im 13/f and i currently live in NoWhErE`SViLlE!!!ok... i really hope that you guys will ask me some good questions so i can give you some good advice! so yeah! hehe. hope you like my column!!!
please add me to your favorite columnist! oh yeah and im pretty much good at answering love questions and friendships... i love scary movies and i am curently single, a boyfriend is to much work for me... ive had my heart broken...=( oh well...
God bless,
Katie Marie! =]
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wittlenatnat
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ok well there is this guy at my school who really likes me and I really like him too. However, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and lately I have been questioning my feelings about him and me. But when I think of breaking up with him i get really upset to the point where my eyes tear up. And this weekend I went over to my friends house on Saturday and he laid on the bed next to me and had his arms around me and he also held my hand....and then I went back over Sunday and he was constantly holding my hand and I don't think we let go for more than about 10 minutes, he would put his arm around me when he was behind me and then later on that night before i left he kissed me. And I kind of enjoyed this but I don't know how to tell my boyfriend. And I want to take a break from him but he said he doesn't do breaks and he doesn't give his ex-girlfriends another chance so this is the only chance I have with him, and I'm afraid that I'm going to regret my decision. What do I do? (link)
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wow, me and you have something in common!!! i resently broke up with my boyfrind that i went out with for a mo. and a half((not very long)) but anyways, i thought i didnt like him... I WAS SO WRONG! i advise not to break up with him unless you POSITIVE you dont like him anymore. dont let this other guy interfer!
xoxo
helping buddy01
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Hi everyone!
I feel terrible. Allow me to explain. I'm Todd, and I'm 15. A friend of mine (female) was cutting herself and that she was really depressed. I went to the counselor at my school to make sure that she didn't do anything hurtful (like suicide).
When she came back the next day after I told the counselor, I found out that she was on a new anti-depressant: Zoloft.
On Friday, I found out that the principal called her down and said that she wouldn't be allowed back in school unless she had a note from her psychiatrist. She told me she might be out for a while. :-(
Some of my friends said I shouldn't tell the counselor (on the day before I told the counselor), but my parents and several people said that I should. I was pretty nervous, and I didn't want her to commit suicide or do anything terrible.
I feel terrible, like I made her go away. ;-( She's not sure when she'll be back, but I feel like I committed a crime or killed someone. :-(
I'm also afraid of what my friends might say when I go back to school tomorrow. Most of all, I feel terrible since I won't see her, and I don't know how long I won't see her either. :-(
Any comments, advice, please feel free to say so.
Thanks,
Todd (link)
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ok todd, im 13, but my friends have done the same and ive witnessed it too. you did the right thing by telling a responsible adult. you feel bad cause she was a very good friend! but see you are not to blame cause you did the right thing, you just dont want her to get hurt! call her often and talk about school and friends... ask her hows shes doing, she prolly wont mind!
hope i helped!
helping buddy
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i have 2 best friends and we all hang out all the time but my two best friends have known eachother longer and they tend to leave me out ALL the time! Its annoying, it comes to the point where i dont want to hang out with both of them at the same time. When they arent together and im just hanging out with one of them its is soooo much fun! i have already talked to them about it so that wouldnt work...any suggestions? (link)
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well, when you hang out with them... and if they ignore you still, butt into the convo! laugh with them, and just have fun!
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Hello. I was just at my friends yesterday and from about 6 to 10 she was on the computer talking to her "internet boy friend" so i hung out with her sister. Then this morning same thing over again. Her dad even told her that it was rude and she didnt care and she knew i was upset. Shes the one that invited me so it makes very little sense too me. Shes my best friend and i dont want to stop being her friend or going to her house but shes a little to attached to her computer. What should i do? (link)
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well, if she calls you to hangout, just say well i didnt want to spend our time on the computer today, i was kinda hoping that we could go on a bike ride or go to the mall. would that be ok with you? and stuff like that...
hope i helped!
-helping buddy
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I can't seem to get myself motivated to do my homework! I have a lot tonight, but I always just seem to think "I'll do it later. I'm having way more fun IMing my friend right now" Then "later" comes around, and I think the same thing. This cycle goes until like 8:00 when I have no choice to start my homework, but even then I get distracted. What can I do to perk up my assignments?
thx
Trinity (link)
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hey,
look... go to the doctor and tell him this problem... he may say that you have ADHD or ADD, its not bad or anything, its just where you cant pay attention or sit still for a short period of time. i hope you take this advice!
helping buddy
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how can u loose ten lbs fast
if it helps i weigh 110 and i am 5'4". thanx (link)
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wow,
you are at the PERFECT weight, the average weight is about 115-118 for adults at the height, you dont need to go on a diet!
