?goodsIdx=3963 (link)
i think the first one, but they both look more like clubbing clothes not really like a homecoming dress if you ask me.


Ok so I usually have my period start sometime around the 22nd to the 25th at the end of every month. So this last month I had it REALLY late and it started the 8th of July. I started taking birht control on the 13th and it is now the 24th and its really weird because I'm bleeding... Am I having my usual period or is it just spotting from the pills? It's very light and it has been goin on for a few hours now. If it is spotting how long does spotting last? Any help would be great! Thanks! (link)
I had that happen to me too when i started on birth control. your body just has to get used to it. it took me like a couple months to get like completly regular and back to normal....it shouldnt be anything to worry about other than its just annoying....but once your body is used to the birth control its a lot better.


Hey guys! I'm a senior this year and will be getting my senior pictures in the fallish. I have no idea what poses or clothes to wear. I know that I am getting a dressed up one.(what to wear?) One with my cheerleading uniform on and one with my basketball uniform on. Then one sitting down with all my uniforms behind me, and all my awards around me and my Varisty coat hanging up. (what to wear?)
Anymore ideas?
I was also thinking of a picture with my shirt off, but from the back, bc I have a tattoo in memory of my g*ma and I would LOVE to get one with it.
Its angel wings with "gammy" in a banner. Its a big tattoo on the top of my back. I'm a girl, so I'll be holding my boobs, but you won't see them anyways and I'll be looking at my tattoo or the camera. Or just a bad idea all together?

ideas? THANK YOU!! (link)
well if you go to a photographer they will help you with poses. you just have to listen to them and be comfortable with what you;re doing.

i would suggest simple outfits. just like everyday outfits. like for mine (i graduated last year) i had one with just a black long sleeve shirt, and jeans and then some cute earrings, and those were my favorite. you dont want your outfits to take over your pictures. for the dressed up one maybe just like a cute summer dress? those always lok good, but make sure that they look right on, because i did that and the dress made me look pregnant.
i did a picture with my varsity jacket and then my jerseys and everything in the back ground and then i just wore jeans and my warm up jacket from vball.
i like your tattoo picture idea, but my only suggestion is that make sure you're not trying to look sexy because then it migt come off slutty even though you're not trying to. just make sure that you're covered up...but def. a good idea for a picture!
i hope they turn out good!


the website myxertones no longer delivers ring tones to verizon phones but they have an alternate way of saving the file and sending it to your phone through email. i tried about 7 times and every time i do the ring tone doesn't send i just get a blank picture message. help!? (link)
yeah i have the same problem.... i used mobile17.com......it works the same way pretty much with the picture message n all.


what are spandex? what is it used for? also how is it used in volleyball?

WHERE CAN I BUY THEMM!!!!!! (link)
spandex are shorts that are meant to be worn skin tight. they are strechy. they're used for like...working out i guess people go running in them alot. they are a normal part of a volleyball uniform. they are skin tight so they dont get in the way.
you can get them at a sporting goods store.


SO i have the LG voyager and i love it but i have 2 questions that i went on verizonwireless.com but couldnt find answers.
1-Once im in text messaging, how do i get to the "Text to speech" key. when i try, it only does space =/
2-How do i download music onto my phone?

thanks! (link)
1. the text to speech only works on your messages in your inbox....so like it will only work if you are looking at a text in your inbox and you press the button then it will read it.
2. you can use vcast if it works on your area... OR i would suggest....like if you already have music on your computer this is a much better idea. buy a sd card...its super super tiny. i dont suggest buying it at the verizon store cuz you can get one online or even at like a best buy or something a lot cheaper. then what you do is plug the card into your computer and then put your music onto it..then take the card out and put it into your phone...its on the side wehere you open it..it says micro sd..open it in and then open my music...if you have problems feel free to leave me a message.



