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i have this red dot on my nose. its real weird. ive had it for years now. like 4 or 5 years. this one dermatologist told me that it should go away after a year or two, but it didnt. he said i could have it lasered off, but i didnt want to. its like a vein end or something with a vein. does anyone know what it is? or anything like that?

I forget what it was but I had one once on my face near my nose. I had for about the same time you had it, I went to a dermantologist and they said the same thing and that I could have it lasered off, I was going to do it but I didn't. It eventually went away, so don't worry about it.

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my younger sister doesnt have her period but she is wearing pads what do i tell her?

well i am assuming that she is wearing them because she most likely wants her period.

tell her just too stop wearing them. (nicely of course) and that she hasn't started so she doesn't need them

if that doesn't work try to trick her out of it some way.

like tell her if she continues wearing them it will prevent her from starting her period. or something like that.

hope i helped =]]

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on march 18 i'm going to myrtal beach for cheerleading nationals. i'm not like fat but i've gained some weight and have huge love handles. i plan on going on a diet and doing a 10minute ab work-out everynight + cheerleading. the only problem is, i have trouble sticking to my plan. i need some good ones to stay motivated. any ideas? thankss.

i don't know how to help you too stay motivated but cut out all soda's and fast food from you diet. i lost 6 lbs. and am still losing some. Also keep up the plan your on now.

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I have a very slender (kind of too skinny) figure and people keep telling me that I should put on about 10 pounds. I think the only good body part I have is my legs----if I put on 10 pounds, would my legs, like, fill out and not look as good?

I would actually consult you doctor about this. Ask him if you need to gain weight, if so how much, and how to do it by eating healthy foods.

Just because your friends say you need to gain the weight you might not actually need to.

So ask the doctor. ^ ^ hope I helped.

-Marilyn.

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13/f
hey...i have a question. I am a really outgoing person and really nice to everyone. Soemtimes though, i get really mad over little things cry from it. I later realise how small it was. I get moodswings alot and really angry sometimes. I cut myslef sometimes when im REALLY upset but not always. I just wanted to know from ANYONE how can i deal with my temper? When im mad what can i do? I either punch the wall or break something and i know thats not right. I take a deep breath and count to 10 but that doesnt work. I tried writing it down on paper but im afraid my mom will find it because she always gos through my room. I get depressed Sometimes and i really dont want to go to a doctor about it or anything because true say, the problem is usually small. Can anyone tell me a way to control this anger?
Please and thanks alot

wow. You sound exactly like me and your almost my age.
Everything you typed there is what i went through.

Eventually my mother made me goes to a psycharatrist. And i hated it.
The reason my mother said i hated it was because she said i had to actually face what i had done.
Then my mother when into a session with me and the psycharatrist and the talked and i sat quietly trying to not pay attention. Then she said that if i ever get too out of control again(like punching holes in walls, breaking things, etc) to call the police.

That really made me be good. So in the end the 'talks' with the psycharatrist and everything else didn't work. It was kinda like i felt threatened and i didn't want to have to go through that embarrassment and be checked into the hospital for a night. so i quickly started acting nice. lol. i know sound odd but hey, its what worked. Also after a week of me being nice, they when over my 'behavoir patterns' and thought that i might be bipolar. so they gave me a pill that worked but then it had weird side affects so i got off it.

so think about it and if you want ask your mother about you going to a psycharatrist or the fact that you may be bipolar. you never know.

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out of these 2 magazines

J-14

and

Cosmo Girl

which one should I subscribe to?
I bought both of them, but i'm really not sure which one i like better.

I like magazines that have info on celebritys, quizzes, embarressing moments, and just plain fashion and make-up things. Which one should I get?

or if you have a better magazine, please do tell!

out of those two? cosmo

out of all mag's? Seventeen.

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whats the differences about snorkeling and scuba diving?

well snorkling is just with a snorkle and not scuba gear; there is no special equipment to help you breath, just a tube type thing to breath out of when your near the surface.

scuba diving is with a wet suit, air tank etc.
it allows you to go deeper with out having to go up for a breath and what not. Also you have to have a license to go scuba diving.

-Mari

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My question is as followed.

I have to have a tonsilectomy, uvulaectomy and a adnoidectomy.

Basically, I need my tonsils, adnoids, and my uvula removed (the long dangling thing in the back of your throat).

How will they remove my adnoids? To my understanding they are behind my nose.

I'm also a little nervous about being put under being as I've never had it done. What happens? Please help.

i had surgery to but it wasnt as bad as yours and when they put the stuff in me to make me woozy i foun it quite enjoyabl...lol... cause my mother was with me and i tried to put colored chapstick on...it didnt work lol. the they put the stuff in me to make me go to sleep and it stung kinda but it was very bearable...pretty soon i was asleep then i woke up and i ached but it was bearable too so yea its not terribly frighting except for the I.V. but it wasnt too bad but it was scary

hope i helped-MAri

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Should i stay with my kids dad even though I am unhappy? My kids would be crushed if I left him and I just want them to be happy too. Its been 12 years that we are together. Female, 32

a similar situation happened with my mom and she decided to stay and she sooooo unhappy finally she divorced my dad and she happier than ever and me and my brothers got over it i wont lie at first i was crushed but then i realized that that was life and i had to get on with it. and i was 10 and the time it happened and i got over it pretty soon actually. but in the end it is your desicion please be sure it is what you want to do

-JesusFreak
p.s. I hope in the end no matter what your descion is that you and your family is happy

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What does it feel like when you have a misscarriage?

