okay so theres this boy that i really like and i mean like i would die just to be with him and he always says i love you and everything to me and then im like i love you more and i realize im right and that hurts alot..but thats not my point i mean now his friend is telling me he doesnt like me and i feel like im gonna kill myself and like the person i like.. well i went out with him before and he must really be the hottest guy in my city and everyone knows him...and we looked so cute together..so what do i do about it?
HottDork answered Sunday July 10 2005, 7:00 pm: just one thing....Dont kill yourself.lol.
Ive seen many people break up and go bak with eachother and stuff so I would think he still likes you.If he always says he loves you and you love him, how bout you ask him back out.
This may seem stupid, but this is meaning dont believe your friend because she may have a crush on him. But shes never said that.
where I would go from here.
Ask the person you love out
or at least say if you were to ask him out would he say yes. He may say he doesnt kno but that mostly means yes. i know. ive done it a million of times.
Or you can believe your friend and forget about him but that may haunt you for the rest of your life so you may not want to go this way for sure unless you dont love him
but you do of course
lil_froggy9 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 6:51 pm: Well if I were you...I would get over him...If he doesnt like you...then I dont think that it would work out...If you really can't get over him...then try talking to him...tell him how you feel about him...Or try doing things to keep your mind off of him...Get together with friends...Find someone else that sparks your interest...
Sarah2169 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 6:48 pm: well talk to him and see what he really feels for you, and you tell him the same...like what you really feel for him, try not to do it infront of a big crowd, cause he might be like ***no i never liked you, so just leave me alone*** you might end up geting really hurt so make sure its just you and him [ Sarah2169's advice column | Ask Sarah2169 A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Sunday July 10 2005, 2:29 pm: You need to ask HIM how HE feels. He's the ONLY ONE who knows EXACTLY what's in his heaRt. Just because you HEARD it fRom his FRIEND does NOT make it so. Just flat out tell him. Don't beat aRound the bush, just say it. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. I think once YOU have told HIM how YOU feel, you aRe moRe likely to get an HONEST Response foR him; since you would have bRoken the ice, you see? It's Really the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if how he feels about you; you can *ASSUME* his feelings all you want... but you'll neveR actaully know EXACTLY how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom HIM, you see?? And let's assume the woRst and he says he infact DOES NOT like you. Then it's kind of an 'end of stoRy' deal. Bottom line.. you CAN NOT **MAKE** someone like you, as unfoRtunate as that is. And what's the point in foRming a Relationship when only ONE paRtneR holds Romantic feelings foR the otheR?? I hate to tell you this, but I think you should be faiR to YOURSELF by accepting and Respecting his feelings. Then I think you should tRy to gatheR up the pieces of youR bRoken heaRt, and keep tRuckin' on. Think of it this way: what's the point in giving youR heaRt away to somoene who won't give you theiRs??? 'Love' is RecipRocal; meaning, it's NOT just one-sided. Relationships RequiRe a 120% effoRt fRom *BOTH* paRtneRs, and without that.. you've got nothing. I wish you all of the best. [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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