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Hey everyone, first off if your answerign this, dont give me some stupid answer or some unhelpful information cuz i really need some help. I have a really big problem with cussing. I really cant help it sometimes, its really hard and i cannot stop cursing. It feels real bad when i do it but sometimes it feels like it comes natural. wat can i do? i really dont know how to stop (link)
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ok, well pray to God to help you follow his 10 commandments and pray that he can help you get through each day w/out cussing. God works in mysterious ways and it may take a while... but hes there and he will help you... DONT stop praying... and when you cuss, say sorry to the person you cussed at, i no it sounds stupid but it will work!
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Ok a little background you may need to know,...my best friend's boyfriends name is Ryan. My best friend, her mom is dying,...
Anyway,...here it goes.
Ok i was walking down the hallway of my school and our cafeteria has two doors. I was wearing a wedding dress and I entered the cafeteria through the furthest door. And when i walked in, there was no lunch tables. Instead,..the cafeteria was decorated with wedding decoratings. Everything was gorgeous and white. The wedding chairs, the peoples clothing, there was flowers,...roses white roses, and even Ryan's ((the groom)) tuxedo. After I walked in everyone started clapping and Ryan took a step towards me. Then we went through the ceromony. After that he was holding me while we were talking to someone and i whispered in his ear, "Where's our honeymoon gonna be at?" and he said something i dont remember and i just suddenly got all pissed at him and we started screaming at each other we were in each others face and then he kissed ne. And we were on a cruise ship ((honeymoon,...atleast i think so.)) We were in a dark room i was kind of clausterphobic ((i'm usually not like that)) and he was kissing me so passionatly it was amzazing,....and then we went all the way...
what does this dream mean?
13/f
Thanks in advance (link)
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well im 13/f too, but i think that it means that you have a little bit of a crush on this guy Ryan.... =p
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OK I am about 5'0 or 5'1 and I weight about 140 ilbs. Im big and I know. I want to get a flat stamach the fastest I can. I love coke but i am willing to give it up. I just can not stand water. So what is somthing I can drink? I do not like most vegies, but I love all kinds of fruit. I do not own a bike. I would be willing to walk alot each day but it needs to fit in between homework and computer time. I love the computer so like yeah. LOL. How many crunches should i do also? I rate 5's!
Thx! *** Michelle (link)
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michelle,
milk, and water are the best drinks oyu can drink, i know oyu hate water but it will work the best! no carbs... and you should do about 30 crunches morning and night for a few mo. and see your results!
hope i helped!
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okay i like this guy lets call him bob so at lunch my friend told me that she likes him too and then i was fine with it but then in 7th hour this girl that i CAN NOT stand told me that she likes him also and i was soo madd i like this bob alotttt BUT i also have a boyfriend we've been going out for 7 months but i really like bob and so do alot of others apperantly what should i do (link)
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well... that is a tough decision... who do you "love" more...? "Bob" or your boyfriend...? thats the question you have to ask yourself... and is bob really the kind of guy you like...? and plus... you would have major comp. with other girls who want to date bob.
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HEY! what is the sweetest possible ride that my friends and i can take to homecoming? we took a stretch escalade last time. there are about 15 people. any suggestions? remember bigger, sweeter, more pimped than anything! thanks! =] xo (link)
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a streched hummer with hidrolicks and pimped out sun-roof!!! loud bass, roll up in the hottest ride of the year!
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okay what would you do if this "friend" always ditches u for someone else and only hangs around you when she aint got nobody else? i mean we use to be really good friends but now she only wants to hang with this other friend and is beiong really mean? please help!!! thanks buh bye!! (link)
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ok, i went throught the same exact thing and i still am! my best friend ditched me for the "in crowd" and i was just there if she was alone... so i learned to stop our friendship by not hangingout and stuff, but now its like were not even friends... i no its hard but just say hey, and walk on by her...
