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how to hook up when you're gay?
I know most answers are going to be to talk to the person.. but how am I supposed to know whether or not the guy I want to confront is gay or not? If you are gay.. please IM me lol Striker6909 I'll rate you a 3-5 if you answer this question well thanks!
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well if i was gay then i would go out with my gay friends to a gay bar, to meet gay people... im sorry i cant really answer this quetion because i am not gay ~*L*~
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YOUR GAY, FREAK! god I hate gay people!
Grose i'm not gay i'm a girl and i like boy unlike u freak!
You are a gay boy freak I hope you get made fun of cause i'm making gun of you right now! hehehe :)!
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It's hard to tell what you are asking. It seems like you are gay, and you want to ask a guy out, but you don't know if he is gay. Is that right?
If this is true, then are you "out" to anyone? Do you have any gay friends? Is there any place where you could meet other gay guys?
When you are first coming out, it can be very hard to meet other guys. Just randomly going up to some guy you think is cute and asking him out is pretty risky. Your chances of having a good experience are going to be a lot better if you find a way to meet guys you know are gay. Are you in high school? See if your school has a gay/straight alliance, or some kind of gay support group. If there is nothing at your school, check out a local gay and lesbian community center. They usually have social activities and support groups for teens. If these things don't exist where you live, try some online resources.
I'm guessing from your question that you are young and new to dating. Right now, friends are way more important than guys to "hook-up" with. Just make sure you take care of yourself, because there are creeps out there who will take advantage of you if you're not careful-- don't do anything you don't want to do.
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If I were gay I would actually try a gay bar or something of that sort. Itll make you feel more comfortable being people in your situation. Plus they might come talk to you so you wouldnt have to break the ice.
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That's something hard to deal with. I have a really good friend that's gay, and honestly, it didn't really help him to talk about it. I know it's probably killing you inside to know, it was me too. But that's something that you'll just have to wait on his terms, till he's ready to tell you. I knew my friend was gay for about 4 years, but I never dared asked him if he was, a few other people did, and he always replied with a no. Finally, he came out last year. It's something that he probably won't tell you until he's ready. If you just can't stand it, of course there's always "talking to him," but if you want to find out in a better way. Get a gay guy to talk to him, see if he goes somewhere with it. It's manipulative though, so if you were desperate enought do it, be careful. Other than that, he'll come clean with everyone on his terms probably, as much as it sucks.
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oh oh oh oh, i kno sum1 gay..........you should rele try tlking to him.........he feels a lil awarked sometimes, though. If you must know >>> He's a gay pink bunny
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well.. pay attention.. like.. if a pretty girl and a hot guy walks in a room.. sees hoo his eyes are on.. or.. ask around.. usualy.. if someone is gay.. people are gunna knoe about it.. oh.. and a little tip *if you have to question if hes gay or not... maybe you shuudnt want to hook up with him* unless your a guy.. then.. do all tha other things i said and you shuud be able to figure out if hes gay or not!!
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well... have you tried private gay chat rooms?
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