My boyfriend and I are thinking of having sex. I'm a virgin. He isn't. He's been tested and he doesn't have any STD's or anything. Well I want to be on birth control, but my parents are really religious and I can't go to them about this. They will freak. So I was wondering is there a place in Oklahoma, Kansas, or Texas where you can get birth control without your parents? I'm 16 so I'm still a minor. I'm going to use a condom, but I want the best protection I can possibly have because I will not put myself in that kind of situation. (link)
you can get birth control at a planned parenthood...

but just so you know birth control donesnt start working like right away. your body has to get used to it...and it can take a while...so definitly use a condom


where can you get it?

dont suggest any doctors/clinics

like cvs?

and do you have to be older 18 (link)
you can get it over the counter...you may just have to ask the pharmacist...like it wont just be sitting out on the shelves. depending on what state you live in you have to be 18...i live in michigan and you have to be 18 and you have to be a girl to buy it

dont use this as a regular birth control....it is only emergency back up if something goes wrong.


im 14.and ive been with my boyfriend for about a year&& 4 months.when we have sex he just pulls out.we havent been using protection for about 7months.i really dont like the sex with condoms.should i start using protection.do you think its safe? (link)
no you shouldnt be using protection...your 14!!! you shouldnt be having sex at all...thats CRAZY. but if you're going to do it....then yes use protection. its not safe to use the pull out method...tons have girls have gotten pregnant because they thought that would be good enough...
not even using a condom is completly effective, but 99% is definitly better.


okay so ive heard from a lot of people that they iron their hair with a normal iron...but my questions are is it bad for your hair? are there any special tips or advice you can give me so i wont burn my hair or anything ? does it work better than straightening ? is it faster ? (link)
In my opinion....using a straightener is much easier and better. when you use an iron its really hard to do your self, so you need some ones help. it doesnt raelly work any better, but with a straightener you can do smaller pieces of hair, and you are less likely to burn yourself


Okay, sooo here I go. sorry if this is long =/

me and my boyfriend just recently started having sex, it was both of our first times by the way.
Yes, we use a condom. EVERY TIME. I'd refuse to and he says hes not that stupid anyway especially since his dad got some girl at 17 pregnant with no condom like that. (Hes 17 almost 18 in july and im 15 almost 16 in september)but anyway when i get my period, my cramps are horrible, my period is for about 8 to 9 days and sorry for the over share but i bleed really heavy. yes i am a heavier girl and its normal to bleed heavy when your a heavier girl (i'm 5'2 or 5'3 and about 183 lbs. yes i know i'm overweight and i need to find out a way to get rid of that too but i have a size F bra if that helps)
but its really annoying to feel like even if i just changed my pad i feel that im going to bleed through my pants.

to get to the point, i want to ask my mom if i can get birth control not only because there is always that TINY chance the condom can break but because i know that birth control will make it less days, lighter and less cramps also. i know A LOT of girls that are on birth control at my age because of their period but the problem is i dont know how to ASK my mom about it. It'd be awesome if you could give me a few ways to ask without her being EXTREMELY overwhelmed please? thanks in advance! (link)
Just tell your mom you're having really bad periods. i was the same way...i was kinda nervous at first....but just explain to your mom that its for your periods to lighten them and make them less painful.
the worst thing she can do is say no right? its not like you're going to get in trouble or anything, you're just asking.


a girl who have 15 partner, differnt guy to have sex with, is that considering as a whore? (link)
YESs !!


16/f
i play middle blocker on my club team. does anyone know what are the different kinds of middle blocker hits and how do you hit them? i only know the "1" and "2" but i dont fully understand the "1". ive also heard of "back 2" and "51" and "8".

ty in advance (link)
heyy...ok. so basiclly this is what you can do.
1- very qucik hit...basically you just take it staright out of the setters hands. quick approach and quick.
2- its a slower 1 its called a 2 because it supposed to be 2 feet higher than the net, its just the basic middle hit.
back 2- same as a 1 except you go behind the setter instead of in front of her, again a fast approach and hit.
51- its like half way in between an outside and middle hit as far as placement on the net. its not that fast, but its not slow.
8- its in the right side hitting postion, you do kinda the same foot work as you would if you were doing a lay up in basketball, you jump off of one foot.

but raelly...just ask your coach....he/she will tell you what they want




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