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give me a choice
oh gosh i dont konw what to say now.....
ok my friend and i like a same guy he is so fine and all but he can not decided that who does he want to date and all should i quit between him and my best friend? i think i should give up on him and contiuned the friendship between me and my friend so help me out guys
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Hi Sweetie,
It seems you know what you should do. Of course you should loose him! If things started up with you having to choose then imagine how your relationshio would be if you had one! He'd only hold you back. Another thing, I hope your friend makes the same decision. You should both forget about him. If she refuses to see he's not worth it she may be childish. If she's a mature person and a good friend she's already chosen you over him.
Take care. Best wishes! ~Blessed Be...
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Well if shes a real friend she'll stop hateing u after a while and hey u cant get that stuff from ur friend that u can from a guy.. oh yah and there about amillon otha fine guys out there .. 4 get about him and stick with ur frined cuz Guys come an go but friends last forever.. tell her that u really like him but her happiness means more to u and that u want her to be with him she'll feel so bad an mabey even tell him to go 4 u hope things work out!
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Ya know, my friend and I went through this over the summer. The guy wouldn't make up his mind and my friend lived closer to him anyways. I just let her have her try. I gave up. I was tired of waiting and we are still friends. I figured there would be other guys, and there was. I have a boyfriend now. Just let it go, and let your friend have a shot. If they don't work out, who knows. Maybe you could get a shot later on down the road. Be a nice, peaceful person about it. :) Altho my friend isn't dating the guy yet, they are close to it and I couldn't be happier for her!
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I went through the exact same thing. It won't do anything but bring hardships when something like that happens. As much as you want the guy, you can't forget that this person is your BEST FRIEND. It does nothing but bring hardships on a freindship. It took me until AFTER it was all over that it totally wasn't worth losing a friend, a good one at that. Yeah I got the guy, but it didn't feel good at all, it actually made me stop liking him. When things like that happen it just brings trouble. If I were you, I'd surrender, no matter how hard it is. Keeping your best friend will be far more worth it in the end.
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well your friendship is more important than some guy that both of you like. i would reather stay friends with my best friend that lose her over some guy. ~*L*~
PS. dont give up on the guy completly
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