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Ok, i have a lot of guy freinds, and i dont have a crush on them or anything but every once in a while i kinda "feel more" for them then just freinds, so sometimes i flirt n stuff. i dont really think i like them. i just want them to think of me as more then a freind like i think about them.or do they? that probably didnt make sence but if anyone could help me a little. i will rate, thanks.
by the way im 13. (link)
this deffiantly makes sense. im sure uve had those friends for a while and now that ur growing older its just natural to start to get diff feelings for them. its basically flirting sorta which is fun.



hey, I was wondering if anybody has heard the song that plays at the end of '10 things i hate about you'? You know the one that goes: 'i need you to need me, i want you to want me, i love you to love me.' I need to know who sings it and what it's called, thanks. (link)
CHEAP CHICK i want you to want me...i was just wandering what that song was not to long ago but then i looke dit up on windows media soo thats it!
hope i helped ya



does anybody know any good love songs?
thx.
erin (link)
only one-yellowcard
you're my only one-maria mena
last train home-lostprophets
lala-ashlee simpson (great cd)

and ummm thats all i can think of right now! hope i helped



Hey im 13 and i think that is a good age to make out but my mopm dosnt ! what do i do! im ready she isnt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
make out? im about to be 13 and i beg to differ. come on think about it


I have been going to the same Christian school all my life. Now Im entering high school and I have the choice to go to the public highschool near my house. Im worried about not making friends or getting into trouble in the public school. Its my choice but I cant decide. Which on should I go to and why? Please help! I know its a stupid question but please .. Thanks!

xO mE (link)
ok. im not going into high school...just 7th grade. i had the same problem though. i used to go to a very small christian school right by my house and that was really all i knew of. and i liked it there well i liked my friends and stuff but it was just really small. and then going into 6th grade i went to public school. i really didnt want to more than n e thing but it was ok i guess. this is ur choice though i think. will n e of ur friends be going to the public schools or going to another school? do u want to experience something new n ur life or just take it safe. who knows it might be a good change.

think about it...

-katie


okay well i have this rly rly good friends and she is like the only one who understands me and can help me w. my probs...but...my mom absolutly HATES her and wont let me hang out w. her and doesnt want me on the phone w. her that much any more becuz she thinks shes a " bad influence" or some shit like that but i didnt tell neone this to my friend cuz she is the truest friend i have and i dont wanna stop bein friends w. her....wat do i do? (link)
tell ur mom that shes not a bad influence and shes the greatest friend ever and that she should try and take some time to relize that or ask her to give ur friend sometime.
hope i could help...



hey im a columnist on here and i had music on my page and its gone ... whats the little code for it i need help please help asap i'll rate 5's (link)
OMG mine was toooo and i tried to get it back but it woundlt! hope it'll work 4 u but its:
www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=xanga_music



Ok I like this guy who is two years younger than me. Is there something wrong with that :( (link)
i dont think so..bc i mean a lot of parents have an age difference as well like between 1 and 3 years...one of my friends parents are 13 years apart! so i think ur ok!



well heres the deal...theres this guy...well just say his name is bob...so i really really like bob...and i think he likes me too...my stepbro and my friends all tell me he likes me n thinks im hot n other stuff like that...and when we are together we are like really flirty w/ eachother and all that and ive liked him for almost a year now and he knows i like him and we text message eachother almost all day everyday and i cant figure him out...what is the best way to ask him about it...b/c i think he likes me b/c of the way he acts around me like at partys he always gets me drinks n drives me around n were really good friends but i want to be more than that so what do you think would be the best way for me to find out what goes on in his head???
{im 15} (link)
try n get one of ur friends to like ask him for u just to kidan find out ;)



I had a friend, Trey Davis, well he died because he was chasing after his dog and a car hit and killed him. I wanna see how he's doing, and I wanna tell him how I'm doing. Sometimes I feel like he's with me, gaurding me. But at other times, I feel sooo alone. I wanna know if you can help me out plz!
.::Chelsea::. (link)
he is always with u and u can always talked to him n ur prayers! and god as well!!


