I had this friend freshman year. She was my best friend. We had so many laughs and good times, and we've both been through some tough times. We were great together. But she caused too much drama. Her up and down depression, her negativity, and her promiscuous ways had me fighting a roller coaster of emotions. When I tried to help her, she always closed me out. She was always ordering me around. But the worst problem were the boys. They say you should never end a friendship because of a boy, but she did. She gave me permission to date her ex but yet was still flirting with him and messing around with him while I was with him. That led him to breakup with me several times and he went back to her.
I got over it and then when I was dating someone she'd been rejected by since fourth grade, my ex decided to rub in my face that she was still dating him. I got upset that she didn't tell me and I had to find out from someone else... And school finally came, and we didn't talk for a while. I forgave her but then she just went way too far. She was always sexually all over my boyfriend at the time because she was jealous that I got the guy she's always wanted. I told her off, and we didn't talk. And now, sophomore year, we are not friends. However, sometimes I miss her.
But I remember her shit. She called me a whore that loves "niggers" and I was finally through. I reported her for harassment and told her to her face she has no right to call me a whore. I know for a fact she has slept with more guys than I can even count.
But now I feel bad. She glares, stares, and dirty looks me up and down. But still, she doesn't talk crap about me anymore. She hates me. She's so jealous of me. I don't have any need to talk to her. But now I feel pity for her because her family got evicted from their home, and she has always had a tough time with life and school.
I don't want to be her friend because I pity her, but I just feel bad for all the shitty things I think about her. She's going through so much and I know barely anyone is there for her. In my classes, nobody talks to her. She's always sitting alone while everyone is flocked around me, laughing and having a great time. Sometimes I feel like a bad person for not liking her because she needs someone to talk to that understands her like I used to. I'm not desiring to be her friend again, but I just want to help her.
i have been through the same thing with one of my friends we dont talk either but what goes around comes around i mean she had this going for herself you deserve to be friends with someone who wont talk about you behind your back and will always be by your side.
i know you feel bad for her but its not your fault its hers she started all the drama between your friendship so she lost your trust. I would maybe forgive her for the past but i wouldnt go and be best friends again because you now no what shes capable of. maybe you could just say hi and bye to her you no be her assicaite. because maybe she just needs a friend and who nos maybe she changed...
hope i helped.
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How do i know when i have a cramp? i've been having small pains under my belly button out of the blue. what do cramps even feel like?
thats what a cramp is its when you feel pressure somewhere and it hurts just a little not a lot its just pressure somewhere and it feels like someone is poking you or something like that lol.
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There's this guy. He's basically my best friend, and though he's told me before: "I see you as a sister, not a girl I'd ever date... but we can fuck sometime:)" (Ok, I know what you're thinking, but he's not a douche! haha, the whole "screwing thing", that's just how we joke around with eachother). we still text/call every single day and flirt and hang out and what not... I can't help but to fall for the guy that's always there for me, supporting me, making me laugh, protecting me... And I know he doesn't like any other girls. Except for this one girl... We were playing the "questions game" and he asked me if I had to date someone, who would it be. But I said "I don't wanna answer that. what would you say?" and he goes "(girl in his grade's name). Not cause I like her... but she's nice and we talk every so often". He wants to ask her to prom... This girl. She IS nice. And she's not ugly or anything like that. She's just kind of... plain? That's not a nice thing to say but... She's just so... UGH. Hahaha I'm sorry, I can't explain it. There's just something about her that bugs me. Maybe it's his interest in her?? I just can't help but think that him and I are so RIGHT for eachother. But I don't think he sees it that way. He says he loves me like his sister. Which I don't know... I guess I love him like that too. He's really protective of me. He doesn't like guys taking me out, hitting on me, touching me, basically even talking to me... He says no ones good enough for me. Whatever. I don't know what to do. It's like a punch in the gut when I think about him with any other girl. But it's weird to think about me with him like that too... I can't sort out the feelings of brotherly love from the feelings of what might be something different. How can he want to talk to me and see me everysingle day and not care about me the way I do for him...? Or think I do...? I just don't know what to do because I don't want to ruin our friendship. I don't know if I could live without him... haha, not literally of course, but you know what I mean. Can anyone PLEASE just help me sort all of this out...??? (Oh, we HAVE both admitted there is... uh, physical attraction, but we've never kissed anywhere but the cheek. We kinda cuddle sometimes...) I'm 15, girl. He's 16, almost 17)
if i were in your postion i might tell him how i really feel about him maybe you should play the question game with him and ask him how he really feels about you. i think that you to oviously like each other if you cuddle and talk a lot maybe there is something there between you to but you just dont know it yet. maybe he feels the same way that you feel about him if he always defends you and cant see you with another guys just like you cant bare to see him with another girl. i think maybe you should talk to him about how you feel.
kk hope i helped
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First off sorry if this is long.
