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Q: im having a party . . wat should i have to eat and to do...don't be all perverted and say those nasty things...besides spin the bottle wat good games r there to play...the party is for grls n boys the age of 13.....help
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Ok for starters!
FOOD: you can set up a little table with maybe a table cloth and put:
***cookies twizlers
chips any kind of candy
mnms skitels
popcorn dip and chips
pretzles
order pizza
pudding
punch
also for activitys i would do:
twister - truth or dare
hide and go seek *outside!!*
Card games, poker etc.
**did this on my b-day it rocks!*
go rapping!! ***friends house only!***
Trust...its a game where you make stuff up in the kitchen and friend...closes eyes and HAS to eat it...it keeps going till everyone IS GROSSED OUT!! so much fun!! PUT MUSIC ON!!! strike convos with everyone!!
HAVE FUN!!!!
judith (the lil' helper) keep me posted (O:!
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Q: hey! i asked this one guy out(13,f) and he said no but he still wants to be friends. we hang out all the time and he TOTALLY flirts with me and i do the same! he has to know how i fell, he would be a complete dork not to, but i think he feels the same, but he said no?! how do figure out what he's thinkn'?
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Ok. for starters you have to remember hes only 13 (right?) and 13 yr old boys arent usually interested untill later on in life...maybe 15 or 16...also I have a guy friend buts he was afriad to commit also because he knew if we broke up there goes OUR FRIENDSHIP!!!! YIKES!!!
so we waited a lil' while and he finally decieded to go for it...we are now going strong for 2 yrs!!!
hope all goes well!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: OK. i just bought this really cute mid-thigh length white denim skirt and i have no idea wut to wear with it. i know this is probably the stupidest question on here, but if you could help me, that'd be great.
o yea and i rate.
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Ok...
Ok a great idea...
would be to wear any bright colored top with flip-flops or even some cute high heels!
anything goes with white!
mostly bright colors tho...and even throw in a cute belt!
hope it looks good!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: Hey, Judith, I saw your response to the question about the girl who suspected that her bro was homosexual, and now, I quote, part of your EXACT ANSWER:
"GOOD LUCK...and if hes gay well my personal opionon is thats not a good thing...because im a christian...but if your ok with it good for you!!"
I'm Christian too, I'm straight, and Catholic, and I accept gay people for who they are, and there is NOTHING wrong with them. It's not even their fault. They were BORN that way. What if you were surrounded by homosexuals and they were making fun of you for being straight? That's way shallow, and it's shallow of people for making fun of gay people like that. My UNCLE is gay, and he had SUCH a rough childhood, with all he went through. All gay people ask is that you accept them. Gay people are PEOPLE, there is NOTHING that makes them inhuman. They can't CONTROL how they feel, just like how straight people can't CONTROL how they feel. Is that so different? I find you an inconsiderate person who is prejudiced and calls herself a Christian, when Christians are supposed to love thy neighbor as thyself.
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ok.
for starters my best friend is gay...
I meant when i said its not a good thing...what i was saying was not wat you think i was saying basically im not gay...in my opionon im not gay...but its kewl with others i believe if thats how they are then God bless them all i was sayin was that im not gay lol sorry for misunderstanding!!!
my bad
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: i dont eat good any suggestions?!
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Ok...for starters...
you have to have self control...and you have to see yourself and like yourself for who you are!
also try going to a nutrietion they can really give you great ideas!
hope all gos well!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor?
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Ok for starters...YOUR SO FREAKING LUCKY! WHOOHOO! be very glad ITS TOTALLY NORMAL!!
haha
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case?
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Ok personally i would wait untill im married!
but DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT WEAR 2 CONDOMS! THEY WILL RUB TOGETHER AND BRAKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
haha neways...it can happen my best friend had sex with a condom and is now a 15 year old mother...if your going to have sex...make sure its at LEAST the right person...
hope all goes well
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: im a big christian. very religious--but the guy that i like, and likes me, is jewish. i know that sounds dumb, but seriously, i dont know how my parents would feel. what should i do if he asks me out?
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Ok...I myself am also a christian and I will never date a Jew because the fact that they believe Jesus had already came back a 2nd time and different issues...later on in your relationship ...lets put it this way it will cause problems in the relationship...but do 1 thing before you make up your mind..pray to God and ask for guideance...hes the only one that can give you a solid answer!