My best guy friend hangs out with my boyfriend. Today he told me that my boyfriend was talkin about how annoying I am because I play mind games with him (I have NO idea what kind of mind games I play..) He said he doesn't love me as much anymore and he might break up with me.

Should I believe my best guy friend and expect the worst... or do I just ask my boyfriend about it and hope he doesn't get mad at my guy friend.

I don't want to ruin their friendship, but I don't want to get my heart broken because I didn't listen to my guy friend... What should I do?? (link)
ask your boyfriend and tell him to tell u the honest truth. then ask ur best friend if he was just saying that bc he has feelings for u or something. thats more than l;ikely why if he is lying

-katie


how can i confront my like best friend that i hate it when me and her r goin out sumwhere lyke the movies or what ever that she has to bring a friend?? plesse help (link)
be like "hey lets just go to movies just me n u bc everytime we go u invite someone else and we need to hang out jus me n u" i mean bc that is rood for her to do that

good luck..

-katie


I'm pretty, smart, athletic, funny, happy and really fun to be around according to my friends. But is it true that alot of 14 year old guys dont pay as much attention to flat girls? I mean In my oppinion think im girlfriend material! Why dont guys like me as much as they like my skinny developed friends who have gone thru puberty? I know it sounds stupid but please help me! (link)
well unfortunately...i could never ask this question ;) if ya know what i mean but...guys are weird and quote from family guy:"girls have boobs so u have something to look at while there talking to u" yeah its a joke but still...they just think there cool i guess lol idk but guys are so lucky bc with girls we never when: if ur flat u want um and if u have some...well some people dont want them but hen again some do! guys need to get aside of that and relize that were human beings...whoa! like that'll ever happen



Im a girl and I wanted to know is it wrong to like boys???? Both of my moms said it was bad!!!!! Please tell me!!!! (link)
both of ur moms? hmm ok...ITS NOT WRONG AT ALL TO LIKE BOYS your suppose its like some unwritten law or something...its starts when ur around 10 or 11 just to tell u


my bestest friend iz like OBSESSED wid my step-bro n she talks about him ALL the time wat should i do???????


~ AnNoYeD ~ (link)
kinda pretand like u rjoking around or w/e and be like dude ur gonna have tot stop talking about him once in a while! and kinda laugh and stuff and if that doesnt help then straight up tell her!
good luck!



i need to listen to some new bands... i love the ones i listen to,so i'd like something like them (the strokes, weezer, von bondies, and coldplay)
not rap (spare me), or hip-hop or anything. just rock... and i usually end up liking the bands that aren't very well known...
hear of some?
if so... let me know. (link)
hey...idk if u'll like um but try "too late may" go to there website to dowload some of there music or "taking back sunday" or yeah thisis a more well known band but yellowcard...i love them maybe u will too

hope i could help

-katie-


this may seem shallow but, why are all the young teenagers(generally below 15) OBSESSED with the fag rock bands, like GC, and simple plan, and that crap? (link)
BC WE CAN BE thats why ;)


Okay so i have this friend that we will call David. He's my best friend, but I think i like him and he might like me, im not sure. I can't get him outta my mind. I'm going crazy. Should I tell him that I like him or just keep it to myself? I mean I tell him everything and he came to my b-day parties and everything. I really don't know what to do. I hope someone can help me soon.
Signed,
Confuzzed (link)
i think u should first of all find out if he likes you... that would be the best. then if he does then tell him how you feel too. but if he doesnt like you then u could still prolly tell him how u feel or u dont have to. its up to u.

good luck!



ne one kno a store where u can buy "punk" type clothes? my mall has all abercrombie etc and im just looking for a place where i can find my type of clothing except for like hot topic and stuff...they r really nice except expenisive and more gothic. so help if u can thanks alot :) (link)
PACSUN


ok well i saw this one person and they had this one pic on their column and it was this girl and it said brown eyes...or somethin like that!!
(if it helps it was animated) and so anywayz i was wondering if any1 knew were i can get one of those things! (besides going on google and typing it in)

thanx,
~*ME*~


i rate every1!!!!! (link)
try maybe iconator.com...its ment for icons but they have some cool stuff
hope i could help

-katie




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