I have a really big problem trusting people, I know your probably thinking "baby" or something but ill try and explain. Well since I was born ive been lied to left right and centre by supposed friends, adults and family members, people who I thought I could trust have just blatently lied to me.
Too be honest its got me really depressed. I cant feel I can trust anyone anymore, people say "Oh not everyones the same." But what the people dont understand is that everythings been a lie, I cant trust anyone... Now ive met this girl and she says I can trust her, I dont know what did it but I believed her, I trust her more than I have ever trusted anyone in my life, I dont think I even trusted my mum as much. But I think everythings goin to go wrong or shes lying and I dont want to think that. I keep thinking shes going to change her mind about me or just say things that are lies... Its the same with friends. They seem nice enough but I just cant trust or believe anyone. Because of this ive become very to myself. When im in school im as hyper as ever but then when they look away my smiles fades and im just depressed.
So my question is, does anyone have any advice to tell when people are lying or to be able to trust people more?
Thanks for taking your time to read this, any advice will be taken in and thought about. Sorry if this is in the wrong section.
trust it something that takes along time to build up and this is 2011 everyone acts to fake and lies and tries to be something there not everyone turns on each other even your only family memebers its crazy trust is hard to build but so easy to break my advice to you would to be open with people but not to open you can keep somethings to yourself but you cantkeep everything to yourself you have to learn to trust others because if you dont then your always going to be the way you are smiling all the time bt then when no ones around you get depressed i was the same way its really bad to keep things bottled up i think that you just trust your friend and if she turns on you then you should find out things about her and turn on her to.
kk hope i helped.
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I had unprotected sex yesterday, and when i went home i noticed there was blood in my underwear. At first i thought it was just my period but then i realized there is a chance that my cherry may have been popped. Im not sure how to tell the difference, so, can you help ?
yeah you popped your cherry if there was alittle bit of blood then that mean he popped your cherry but if there was a lot then you may have got your period but im pretty sure it sounds like her popped it.
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so i have a group of friends i sit with at lunch and they are the popular group. i am also friends witht this other girl, Bethanny, she is viewed as a "slut" i think at times we are 13. the girls i sit with do not like her and talk about her, they are jealous that she gets with the guys they like, but then again those girls are really pretty but the guys go for the skank. and thats what bugs them. and i am friends with the skank. i only think she is skanky sometimes. i have told my friends what she had said to me and then told them. but it wasnt too faced because she said it to me and a group of people and she didnt care if people knew. She is really nice, risky, cute, and we have both cut and i feel she understands me better. But if i become really good friends with her, which im trying to fight, i dont wanna get kicked outta my table and my friends hate me. So i dont know what to do, because we could easily be bffl and my friends are just haters. But i love them too much to go against them. I dont know what to do, can i be bffl with both?
Sometime in situation like this you might be influenced by the bad perosn in this case the girl who is considered a "slut" you dont want to be like her you should be friends with your lunch table in my option because what if one day you and your new bffl get into an arguement then stop talking your not going to have any other friends to back you up. Maybe you can comprimise and try to be friends with both but that could cause tension between both you and your lunch table friend and your other friend is it really worth it. I would still be friend with the other girl though because maybe she does the things that she does for a reason maybe she needs someone to be there for her there could be a real reason behind why she does what she does. be her friend but dont become to close yet first find out what shes really about
kk hope i helped
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hey everyone 13/f I love watching old movies on tcm and up to date movies in old time surrondings like in a different time period like the Notebook in the 40's. I was just wondering is there men still like that these days like noah from the notebook and similar characters. I just really can't explain I mean like that aren't trash. Like thats sweet old fashioned and things? I hope I'm not making A fool outta myself I just hate it when I think about it that guys aren't the same now as when they were in the 40's and 50's ? So do you think their are still guys like that?? Thanks you guys(: Please help!