Do you get a stomache ach then have lots of blood and it have a weird/gross smell?


thanks

im sorry but i dont know much about the topic but when my friend had one (dont worry she's 27 )
all i remember was her saying that something didnt feel right about it as in she just new something was wrong then one week later she saw the doctor and they told her she had a miscarrage terribly sorry but thats all i know

-MARi

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hey i play oboe and i need to know how to play an arpeggio.. i need to no it for the F major scale for sure but like also all the other scales... how do you play an arpeggio tho.. like how do u no what it is

you play the 1st 3st 5th and 8th note one the way up and then on then way down you go 8th 5th 3rd then 1st thats how my band teacher taught me :)

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If you're about 5'1-5'3 ish.
How much should you weigh?

what do most people at that height weigh??

well i was told that if youre 5 feet tall you should weigh 100 lbs and every inch after that is an extra 5 lbs but i dont think thats right becuase im 5'4 1/2 and weigh 97 and im fine

-MARi

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kay so about a month ago i cut my hair prettyyy short. and now i want my hair back!! is there anything i can do to my hair to make it grow faster? please helppp!!!!

you can get extensions at the salon there nice ive had them before
:) hope i helped

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I am looking for a breed of dog (mixed is fine) that is especially good for children, and it would be great if it did not shed much. Thanks for any suggestions!

standard poodle never shed and they're great for children and cute kinda big though

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well as i was saying school starts in about 1 week and i'm really nervous because i like this guy there. and last semester we kinda had i fight and never talked since than. so i apologized and everything was fine but still we never really talked that much though. soo now i wanna be friends again and talk like we used to. can u give me some advice how to talk to him and make him less angry at me cause it seems to me like he does like me but is just upset so please help his friendship is really important to me!
thx

be your self

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about 3 months ago, i was diagnosed with leaukemia=[. the doctor told me that i am gonna die after my 8th month. is he allowed to tell me this? he just flat out said... " in about 8 months your gonna die ", he made me my mom my dad and my brother cry. so anyways.... can he tell me this... and can i like sue him for it?



f/13

not you cant sue im sorry and sorry for what youre going through if you need some one to talk to im here a PaNiC DiScO 513 for aim if for some reason you want to god bless you ill pray for you every day to heal!

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i want some names for my new baby girl....i dont like names like alex or sarah because to many people have thoughs names..i like names more like nikita.....she has blonde hair and blue eyes

14/f

natasha kai kayla
marilyn chelsea
jessica gracie
lilly anna
karen leewood (love it cause its pretty
and origanal) elizabeth kaytee
blair annika(pronouned on-i-ka)
katherine michelle
caroline rebecca
ivy toria please tell me the oneyoupicked and or liked even if its not mine! and congratulations!!!
molly tori
cameron victoria
savannah amber
kimberly mckenzie

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Last night my step-dad beat me. He's done it before, but last night was the worst it has ever been. I called the police and they came to examine me, but they didn't find any marks. But TODAY my face is REALLY swollen and bruised up. What should I do to make him get in the trouble that he deserves? I can't call CPS because I've already had three cases with all of them with the same problem, but they have all been dropped. I'm tired of being hit and I want him in jail.

first i want to say im proud of you for trying to get him in jail i have a similar sitcuation but im not being beating

call the police or talk to a school consulor do what ever you can make yourself heard tell a close friends mom the police might take you more seriously if another parent reports it with you god bless you i hope everything works out!!!!

with gods love,
jesusfreak92

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16/f 5'1" 115 pounds

I have a real problem finding jeans that fit. The only jeans for the most part that i own are hollister and i have 1 pair from aero

my problem is that because i am so short everyones jeans go up to my naval and are tighter in the waiste then looser in the crotch making what me and my sister call a "front butt"

i really like hollisters jeans and soem of aeros because they have a nice low waist and are tighter in the hips then a little loser or the same in the waiste and personally i think they look better and feel better

My problem is that i only have $25 left for school clothes and i can still afford a pair from aero and maybe a pair from hollister if they are on sale (which they have some now but they are dark and i like light ones) but i would prefer to get cheaper ones if i can


but my main question is what is a good department store brand that sells jeans that fit nice and are real low rise like hollisters because i am having a horrible time finding a pair

its like once you go low you can't go back!

go to the store called buckles there specialty is jeans go into there store and they have one for every type of person and there really friendly :)

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How can I give myself a bruise? This is a VERY important question. I hope it doesn't get deleted by the moderators. Don't ask why, but I REALLY need to know how to give myself a bruise.

hit yourself in the same spot fall hard etc. can you tell me why please if you dont want to tell me in the feed back here my aim sn : PaNiC DiScO 513

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