God bless
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: does n e one know good ways to relive stress...i've been through a lot latley and i would like to know if there was n e thing i could do to help myself get over it!
MUCH THXZ
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Ok this is what I do...
1.I firstly tell a friend and let all my pains and stress be let out...
2. I play soft music take a nice hot bath
3. I then go into my room turn some good music on AND DANCE!!! its fun and its good excersice...
4. get a sheet of paper and write...10 things I love about my body, self, etc!
5. have a sleepover invite my best buds over and HAVE A BLAST!
by the way...it all depends on whats wrong...i hope you feel better! stress could also have to do with depression if it doesnt get better call or visit your local doctor!
good luck
ps if you happen to be religous you can also read the bible trust me it helps and PRAY!!!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: There's this guy I like, and I've known him for a while now. I went out with him about a year ago, and we broke up after a month because a misunderstanding. He was so shy and everything, and I was the first one to break him out of that. We had something special.. and I was the one to break it off, so it was my fault. After that, I STILL liked him.. and I still do. It's been over a year!! But I don't know what to do.. should I talk to him? And if I do, what should I say? I'm not the hottest person in the world, and I want to know how to get his attention, and make him come talk to me! Help!! *I rate*
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Ok heres what you need to do!
Call him one day and just talk...i mean it...just talk about school and guys and life!
then the next day when and if u see him @ school ask him to come to *some place* so that you can talk...
then just LET IT SPILL! tell him everything!
and believe me...he'll fall for you!
good luck!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: I like 2 people a LOT!! One of them has a girlfriend, and the other one is my good friend. We're not BEST friends, but we talk a lot. I know that the first one is kind of out of my reach right now.. so I want to go for the second one! How do I get the second one to notice me as more than a friend?
-*I'll rate, thanks!*-
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The easiest way is to straight up tell him...but if you dont want to TELL him then...
Give him signals...look @ him smile alot @ him and FLIRT!!!! believe me he'll get the point and he'll prolly come to TALK TO YOU!!!
hope it happens!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: Okay, I like this guy a lot.. and he's mixed. That doesn't bother me, but a lot of my other good friends are rednecks! That's like the only kind of people I really hang out with. I used to be a HUGE redneck, and was really racist... but I'm not anymore, because there's no point in that. My friends are friends with him, but they wouldn't go out with him... what do I say to my friends? I don't want to lose them, because they're awesome.. but I really like this guy, and if I have a chance to go out with him, I want to. I just don't want my friends to say rude things about us and make fun of me... What do I do? I'LL RATE!!
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Ok if you want to keep the guy and friends: heres what you need to do!
Before you commit yourself to him have a discussion with your friends...and tell them...
ok listen guys..i know you guys dont believe in mixing races but i really like him and i just wanted to tell you guys im thinking about going out with him...i just want you to know right now and I NEED TO KNOW even if i decide to go with him yall will support me...
and then...
if they respond negativly...tell them im really sorry...i do respect your answer but im going to go out with him...
hope fully they tell you its kewl...if they really want to be your friend they will say its cool!
GOOD LUCK!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: hey i have a 4 month old beagle and he bits on EVERYTHING..especially people! i mean i know he's a puppy and he's teething but we bought him like 1000000 toys and he only chews on them when he wants to play? we give him frozen vegetables but that doesn't work either? Is it gonna go away..cuz I dont want an agressive dog! Also are there any tips to help him not bite as much?
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OK for starters...
Hes only 4 months so he MUST be teething
also... whenever he bites be sure to punsish him
of course DONT EVER hit him but tell him in a serious and disapointed voice *point while speaking* BAD PUPPY! NO DOG!
and if it gets out of hand to where he can be of danger to others try taking him to disciplin dog school...works like a charm!
hope all goes well!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: I see people at parties, or at the movies, or just see them talking and I get jealous because they're in such a good relationship and I'm not in one! I don't know what to do... I always think maybe I'll get a boyfriend soon, but it never happens... How to I get the people I like to notice me, and how do I get closer to having a relationship??
I'll rate!
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Ok... for starters...
Its perfectly normal to be jealous its human nature...
