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I'm 13 and i wanna help you guys as much as i can please let me have your questions i hope i can help
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ok well this year is going to be my sweet 16 (im a felmale) and i want to have a really good party. I live in pittsburgh pa. i dont want to travel to far because with the cars we have we can only hold like 6 other ppl besides my family. my birthday is in dec. so its prob going to be cold out. also i want something that will be somewhat cheap. like i dont have a very big budget at all and i cant afford to rent somehwhere really nice or go anywhere real expensive. The party is prob going to be all girls but im not sure and i dont want something that i have to have a certain about of people because i dont no how big of a party im aloud to have. i no i can have at least 10 depending on what it is. (link)
i have an idea have some freinds over if you want guys too. go outside and like do stuff with snow or like one of the other people said get a basment and make it a theme like wild wild west or my favorite hawwian i think i spelled that right for hawiian make everything hot have like a little place that has sand like in a coner make people have tees and stuff on then have buckets of water go over there and have fun then (Make sure that nothing will get ruined by this) have water ballons and water ballon fight or somthing then rent a hot movie hoped i helped


I have been married for 5 years and have been with my husband for 6 years. He is a Army soldier. We have lived in Germany for the past 4 and half years. My husband just recently told me that our hole marrige was based on lies, and that he has never been in love with me!!!! He told me the truth about everything!!!! He has cheated on me so many times that he can't remember!!!!! My question is what can I get in the divorce? Do we have to split everything, and can I make him pay for pain and suffering? (link)
hmm i can't really help cuase i'm 13 but i've seen way to many movies about divorce and stuff. ok here is what the t.v shows say on one her huspand was cheating on her she took everything he liked but he took everything she likes so i think it depends on what get your lawyers and then ask them i think you can kept everything depends on what he did so says the law i think i know i don't thinked i helped but when i'm been asked for advie i never turn them down even if i don't have the answer


this last month.. ive been aggrivating myself so much.. & my boyfriend has noticed it too;; and he tries to help but iuno.. he just makes me forget for a little while but then when we arent talking stuff comes back again.. i got this letter from my so-called "father" and ever since i got it it's been under my skin. i never wrote him back.. ive written about 100 letters to him and my brothers and havnt sent them.. never get the nerve..he said that was going to be his last time to try and tlak to me and if i didnt answer then it was going to be my turn to try basically..and then my mom started talking to yet another guy--- who lives in penn. where my "father" lives and now all of a sudden after 16 years "hey ash, lets go meet bill" (my father) im like wtf?! pisses me off a little.. and so now; she's making me meet him in the next 2- 3 weeks.. dont get me wrong, i want to meet him.. more then most i want to meet my brothers but.. for some reason id rather wait til i have my own money, car & can decide when and where for certain things ya know? plus.. all my mom does is shyt talk him when i do ask about him "white trailor trash" ;; "smokes & drinks all day.. has no job & no money"

what do i do... (link)
it is your call it seems like your mom hates your dad and your dad wants tol talk to you why don't you give him a chance and send one letter or you can just say 'mom I want to wait till i have my own car money and I want to decied.' this may be hard but meeting your brothers might be fun if you want to go just to meet them thats fine i would too. but i can't help you that much though i'm sorry but with the advie i gave you i hoped i helped


okay so theres this boy that i really like and i mean like i would die just to be with him and he always says i love you and everything to me and then im like i love you more and i realize im right and that hurts alot..but thats not my point i mean now his friend is telling me he doesnt like me and i feel like im gonna kill myself and like the person i like.. well i went out with him before and he must really be the hottest guy in my city and everyone knows him...and we looked so cute together..so what do i do about it?

Hope you can help thanks (link)
go up to him an say hey your friend says your don't really like me is that true or say if he doesn''t like you keep a place in your heart but don't let one guy control you just wait for awhile with that place and go talk to more guys if he doesn't like you but if he does say kool i really like u too maybe we should go out then laugh and say will what do you think hoped i helped please don't kill your slef though for a guy


how do i get a guy to really notice me and want to talk to me? I think that this guy might like me and I like him. I want to get to know him better, but when I talk to him he sometimes seems to be distracted, but all in all we have a good conversation sometimes. He doesn't even look at me unless I'm trying to talk to him, unless he's just staring. (I don't mind lol) Why doesn't he want to try to talk to me? He probably does, but it isn't showing. He is my friends brother and I feel weird talking to her about it. Plus he knows I like him and I don't know what to do. We ofter lock eyes with one another. I just wonder how he feels. I just want to be better friends with him, so he can get to know me and vis-versa. What do I do. I RATE HIGH for appropriate answers!!!!!!! Please HELP!!!!!! (link)
Hmmm ok here we go ask him like hey whats up anything new happen to you? if so listen maybe you will find somthing out if he say no you tell if somthing did happen but make sure it isn't boring like oh i got a hambuger for lunch yesterday at blahblah or ask him what is his favorite sport answer to or somthing like that if you get a good conversation but ride is over say oh darn i really wanna finsh this write down your phone number and say call me ok hoped i helped


