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Okay so i know someone just posted a question about this but I have a question about it. Is it normal to "get wet" all the time.. like just being at work etc.
Yes. Very normal.
Heey . does anyone think its a bit slutty to break your virginity at 13 ?
No, not slutty. Just stupid.
well so im 14, turning 15 really soon. i do not look my age at all. i look atleast 17. anyways theres this guy. i met him and he said he was 19, and i really started liking him and stuff, but later on i did find out that he really is 27, he has his reasons to lie about his age but i dont want to get into it. and i just found out his real age the other day, it shocked me to death the first day, second day pretty weird, but today im totally over it and still really like him. and we had a talk last night about us being together and me soon moving in with him when im able to move out. he still doesnt know that i know hes 27, he cant know i know, long story. but is it wrong to be in love with a 27 year old when your only 14 years old? =/
There is no good reason for a 27 year old to even be friends with a 14 year old. It doesn't matter if you look or act older than 14. There is something wrong with him... pedophile maybe?!
And the fact that he lied, to say he had his reason, no there is no reason to tell a 14 year old that you are 19. People say that age doesn't matter but it does matter when you are only 14.
I know you think that you really like him but he is telling you what you want to hear, they know what to say to you to get you. I promis you that this guy is not into you he is into young girls. If you continue to talk to him or have a relationship with him you will regret it. And if it ever turns sexual who cares if he could get in trouble the real concern is that it wont be him showing his love it will be molesting you and is rape no matter how you look at it. You need to stop talking to him and see that he is a pedophile. And I know you are going to think oh she doesn't know him that I don't know your situation but I really really hope you see him for what he is. Try asking your parents what they would think about you dating a 27. You are not as smart or mature as you think you are, I was 14 once and thought I knew it all but now looking back only 6 years later I realized that I didn't know it all and should have listened to other people.
i wake up with scars in my mouth. how do i prevent that? there are braces shaped indents and stuff on the sides of my cheeks! it hurts when my mouth is dry and i wake up and try to open it and my cheeks are stuck to my braces.
Your orthodontist should have given you some wax. If you have it put that over your braces so they can't stick to your mouth.
If you don't have the wax then you should ask for some.
Alright, i had an abortion in February. I was 17 and completely not ready to have a child. Well, i actually never dealt with it and to top it all off, my due date came and gone, and I had a whole night to myself and reminecing about what I would have had, their names, and what colour I would have painted the baby's room. Needless to say it wasn't/isn't easy.
Since I hadn't dealt with it, I was consistently inconsistent with my birth control and spent three or fours months not on it at all, having unprotected sex. Now during all that time, and I mean everyday! I never once got pregnant again, I had scares with late periods, but that's all, they've all come and gone. and because of my deep desperation to have a child, i've really forgotten how to deal with my life and all the bad stuff that has happened and is happening.
Question I have is does anyone have an idea on how to move on, deal with it, and make sure that it doesn't screw up any of my future relationships?
I know this isn't an answer to your question more just advice. But it really sounds like you need to talk to a counselor of some kind. Heck i'd guess even planned parenthood or who ever did the procedure would have someone to talk to because a counselor would really know how to help you way better than some people from the internet, even if they had also had an abortion just because everyone deals with things differently.
Sorry if that wasn't what you were looking for but I hope it does help.
As a girl, are you supposed to shave "down there". And if yes, to what extent? (as in everything or ect...) Thanks.
You are not 'supposed' to shave down there, but most guys expect it, more than likely from watching too much porn. But if you do want to the extent is just how much you want to take off, some girls do all of it, some take off most but leave a 'landing strip' or some just do the bikini area.
proactiv is too expensive for me so i'm trying to look for something that works as well or preferably even better than proactiv to get rid of acne that is cheaper. does anyone know of anything else??
There is a product called acne free and its really the same thing as proactive but half the price and you can buy it at the store.
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okay well i saw somewhere that someone said you have more control over what your vagina smells/tastes like more than people think. i was just wondering what kind of foods make it smell bad, like is it fast food? junk food such as candy, chocolate? and what foods will help the smell/taste and how much of it a day do you have to eat? anything will help :)
I've always heard that cherry tomatos make your vulva smell bad and pinapple makes it smell good.
how can I loose weight?
Well, get off the computer and go outside and get some exercise, its really not that complicated.
But you also need to eat healthy.
so i live in an apt building... i'm not going to lie, its a nasty building... but my primary concern are the roaches. ( btw ive been living here about 5 years). I HATE ROACHES. they are my phobia. i get itchy i scream i cry.. i cant even manage to kill them quickly because im too petrified... idk what to do. my parents see me as me being silly. but i seriously can't deal with this anymore. I can't see a doc because they would just see me as a normal case i can get over... my parents think im being stupid.. what can i do =/ what do i do? any ways to cope with this?
Can't you just buy bug killer to avoid the problem?
Are you really too poor to buy it yourself?
How sad.
i have a sleeping problem and my whole family even thinks i have on too.
im 16
i cant go throughout the day without taking a nap
and like when i mean nap, there about 4 hours
im alwayssss tired during the day, but yet when its like 10 pm im all of a sudden not tired. and then i can stay up till like 3 in the morning.
i can seriously sleep the whole day and still be tired. but if i get like 4 hours of sleep on a school day i function 5834329x better then i do with like 9 hours of sleep.
i really dont know whats wrong with me. helpppp !
I don't know your habbits so I am just saying these things assuming that you dont already do them.
