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Is she trying to rub it in?
Ok I have this friend and I thought she was ok until recently I was dumped by my boyfriend and now she flirts with him like hell the other day he was saying how much he hates her so he doesn't even like her but is trying to make me jelious and I'm sick of it because I'm not over being dumped and she's saying stuff like oh he's flirting with me now and keeps trying to hold his hand should I ditch her because she's really getting me down she's keps going on about him 24/7 some friend she is I'm really gutted but have just kept it all in me and not said a word but I'm really upset about it but can't even cry because my feelings are so deep inside of me please if you can help me if you can't then ok
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hey hunni, tell this friend how you feel, that you are not over being dumped, and you dont like the thought of him doing that because it hurts you. but if you want to just play her game than find a gorgeous guy and start going out with him, and dont worry this guy and girl both seem like creeps, so you will get better, at least your a good person who wouldnt do that to your friends! alright! im sorry about that
love unity
<3chrissy walsh
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Tell the friend and ask if she can stop. If she doesn't then yeah some friend. I'd move on from her and hang out with someone else.
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Looks like you have a snake in your house. I've never had a problem dropping a friend who betrayed me, and it really appears that is what she's doing. But maybe not. Assess your relationship with her first. Why do you concider her a friend, why are you her friend? Is there any stronger reason than popularity or you've just always known each other?
If there is think about how she's treated you in the past. Would she be the kind of person to put you down to make herself feel better? Would she be the kind to take your seconds out of jelousy? Could she be trying to make you fight to get him back because she knows how you feel? Think about it. You know her better than anyone else in this situation. If she is a snake, remember even with it's head cut off a snake can still bite. If you drop her, watch your back. Good luck.
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wow your friend is a bitch. I would bitch at her if i were you and get a better friend, then i'd probably beat the shit out of her...YOU NEED TO TALK TO HER ABOUT THIS. MAYBE SHES DUMB AND DOEST RELIZE HOW MUCH IT HURTS YOU. TALK TO HER!
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I agree, some friend. Forget her, and the guy, while you're at it =P. There are too many people deserving of your time to waste your life worrying about these two.
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"some friend she is"..that is so totally correct. As a friend she should be helping you get over the break-up, not making it worse. And its not healthy to keep everything bottled in bcuz its just gonna add up and believe me, nothing but bad comes from that. So what you need to do is talk to this "friend" of yours and tell her to shut her mouth! the last thing you want is to hear her blabbing on about how great your ex is! And tell her that what you need is for hr to start acting like a friend. If that doesn't work, then foget about her..Hope I helped!
<33Ciara
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well i think that she was jelious of u wen u and ur ex-boyfriend were goin out. she probaly likes him and wants to make u feel bad just cus u guys broke up. i had one of them before. i was never really ova him and them some gurls just start flirtin with him and i would get all mad. i think that u should tell ur friend how u still feel about him and if she doesnt care then ditch her and hang with ur other friend and have sleep ovas with ur other friend and make sure that she nos that ur invitin other ppl ova and not her, make her jelious and then after she gets mad at u tell her that this is how she made her feel wen she was flirtin with ur ex. thats how i would do it. *~L~*
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Tell her how you feel, and if she keeps it up then stop talking to her for like a week or so, she'll come around to realising that you're upset at the fact that shes doing that, and hopefully she'll learn to stop from it.
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