I'm pretty sure there is but its really hard to find now and days this is 2011 all thses boys try to act like there something there not just to fit in and i think that they should be more like the guys in the movies instead of something fake and fony guys that your trying to find are out there you just have to be patient and try to find them once you find them you know that you'll always have someone to be there for you because they are the sweetest thing (:
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Now people probably see this kind of story all the time, but I am in a position where I constantly think I am overweight. I am 13, 5 feet 6 inches tall, and weigh 120 lb. But before continuing this let me get something straight. I am a very happy person with talent, friends, good grades, and I know I am pretty even if others tell me otherwise. So I am optomistic even despite the thoughts of being fat. I work out often, strive to eat right, etc. I am just wondering if anyone would be able to tell me if I am healthy. Thank you so much for your time with much love.
you fine :) dont worry that is a good weight for your height your just taller then most 13 year old no need to stress your perfectly fine :)
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I'm fifteen. I am in a great relationship with one of the most amazing guys I have ever known. We have been dating for about three months now, and I am so happy. This relationship is trusting and open, and it's just a wonderful thing to be in a relationship without fear of loving again. Anyway, I usually write him little love notes, and he really likes when I do that. But I really want to show him how much I love and appreciate him. He buys me gifts and treats me like I'm the world, and I really want to show my gratitude to him another way besides notes and material things. What do you suggest?
you should plan a day to hang out with him all day maybe go to the movies or something just a day where you two can both spend the whole day together and maybe even tell him how much he means to you in person because its better if he hears it from you rather then notes even though notes are cute(: i"m glad for you that you are in a open relationship its hard to find those now and days but good luck
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So it's been a month now since I broke up with my ex bf. I have a new bf and he sees pictures of me and my ex on his facebook all the time ...it kinda bothers him...no wait it really bothers him and he asked me why my ex has those pictures up still and I told him I don't know. Well last night my ex text me about something I don't remember and I asked him to put the pictures down. He told me that he wouldn't and I quote "I don't care for your relationsips these are my pictures and I want to remember what we had" I don't care what he does in his private home but I just don't want to see pictures of us on facebook like it doesn't look cool. I don't know why he's acting like this, what can I do to have him at least put them in a private file or something?
tell him that you guys moved on and maybe he should move on to, i think he might still be stuck on you but if the relationship ended it obviously ended for a reason . i think that it will take him time for him to come around and actually put the pictures down but he will eventaully trust me i was in the same situaiton. The best thing that you can do in this situation is tell your new bf about everything and jus be open with him tell him that you told your ex to take the pictures down but he wont and if this guy is a nice guy then he will understand
kk hope i helped
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Hi,i have taken 50pills of the yellow and the white piritons in colour bt i ave not experienced any side effects.am i safe?
no your not safe i would call 911 immidently something bad can happen when you least expect it
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i am a freshmen in high school and i am 16 i have been in a long distance relationship for 4 months and he broke up with me because he said he does not know what to do anymore so what should i do should i give him space or what????
sometimes long distance relationships aren't meant to be. Maybe you were too pushy or something but for right now he wants his space i think that you should give it to him at least for now maybe he'll come around and realize what he missed . Maybe he feels as though he cant be in the relationship anymore because of the distance? i think that you guys should talk about the situation more. Because you dont want to hold on to him and then there end up being no hope.
kk hope i helpedd (:
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ok so i think my best friend has an eating disorder . . .she never eats or drinks because she thinks she is fat.which she isnt . . she wont listen to me when i tell her she needs help. . . she says that she will do watever it takes to loose weight even if it means having to be in the hospital. . . please give me advice
aw I'm sorry to hear this :( my best friend was the same way and she ended up in the hosptial i think that you should tell her the things that can happen to her and tell her how much it hurts you to see her this way because she's not only hurting herself but the people around her just help her out and be by her side she needs a friend right now and maybe you should get her some help if it really gets serious i think that yu should jus show her how much you love her this is a sticky situaion and I've been in it before so just show her love and make sure you tell her how it hurts you to see this happen to her.
kk hope this helped . and hope everything works out for the best ill pray for you and your best friend (:
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me and this kid have been seeing eachother for a little while now and we really like eachother. but....i live wwith my dad and i have 5 older brothers who would be more than willing to kick ome butt so idk how i would tell them. because i dont wanna keep him a secret anymore.