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hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother she has been acting wierd around us when i am over there adn she doesnt hang out with us as much and she has a bunch of guys that r just friends that r over there all teh time too adn i feel weird like i suddenly become all protective like her bro! please help (link)
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i wouldnt really say that you are in "love" with the girl. but you feel protective because you like her a lot but you feel like shes your sister. to avoid not being friends anymore, you should stay just friends and dont tell her that you like her, it will result badly...
hope i helped!
f- helpingbuddy01
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I'm a 17/F, junior in high school. I'm seriously debating dropping out my senior year. Just finish out school until I'm 18 and no longer legally have to attend. I simply hate school, all it does is cause problems and drama in my life. With the things I've done, I wont get accepted into college anyway, so I figure I'll go to a community college when I'm ready because you don't even have to graduate to go to one of those. I already have a job that I absolutely love, so finding a job because I'm a dropout wont be a problem, and I'll be going to college anyway. Everyone I know is a senior this year, so next year will be miserable when all my friends are gone, and teachers suck, and other people are just self centered assholes, that I don't want to be around anyway. What are the pros and cons of dropping out for me at this point? Is anyone out there a dropout? Any experiences to share? (link)
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look, finish school and get a good education. deal with school until you finish college and try and deal with the harsh drama. if rumors are spread, simply say, i though you knew me better than to beleive that!
good luck!
helpingbuddy01
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My EX boyfriend flirts with me. I Think becuase he walks me to my bus (which is odd) and he talks to me more now. We play fight and stuff. And I still like him ALOT. I Dont know what to do or say to him. Please dont say "Talk To Him About it" Thanks Smarts Will Be Reported! (link)
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well, tell him that you like him! im sorry but thats the best thing to do. or you can keep it friendly, get someone to ask him if he likes you... it always works!
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ok... im f/14 and weigh 109.. i was anerexice in the summer and in the begining of the school year... and weighed 102... I have been eating and as u can tell i have gained weight.. But yet i still have the thought that im fat in the back of my head... but as im eating i am getting told i look to skinny more often then i have befor.... i got told i look disgostingly skinny...? but i wiegh 109? idk im kinda confused..... (link)
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ok, when you have been or have anorexia, you always thaink your fat, thats because its a disease. you are the average weight of a 14 yr old growing girl. keep eating regular portions and you will be ok, maybe have a few more desserts...
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i got my hair cut, i wanted it to my shoulders but she cut it to the bottom of my ears and i hate it. are there any natural ways that i can make my hair grow fast?
also are there any good products that i can get at walmart that will work fast?
5's for any answers! (link)
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no, there are no natural hair growth formulas that are healthful to your hair, it will grow out naturally or you can get it restyled
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what are some exercises to help get rid of, or at least tone, love handles? (link)
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crunches work miricles
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HELP PLEASE..WILL RATE HIGH
here's the background information:::
last night..i went to the homecomming game with my friends. i hung out with a group of my really close guy friends for a while. i recientally broke up with my boyfriend..and my close friend (( im just going to use letters )) D asked me to take a walk with him. so i said alright, and we talked about y i broke up with my bf E. after a few min..he held my hand and he told me that he respectes my decision about what i did. also that night..i hung out with my friend C..we were fooling around..he said something random or stupid, and i'd kick him cause it was so annoying..but thats the way we are...anyways...today, my friend D imed me and told me that i shuld go out with C...i found this totally random and asked him y he thought i should. he told me that me and C look good together...which..i dont really kno for sure.....my other friend ( a guy ) told me that he thinks D likes me and tried using the whole " C && me makes a good couple" to distract me....
my question is....is it ture that he could be saying that i look good with someone else to hide his feelings for me? (link)
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yes, most deffinatly!
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I'm looking for a product(shampoo) that tames poufy hair, makes your hair sleek and shiny, and helps to make your hair somewhat thinner. I've already tried the product Pantene Pro-v has. I think it's called sleek and shine. I've also tried Garnier Fructis's sleek and shine products. Many other brands don't have specific types made to make your hair thinner and sleeker. I don't want to buy Matrix products because I don't need to spend like 25 bucks on shampoo. If anyone has had good experiences with brands that aren't outrageously prced I would like to know!! I also would like you to give me the SPECIFIC name of the product...not just the brand!
Thanks in advance, i could use some help! (link)
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omg i know the PERFECT one, its called all soft by Redken! its like the best!
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