Not drinking caffeine after 4pm,
also no sugar late at night.
And even if you feel wide awake at 10 lay down anyways and try and calm your mind don't get up and watch tv or get on the computer.
If you already do those things or you try them and still have a problem, I'd say go to a doctor.
I'm not a big fan of taking pills but they could be able to give you a low dose sleeping pill, and I would advise to not take an over the counter sleeping pill because they tend to be really strong.
three days ago ive noticed those small white little pimple like things inside my labia no discharge or smell but burns when i pee b/c of them should i be worried.
You really need to see a doctor because about 90% of STD cause buring when you pee.
And even if it isn't an STD better be safe and sorry, right?
im 17 and i wanna get on the pill to get birth control pills do i need to go to the pharmacy with a parent or gynocologist how do i get it?
I would say go to a gynocologist just for the fact of them having your medical history and such as well as the fact you'd be seeing the same person every year for your exam. But if it is must to hide it from your parents don't go to a gynocologist because your parents will be able to see that you went via insurance. And if they write you a percription and you go to the pharmacy you don't need a parent to go with but it can be $40 for a months supply.
Planned Parenthood is a really good choice as well and I believe you can get it without an exam (even though they perfer to give you one) and I also believe you can get it for free or at a very discounted cost like $20.
I aboslutely cannot stand my family. My brother annoys the crap out of me and I always get really mad when he's around. And my Dad is just like him, but worse. My Mom and I get in fights every day about the stupidest things. I can never be around my brother and Dad for more than 5 minutes at a time or I get super annoyed or really pissed. They know what they're going is annoying me and pissing me off, but yet they just keep doing it. More and more. They make fun of me, gang up on me and do whatever else they think of to piss me off. I've honestly gone to the point today of breaking down and crying in my room for hours because of them. I just can't handle it anymore. I don't like them. At all. What should I doooo?
I must say that when I was growing up my dad and my brother were the same way and my mother and I fought almost everyday.
I can't say it will stop because my brother is now 22 and still does things like that to me just not as much.
The best advice I could give though is to ignore them, I know it sounds odd and very very hard to do, but the whole reason they do it is to make you mad and run to your room. So if you have no reaction or just laugh about it they lose their fun of it and will stop.
It really worked for me, it wont completely stop it but make it more mangiable.
F/14 For my 15th birthday i reaaaally want the Monroe Piercing!
I told my mom about awhile ago and she and my dad teamed up and told me how disgusting they look on girls and how only like, people in gangs have piercings like those. My mom allowed me to have two piercings on each ear yet not one little one on my upper lip?! She even said the nose rings are cuter than the Manroe (which i'm not going to forget ;D). Point is: I want a way to convinse my parents to let me have the Monroe done. Can someone tell me or give me links to websites explaining how not very painfull they are and the price and healing and all. Thanks :)
I don't have any websites but I have a monroe.
I got it a year ago and it did not hurt at all to get. The healing process was very fast.
And I guess you could tell them that I am an accounting major in college that works at a retirement home so not only gang members get one.
But I must say that even though I was 18 at the time my parents didn't like it or the idea I think that for being a facial piercing its just so right in your face like with a nose its off to the side. If you get my drift.
Also I don't wear a ball which could be a nother point to them that I have a blue colored stone that makes it very less noticable, so there are more options that a huge ball.
how can i cum?
like i've had a bunch of orgasms before.
but i've never been able to cum.
apparently if feels AMAZING!
and i really want to!
I think you have been misinformed somewhere,
'cumming' is the same thing as having an orgasm.
So if you have been having orgasms then you have been cumming.
Okay, so I just turned 18, but I don't want every creeper out there on the net to see my profile, okay? So I lied and said I'm 15, but I feel a little weird doing it, but I'm worried that if I change it to my real age, then I'll get some strange stalker dude or I won't be able to access the profiles of my under-18 friends. What should I do?
You can have your profile private at any age if you are that worried, just go to 'account settings' and then click on 'privacy' and change 'profile viewable by: to my friends only'.
And you can still see your under 18 year old friends no matter what, as long you are on their friends list.
I am trying to eat better to lessen my risk of cancer (my mom had breast cancer and I had a teacher who had cancer too) and I was told that eating organic and natural foods were healthier. I went to the store to buy some organic foods (brands like from Kashi, Nature's Path, Horizon, Morningstar Farms, Stonyfield Farms, Organic Valley, etc.) and noticed that they cost a lot more than other food brands!
Why is organic more expensive? I don't understand why organic foods cost so much more than regular foods!
If organic is always this expensive, how does anyone afford to live on organic foods? Do people actually do that or did I get bad information about organic foods being healthier for me? I'd at least like to know why organic foods cost more before I start putting my money in organic companies.
Yes organic food is healthier for you because they put a lot of chemicals in regular food.
I'm not 100% sure as to why its more expensive but I've always kind of guess its because its still not as 'main stream' as the regular food so they are unable to price their food really low and make a profit.
But I also believe that to be usda certified as organic they have to have the government come by a lot which they may or may not have to pay for.
So I'd say instead of buying everything organic just buy the important stuff to your body organic such as milk eggs and fruits/veggies.
how can i make it feel good wen i do it? it hurt the forst time but then i dint hurt that badly anymore- but how can i make it good?
Well, first go back to school.
Then worry about having good sex.
Good luck!
hi, i am a virgen , and my boyfriend wants to have anal sex, if he cums in my ass can i get pregnant?
first learn how to spell virgin,
then think about having anal sex.