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Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??
-Scared :( (link)
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well even birth control pills dont always mean that you will not have a baby because there are slip ups. and well if you were supposed to have your period and you didnt then you really should go to a doctor, but if you dont want to because i wouldnt, i would look up some simptons online and buy on of those pregnacy tests ~*L*~
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My cousin, lets call her B, is the same age as me. Over the summer, I had a party and I invited her, friends of mine and even my ex, we'll call him D. They hit it off right away. About a week later, we all went bowling and my other cousin came up to me and asked if there was anything going on between B and D. I said no. So over the course of the night I saw them flirting, got upset and did not have a good night that night. That night D called me and asked me if anything was wrong and I told him everything about that night. Then the next day B called me and asked me if I would get upset if the two of them would hang out. I said yes at first, and then B said that D said "he would never date her cuz she wasnt his type" After that I said I dont mind at all- my mind was at ease. A couple days went by and B had a party at her house with only close friends of ours. I didn't spend the night cuz I had to work the next day. I found out D was spending the night at her house along with one other guy. I was upset about that.
My friends are upset at me for thinking anything was happening between B and D, but I think something was going on between them. They are both the very flirtatious type and she puts out more than me.
Was it wrong of me to get upset about my cousin hanging out with my ex? I mean, over the summer we were going to get back together but never did. I know how D acts when he likes a girl and he acted that way with B. So I asked my friend and he got upset at me.
Now I don't talk to any of them, my ex, cousin or the friend.
But anyways, should I have been upset about them hanging out?
im really sorry this is long... (link)
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u should have been upset about them hanging out. it was your ex and "B" was flirting with "D" and since you and D were goin to get back together then i have the right to be mad at them but you really shouldnt stop talking to them because she is your cousin and he is your ex and if you still like him them you should really talk to him. ~*L*~
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ok so there is this one guy who i went out with last year but only for like 3 days cus what happened is he only asked me out cus he thought i was pretty and we had just met so we decided to jsut be friends, so this year we just seemed like friends, then suddenly he started like getting all over me and everything for like 2 weeks, now he is like ignoring me, what is he doing? (link)
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you no wat guys are really stupid some times, oh wait most of the time, but anyways they go through some mood swings and there is not reason for them it just happens, you could ask him wat is going on and why he is ignoring you but that is all i can think of ~*L*~
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hi
i went out with guy like 2 months ago who i really really liked but then he dumped me and i found out that he had been 2 timing me but he just said he didnt and even if he did it wasnt like we were married or anything but iw as really hurt. then we became rfiends and he said he wanted to be really good friends but whenever i see him he just ignores me but i still really like him and i think he sought of still likes me but is trying not to show it. I would love it someone gave me some advice as this is really very important to me!
love stef
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this is the same thing that happened to me, if he doesnt have a girlfriend then tell him how you feel, but if he does then you will hav to wait like me ~*L*~
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I know most answers are going to be to talk to the person.. but how am I supposed to know whether or not the guy I want to confront is gay or not? If you are gay.. please IM me lol Striker6909 I'll rate you a 3-5 if you answer this question well thanks! (link)
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well if i was gay then i would go out with my gay friends to a gay bar, to meet gay people... im sorry i cant really answer this quetion because i am not gay ~*L*~
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Hey.. ok I got a lil problem! See.. there's this guy & I really like him but he's already told me that he dont want a g/f right now. Ok.. I was cool with that.. then 1 day he asks me if i would fuck him. I'm like huh? (I'm 14 btw.. he's 16) He's like let's fuck.. ok well I was like umm.. I dont really wanna do that right now but I was really flirty with it like I was playing hard 2 get.. which I kinda was but see.. now EVERYBODY knows that we might do something & he keeps bugging me about it but I still kinda like him.. what should I do? (link)
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you really shouldnt fuck him because ur only 14 but i really dont no wat to say because i havent fucked anyone yet.... it is your life ~*L*~
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okay.. i went out with this guy.. and he is really hot.. but.. okay.. we broke up because it was like nobuddy wanted us together.. but we are still friends.. but anyways.. the other day.. i was in the hall.. and i kissed him.. and then the next day my friend said she was going out with him.. and i was like.. "omg.. since when?" and she was like.. since two days ago.. so.. he cheated on her with me.. and i dont know if i should tell her or not.. should i? (link)
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then u shouldnt tell her. i no that it is not right to lie to a friend but nobody noes and i think that is better that she doesnt no. ~*L*~
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oh gosh i dont konw what to say now.....