Maybe you should talk to your dad about the situtaion before actually coming out with the truth just to see what he might say and maybe you should tell him when he's calm
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So i've been dating this guy for about 4 months now. He's very sweet to me, unlike any guy i've ever dated. He and I both work together. So does my bestfriend marie. I'm not usually they type to get jealous but i kinda am in this situation. I always see them talking in the store that we work in, whenever it's us three standing there it just seems like he talks to her more than me. I could be over thinking it but im not sure. He has a very friendly personality and i know that he dosen't mean anything by it but sometimes i just feel like he is flirting. I just feel left out sometimes in the situation. I've joked with him about liking her before just to see what he would say and he always says he dosen't like her or even find her attractive. He "likes" almost everything she posts on facebook, and i dont know, maybe im over reacting? Someone please let me know what you think.
i dont think your over reacting it normal for you to feel this way maybe your starting to develope deep feelings toward your boyfriend and thats why you may be acting the way you are. BUT i dont think that he would do anything to hurt you maybe he jus wants to be close friends with this girl. I"m sure he doesnt mean for it to come off as him flirting with her they just might have alot in common and maybe he can talk to her about things that he couldnt talk about to you know what I"m saying?
well i hope i helped just keep your head up :)
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My boyfriend and I just got over a huge fight we had today.
It started when my boyfriend texted me. He said he was looking at other girls breasts. I got really upset. He jokes a lot, and I am kinda sensitive, but I have learned to accept his playful attitude. However, when I told him I was upset and he knows saying that is hurtful, he said he didn't know what I was talking about. I told him it was extremely hurtful, and even though I know I should trust him, my insecurities get to me. He didn't answer for about an hour and we got in a huge fight. He was upset that I didn't trust him and he told me he couldn't believe the way I was acting. I was rather hurt too. I told him I didn't mean to overreact and I wanted to stay together. So we both worked it out and decided to only learn from it and become closer.
I'm happy we worked it out. But while we were texting I felt on edge and like we weren't going to work out. I have second thoughts because I caused such a hard time. I feel like he deserves better than insecure, crazy me. But at the same time I know he wouldn't ever hurt me. I want us to be back to normal before I made a mistake.
Help?
Sometimes in a relationship theres always going to be some kind of conflict because NO relationship is perfect theres always going to be something wrong with a relationship weather its trust issues or something simple but its the conflict which brings people closer together :) sometimes its hard but in the end the result it great and you'll know so much about each other .
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just stay strong and try not to focus on the negative things about your self and focus on the postive :)
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I really like this guy but im scared to talk to him any advice on how to do it?
maybe you should just try being yourself just walk up to him and intrduce yourself or go up to him with a group of friends and just join in the conversation you could also try telling a joke :P thats what i do i have a lot of guy friends by just telling them my corny jokes .
hope this helped good luck
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how can you tell if a guy likes you?
IF a guy likes you he will try to get your attention and mess around with you a little bit and depending on the age he might be a little shy around you and he might smile alot at you or just look at you from time to time with out you noticing .
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Ok...so my mom is pissed...well she has been pissed since one day this week I got up at like 1 in the afternoon...I'm on sprin break though.....and now she is gtting mad me for whateveri do....I got a haircut and she is like "you made me spend money on that!? Why didn't you cut it shorter!?" And stuff like that...its like whatever I do she is getting mad at me and I don't know what to do...obviously I can't talk back or tell her what I fee because she will just take it all wrong...and so I don't say anything...its very depressing having her scream and get mad me...to the point where I just wanna cut myself everytime because I feel likes its my fault...this has happened before, when I was in 6th grade....so I just don't know what to do! Any suggestions that can help me out?
First of DONT cut yourself your only hurting your self and it doesnt solve anything your not alone in this situation there are people all over the place that have experienced the same situaion why dont you try talking to your mom about the sitaution let her know how you feel maybe it wont help alot but its a start i was in the same situaion that you were in it was really bad to the point where i jus kept threatening to her that i was going to leave eventaully she lightened up and we began to have more open communication but until then jus be strong if your mom makes you mad try doing something to get your mind off of her read , write listen to music
kk i hope i helped :)
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What does it mean when your cold all the time
I'm the same why my hands and feet are ALWAYS cold for no reason it can mean that you have low blood circulation or it could mean that your animic. which means your always cold all the time also you might have a low iron count :P it sucks to be cold all the time doesnt it
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