And let it be known your looking for a relationship! dont keep silent about it!
and if you like a certian person TALK TO HIM!!!
guys hardly ever make the 1st move even if they REALLY LIKE YOU!!!
hope it helps
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: Hey..okay well my problem is that i really really like this guy...he is really hot,got a good personailty hes really fun to be around...but I heard that he only goes out with punk girls which im not..and im not just about to change who i am for a guy but i really like this one!!..i mean i talk to him and hang around with him...but i dont kno what to do!!!
So my question(s) is: 1.what is your idea of being punk?
2.if he just goes for punk girls....how do i try to get him to notice me without trying to be too punk?
3.do you think there will ever be a chance if i keep trying?
Thanxs girls...luvs you lots
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ok for starters:
if you like him, then you probably need to talk to him...if you dont he probably will never consider going out with you because...
guys never EVER suggest a relationship first you have to give him a hint that you dig him..
ok now to answer your questions...
1. i dont really like the idea of ME ever being 1 because it seems like alot of peeps are going that way and im myself
2. YOU HAVE TO TALK TO HIM!!!!
3. I think you most definitly have a chance with him!
good luck!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: ok, I just recently dumped my bf of three months. I'm 13/f, and I felt really bad about dumping him. I had thought about it all the time. On the school bus he acted fine, but I could tell he was hurt. I also heard a nasty rumor about him. (it's soo gross) But I kind of dumped him for that, and feel so rude. So at the dance, he asked me to dance, I said sorry for dumping him. We danced, and it was awesome. We're back together again. So...
1. Did I make the right decision?
2. Should I believe the nasty rumor?
3. WILL SOMEONE HELP ME?
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Ok
listen...
for starters he sounds like a wonderful guy!
the rumor you heard im almost 100% sure its NOT true...rumors hardly EVER are!
I'm 16 years old and I do believe you made the correct decision...
you go girlfriend!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: I want to get my bellybutton pierced but i dont think my mom will let me ill be 17 in less than a month any1 have any ideas on how to convince her ? and also i was wondering how bad it hurts and how they do it
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Ok...
just explain to your mother how much you want it and remind her " ya know im about to be 17 " and it would be a great gift for my b-day!
And tell her you wont be like other teenages and get it done without permission, because you respect her decision..and to top off the cake say not like i wont be 18 in a year!
hope it works
judith ( the lil' helper )
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Q: Hey i was wondering... when am I supposed to get arm hair thats actually brown and underarm hair.. i mean im 14/m and most of my friends have at least a little... when is the normal age for this..
Admins please don't delete this I really am concerned...
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Ok...
it really all depends on family heritage and genes..
in other words wait till you are maybe 15 or possibly 17 it could be just the way your body works...so what if your a lil' behind arm hair SUCKS!
haha hope i helped
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: i was just wondering, what's a "redneck" ?
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It is a term for:
Someone who wheres wranglers, boots, talks like, I dont know bout u but i aint goin to no school,
and listens to country music...
well there ya go!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: My dad won't let me date till im 16. Im only 14 right now and I have a boyfriend, and i have guy friends. My boyfriend called me this afternoon, and my dad heard the message he left me. All it said was his name and phone number, but my dad got mad. Then a little later, one of my guy friends called, and dad got even more mad. He said im too young to have guys calling me.
How can I convince my dad that im just friends with these guys? I really want to keep my friends, but he doesnt want me to hang out with guys. What do I do?
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OK haha sounds alot like my father!
heres some ideas:
A. you can sit down with your dad and tell him listen dad I know you dont like my guy friends and worry about me, but I just want you to know they are JUST my friends nothing more...
and about your boyfriend...well just tell your dad you guys are going out because you really like him and its just for fun and nothing bad will happen!!
if he still refuses and tells you no more guy friends...personally if i were you...would just ignore him...because honey your 14 and your dads protective just like mine...before you know it you'll be 16!!!
good luck
judith (the lil' helper)
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Hey guys my names judith and I love giving advice and helping others! if you need some advice feel free to ask anytime! or even EMAIL ME!! @ judithanne89@hotmail.com
truly yours!
Judith (the lil' helper)
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Info
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: texas Occupation: gymnast-student-gymastics teacher Age: 16 MSN: judithanne89 Member Since: September 18, 2004 Answers: 52 Last Update: September 22, 2004 Visitors: 5231
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