I liked this guy and his sister is one of my friends. They ride my bus and that is like the only time that I see him. He used to always like stare at me, but then i would look at him back and our eyes would lock for like a sec then we would spin around. Anyways, she told him on Tuesday that i liked him. I don't know how to react. He said that he didn't care and just went on as normal, but i found out this today. Yesterday( which was last wednesday at the time) , I talked to him, but know how to continue to talk to him. We were talking in a conversation and i thought that it was fine, but i wonder if the only reason he was talking to me was because he knew that i liked him. it is really weird. plus on top of that i'm not sure on how i feel about him. i didn't want him to know about it until we became good friends. I could barely talk to him when i thought that he didn't know, but know he does i feel.... I don't know how i feel. I need help. And today (wednesday), I couldn't even say a word because I really had no clue what they wre talking about. I really can be a talkative person, but I just didn't have the right subject on the line. Right now I feel soooooo stupid I just don't know what to do. Sorry for the length. lol. Please help!
~Linda (link)
1 tell your friend he or she had no right to tell him that without making sure it was ok by you don't worry i'm talkative too let him start telking if you have somthing to say about it say it but make sure you don't talk to much i found that out 2. if he doesn't say anything say like do you play any sports if he answers say that you do too (if you do) if he doesn't say oh ok anyway whats up anything new happen to you or just sit there and if they ask what are you doing say i'm listening but i have nothing to say in the matter right now or somthing i hoped i helped


theres this boy that i've liked for a long time but since i havent kissed a boy before he calls me prude and says he wont go out with me cuz of that. then he says well show me that you're not prude but i dont want to kiss/make out with him just to prove that to him but i really like him alot and i hate everyone calling me prude. what do i do?
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easy HE ISN'T FOR YOU!! look there is this girl at my school she likes this guy but he calls her a slut and a whore and stuff and we tell her he doesn't like you she says he does that to cover up and HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND if he calls you prude again say i don't see why i ever liked you a guy that likes me for who i am won't care if i never kissed anyone and i guess you don't like me for who i am hoped i helped


my bf always says hes gonna call me back but never does nd we were on the phone like 5 hrs ago nd he said he was gonna call me back but didnt so should i just call him or will i seem desperit? i havent talked to him in a while cause he was on vaca nd when we got to talk before, it was only for like 10 mins cause he had to go cleanhis room or wutever. i dont wanna seem desperit. but ive been missing him. . . please answer fast ill rate! the faster, the higher (link)
ok here is somthing good make a time for when you guys can talk for awhile can't do that then date maybe the it will work hang on together or if he says he will call you back never has just call back say hey what happened thought you were going to call me back like an hour ago (if it was that long) maybe that will work


i am 13 and i need 200$ by the end of the summer does anyone no where i can get a job in ronkonkoma ny or holbrook ny! (link)
easy ask your rents if you can work where they work for money and they give you money on how well you do they i'm doing that i git 40$ a day or 20 u should get it soon if that doesn't work do chores around the house for money


I'm being blammed from my friend that i have been hacking onto her account on another site!well, i'm not!how do i convince her i would never do that to her? (link)
ok my answer id kinda like the others but in a way that can helped 1st tell her that it wasn't you and you can prove it go to your history but if you can't (it is control h just telling you or ask your rents) but if you can't do this a true freind like alot of people said if she doesn't belive you better find a new friend


Hey !! Im 15 and have had a crush on this one guy for over 4 years now (on and off) Ive had boyfriends during this time period but for some reason I keep going back to liking him. We've never been extremely close but we are friends. He's extremely cute, and has a good personality. We see each other out of school sometimes, but for some reason he will never talk to me online, wby is that? He was at my friends Swt 16 and we danced and I actually thought he'd ask me out but soon I found out he wouldn't date me because im quote "beautiful and too perfect" and he wouldnt want to just use me for sex because im more then that and im one of his friends. Im flattered but in the pit of my stomach I cant stop thinking about him, should I go on liking him or just move on and maybe one day he'll realize what he has lost? Please help me, thanks so much ! xO
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oh so hard this has happened to me i told this to other girl too. this is what i told my guy freind when his friend didn't want to be with me till we are older like 16 or somthing. qoute 'nobody will controll me cause they don't like me. there are other guys out there and one of them is bound to like me but he will always have a place in my heart who knows one day he migth like me again when that place is still there or i have sombody better and he is too late so like i have been saying and i always will no man will control me jst beacuse he doesn't like me and one day in time a man will come when we meet we will like each other and soon maybe love will come but he was to late. so i hoped i helped sorry if i didn't but what i have been saying is that you might get over him you might not but don't wait for him forever time waits for no one so get up meet sombody but keep a stop in your heart just for him just don't keep it there to long keep t for awhile or how ever you think you should just not to long hoped i helped but if he didn't come back to you you eill always remember everything you guys did when you were friends hoped i helped


