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Ok...so my mom is pissed...well she has been pissed since one day this week I got up at like 1 in the afternoon...I'm on sprin break though.....and now she is gtting mad me for whateveri do....I got a haircut and she is like "you made me spend money on that!? Why didn't you cut it shorter!?" And stuff like that...its like whatever I do she is getting mad at me and I don't know what to do...obviously I can't talk back or tell her what I fee because she will just take it all wrong...and so I don't say anything...its very depressing having her scream and get mad me...to the point where I just wanna cut myself everytime because I feel likes its my fault...this has happened before, when I was in 6th grade....so I just don't know what to do! Any suggestions that can help me out?
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first of all, if you can'' get a job'' to have your own cash to use as you'd like. Also, the 1 in the afternoon, well half the day is almost gone to a mom. She might appreciate your help to release some tension she's been dealing with. She is probably going through something too. Either depression, anxiety, etc.. You can't please everyone, you need to focus on handling pain another way. It's an addiction like food,alcohol, drugs, etc... It's just detering it. Journal, once you start, it's easier to focus on the issue. If she makes you that miserable because she is that miserable...... you need to be honest and tell her maybe show her some past examples. She's your mom, she should want whats best for you and just doesn't know how to express it.
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First of DONT cut yourself your only hurting your self and it doesnt solve anything your not alone in this situation there are people all over the place that have experienced the same situaion why dont you try talking to your mom about the sitaution let her know how you feel maybe it wont help alot but its a start i was in the same situaion that you were in it was really bad to the point where i jus kept threatening to her that i was going to leave eventaully she lightened up and we began to have more open communication but until then jus be strong if your mom makes you mad try doing something to get your mind off of her read , write listen to music
kk i hope i helped :)
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It all depends on how old your mother is, but there are some rare cases when women go through menopause earlier. If this is the case, it is not your fault at all because she can't control her hormones. My mother was exactly like that a couple of years ago. The best thing you can do is just remember that she can't control it. A good way to look at is, shes acting like shes pregnant. Take in the anger and then release it in a positive way by doing something you love such as music, writing in a journal, learning an instrument, getting a punching bag, etc
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