ok my friend and i like a same guy he is so fine and all but he can not decided that who does he want to date and all should i quit between him and my best friend? i think i should give up on him and contiuned the friendship between me and my friend so help me out guys (link)
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well your friendship is more important than some guy that both of you like. i would reather stay friends with my best friend that lose her over some guy. ~*L*~
PS. dont give up on the guy completly
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Ok, well, i'm planning to pierce my belly button next weekend by myself. Wut would be the best way to clean it, and which would be the best way to pierce it? (a needle or a belly button ring)
thank you so much-
roxy (link)
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well my friend pierced it with an ear ring. use ear clean like wen u get ur ears peirced ~*L*~
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ok so recently, in the past few months, ive turned into a bit of a bitch. i honestly dont know why. i get annoyed a lot easier. most of the time, i get jealous really easy. like for example, my friend found out that i had a advice column, so he decided he wanted one. well i got really mad because its my "thing" and i wanted it to myself. im selfish and im whiney. i dont know why im starting to be like this. i also started doing drugs, becoming more "sexual", looking at porn, being belemic, and a lot of stuff that i know will ruin my life. i cant stop. im losing all my friends, and ive already lost a lot of them. i just dont know what to do. (link)
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well i recently became a bitch too, i really dont no wat it is, it just happens. just try to think of someone that u no that is really a *GOODIE GOODIE* then just try and think of them everytime that u r mad or sad or watever u r. and for the belemia well it is just somethin that u will hav to talk to a close FRIEND about and c if they can help u. or u can talk to a adult about it *but i really dont think that u would want to do thta cus i no that i wouldnt. ~*L*~
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ok i have 4 dogs:
-Irish Setter
-Golden Retreiver
-Beagel
-Yorkie
And I have 3 cats:
-Siamese
-Sphynx
-Pursian
I need ALL different kinds of toys for these pets! just 1 toy wont be enough they all fight over it! Do any of yall know ne good cat & dog toys??? in need of help b4 pets go boring and sad!
Blue_Fusion (link)
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well i hav a beagle and he love stuffed animals, he also likes tennis balls.. ~*L*~
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Ok I have this friend and I thought she was ok until recently I was dumped by my boyfriend and now she flirts with him like hell the other day he was saying how much he hates her so he doesn't even like her but is trying to make me jelious and I'm sick of it because I'm not over being dumped and she's saying stuff like oh he's flirting with me now and keeps trying to hold his hand should I ditch her because she's really getting me down she's keps going on about him 24/7 some friend she is I'm really gutted but have just kept it all in me and not said a word but I'm really upset about it but can't even cry because my feelings are so deep inside of me please if you can help me if you can't then ok (link)
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well i think that she was jelious of u wen u and ur ex-boyfriend were goin out. she probaly likes him and wants to make u feel bad just cus u guys broke up. i had one of them before. i was never really ova him and them some gurls just start flirtin with him and i would get all mad. i think that u should tell ur friend how u still feel about him and if she doesnt care then ditch her and hang with ur other friend and have sleep ovas with ur other friend and make sure that she nos that ur invitin other ppl ova and not her, make her jelious and then after she gets mad at u tell her that this is how she made her feel wen she was flirtin with ur ex. thats how i would do it. *~L~*
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What do dreams mean? What about those that keep repeating themselves? Is there some kind of connection between dreams and real life? (link)
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well there must be some meanin to ur dream u just have to really look at them.. all dreams mean somethin some r just to entain ur brain and other tell u something about life, it is ur joob to figure them out *~L~*
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MJy stepdad is a real jerk, and my mom always chooses him over me, is that right:? (link)
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well that is not right at all * did u talk to ur mother about this i think that u should and if she doesnt want to talk then talk anyways (but dont get in trouble) *~L~*
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One of my really good friends has been really really depressed ever sence her and her bf broke up. A few days ago she started to cut herself.I am really worried about her. Only me and a few of her friends know that she is doing it. I really want her to stop it because I am scared that she is going to do something she will regret. It hurts me a lot to see her like this. I am in practically the same situation that she is in. I want to help her and we always talk about it. ButI feel like there is not much I can do for her right now but try and always be there for her. What should I do?
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well here is wat i would do
i would invite her over ur house and talk to her about wat she is doin, tell her how u feel about her doin this tell her that life will goin on.. tell her that u r there for her and ull alway be her best friend,, there is no use cuttin herself ova some boy and that she was way to good for him anyways. *~L~*
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