I have four really good friends. Well one of my best friends that ive known for a long time left this week for kansas where her family lived. And we have been planning a beach trip with the four of us and our families. Well the week everyone could go she couldnt. Well..my other 2 friends (theyre sisters) theyre dad is gonna be down there and they invited me. Well i didnt kno my friend was coming back the day before i was leaving. So she got mad at me becuz they didnt invite her but they invited me. Should i go and not worry about it or not go and make everyone happy?

PS this friend has done some stuff to me..like she left me out a couple of times..but im still godo friends with her becuz our families are too (link)
hmm this is hard and happened to me. Ask your freind that isn't coming if it is ok for you to go if she gets mad just remind her of the time she ditched you but all the good times and not all freinds can be together 24 7 and do every little thing together if she is still mad ask your freinds that are going without the other freind if she can come if they say no then i have nothing i would follow my heart and know you did what you thought was right good luck and have fun if you go


okay ive known these girls for a very long time but this year we started to be best friends. we always did stuff with each other and had sleepovers every weekend. but lately they both have been getting mad at each other and they both turn to me to either invite over without the other or for advice. i feel uncomfortable because i don't want to get in the middle and i want to keep both for friends. i want to be as close as we used to be. how do i make that happen? help! (link)
i know about this. and my advice is simply tell your freinds about it WITH BOTH OF THEM THERE tell them you don't want to be in the middle of this and ask what happened we were best freinds and now we are not. I wanna know maybe we can still be best friends. If they say i can't be friends with her/him tell them that you won't choose who to be with that you like both of them and you don't want to that freindship to fall if you can't fix it just ask them if they can still be friends i hoped i helped you


Same poster as "Sordid Love Polygon."

I'm eighteen years old, female, and I was unpopular at my high school. Somehow, however, I ended up being friends with a lot of the football players. I got really close to one of them, Alan; he ended up becoming one of my best friends. He's the perfect man in every way--smart, funny, cute, nice--except that he's OBBSESSED with SEX.

Alan has a girlfriend, Bella. She's a nice girl, and I like her as a friend, but the two are toxic to one another. When they have problems, it's like all the life gets sucked out of him. They're really harmful to each other.

Even when they break up, he always has other girls in line... (Naomi, for example). He's got a reputation for being able to get anyone to sleep with him... sex is a huge part of his life.

Now that I've graduated, I find that I'm... in love with him. I think about him every day... When I’m not thinking about him, I’m thinking about these two characters from this game I like who are just like him and me. I really care about him... and I think he knows it, since I kissed him once. But he has a girlfriend. Even if he didn’t, I’m waiting until marriage to have sex, and I'm afraid he would convince me to do something I don't want to.

I know I can't be with Alan. I don't want to damage my friendship with him or Bella, and I know he’s not right for me. But I don't know what to do. These feelings I have for him are making it hard for me to deal with other guys, and just thinking about not seeing him every day in school is killing me. I guess what I want to know is, how do I get over a guy who doesn't like me anyway? (link)
i know about this.a guy i liked siad we can't be together till we are older and this is what i told a friend of mine who is boy freind to my best freind qotue 'Nobody is going to control me just cuase they don't like me there are other guys out there. and one of them are bound to like me but he will have a place in my heart when no one has me but when i do a little place will be there who knows maybe in time he will need me but i have somebody better than him so like i said before and i will always say this no man will control me if he doesn't like me and one day in time a man that likes me we will meet in time and we will like each other than love will come no man will control me just cuase he doesn't like me.' i hoped i helped if i didn't sorry i wasted your time but i do hoped i helped you so what i am saying you might not get over him you might but just be careful don't wait for him to like you time doesn't stop for anyone so don't wait get out there but just in cause he likes you when you still like him keep a little space in your heart for him but don't keep it there forever keep it for awhile but you will have mimories in that space that is filled hoped i helped


ok. what is the weight when you are fat.ik my brother always makes fun of me but is he just doing that to be mean or am i? what is the weight that is considerred fat?!PLEASE TELL ME



---am i fat? (link)
ok my bro does this too.I looked in the mirror cuase i thought my theighs and knees were fat but when i was looking on how i looked if ound out that looking down at urself makes look diffrent so look in a mirror and see how you look as for your bro tell him that you don't care anymore and to bug off and about the weight it doesn't matter my weight for fat is 100000000 lbs if you think you look good you look good feel good look good hoped i helped




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