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ok, i was supposed to get my period the day my boyfriend and i had sex. He didnt use a condom. and kinda cam right as he pulled out. i dont think any got IN me but i know it was on me. could i be pregnant?

any time you have intercorse there is a possbilty you can be pregnate hun.
and without him useing a condem increces it alot moreee.
becareful and i wish you the best of luck
go to a clinic and get tested.
--ashley

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I have a lot of piercings on my ears, 13. But I want one more, that not a lot of people have..
So I came down to
A Tragus Piercing
A Rook Piercing
Or A Daith Piercing..

If anyone on here has had any one of those done on a scal 1-10, how bad did it hurt? 10 being the worst.. thanks!!! =]

i self-pierced a rook and tragus. =]

i would have to say that your gunna have to accept a needle going through your flesh is going to hurt.
but personally i think the tragus hurt more, it felt like i was piercing a pressure point. its pure cartlige.

but i like how the rook looks better anyway, mabie over time get all 3?
=]
both cutee, but unfortantly, mine got snaged on a t-shirt when takeing it off and the ball ripped out it was really painfull so i just left i out to re-close.

rook i still have =]
--ashley

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is it true that if men drink mt.dew it will lower their sperm count????

temporally yes
--ashley

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I never had a problem getting wet until here lately. Im scared now. Why cant I get wet anymore? Everytime I have sex I get dry and cant enjoy it anymore. Can someone tell me how to fix this?? plzplzplzplzplzplzplzplz
Thanks

try useing lubracent, or jelly.
im not really sure cause im no docter, mabie get it checked out.
--ashley

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Alright, so I'm going to get my eyebrows waxed for the first time EVER sometime this week, and I'm a little nervous.

1) How long will it take?

2) How do they do it?

3) On a scale one to ten, ten being highest, how bad did it hurt for you the first time?

4) What age did you start getting yours waxed/plucked, etc?

5) How often will I need to get them redone or whatever?

Plz help, I'm a little confused, and really nervous.

hey dont wrry

1. a lil less than 5 min.
2.they put warm max on the parts of your eyebrows that needs hair to be removed, and they but cloth on it and then pull it off.
3. like a 1 it doesnt hurt at all, chill! =]
4.i started tweezing my eyebrows in 4th or 5th grade.
5.umm waxing once a month, but you may need to just tweeze lil hairs once and a while.

it doesnt hurt that bad at all, if it does, just tell the lady to give you a lil break. it kinda burns afterwardds though cause your skin is irratated.

--ashley

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Ok well my brother was sick and last night he slept with my teddy bear. He told me he didn't cough on it or anything but can i still get sick?

=/ if I can..what can i do about my bear? I can't describe what the fur is like but if it gets washed then it won't be the same no more

heyy
yea you can get sick.

i know what your talking about, the fur. it happend to me too cause my cousin was sick and he got germs on my lil puppy dog stuffed aniaml hah.

try getting anti-bactreal spray. its comes in a can and tis like air-freshner but it kills germs.

try looksing at cvs, or publix. its simalr to ferbreeze but its made to kill bacteria.

hope i helped
--ashley

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Anyone know like good luck things
like theres
-If you find money on the floor
You know something like that
anyone know any goodlucks
if you get me :S

if your palm itches it means your going to get money
=]
--ashley

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I need help looking for jeans. I want skinny jeans, but not the ones that stick to your skin. Kind of like the baggy skinny jeans, if that makes sense. I've checked Kohl's, Old Navy, Walmart, and Target.

17/male

pacsun!
youll find that store in the mall.

try jcpenny too
hottopic

goodluck
--ashley

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ughh i want to get my nose pierced sooo bad. ill be 17 in like 2 months and i wanna get it done for my birthday, but my mom is sooo against the idea. i told her i just want a tiny little pink stud. she just thinks its horrible. its just nose its not like i want a tongue piercing or anything! how can i convince her? thanks!!

heyy i so been through this!
i got my nose pierced for my 13th b-day =]
and it turened out great i had it since june 2nd!

anyway...you just have to show your mom that you are a responcible youg soon-to-be an adult and that you want to make a decison about this on your own and that your ready for it.
do reasearch, and make a powerpoint, on how to take care of it, finding a clean place, risks, evrything!!
tell her that your mature anough for it and that your ready!
and that its nothing permate, tell her sometimes she needs to give things a chance, that she has to respect your responcible decison cause tis your body! say that you will respect if she gave this a chance and if she doesnt like it, you will be paying for it and if after she gave it a chance, if she still doesnt like it you will take it out. (well tell her that ;] thats what she thinks ur gunna do hah).
feedback this with your email, and i will sned you the same powerpoint, i used for my mom. it has really good facts, and pictures.

nose piercings have been around for 1000s of years from indian culture as a symbol of beauty! so tell her that you are responcible and is ready to give this a chance and that you want her to be okay wiht it before your 18 and do it anyway!

so ill send you the powerpoint if you want.
and heres the video of me getting it pierced =]

http://youtube.com/watch?v=nquSm3F0_mU

you can also show this video to your mom so that she knows exactly how is done. and i got a really small stud, and show her that it doesnt look rediculas!
goodlcuk! xox
--ashley

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its on the radio alot it goes something like

i still hear your voice.....

then its like

everytime we touch... something

i reach the sky

do any oneee knowww

i love that song
its cascada
every time we touch.
some of her other good songs are
-bad boy
-miracle
-love again
-truely madly deeply

http://youtube.com/watch?v=ZK0GmiSMNGI
--ashley xox

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Hey, my friend is having a halloween party in june. We need ideas for games and activities. This is really urgent because the party happens to be in 2 hours. Any ideas are appreciated.

make a witches pot =] add
mix some water and vinager, and some bakeing soda.

it will bubble! =]

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Okay. so i just got my hair cut and its kind of TOO short for me. i look so young! plus they accidently cut my bangs and i HATE bangs!! i really want to grow out my bangs and hair as much as it can before school starts, and thats like less than 2 months... any tips?! THANKS.

omg wait is this alex??
anyway...
try useing headbands, or clips for your bangs.
and for the shortness try this hairsyle it worked for me...
wave your hair so its wavy/a lil curley
then make your ends like 3 inches of yor hair at the bottem pin stright. this is really cute and makes your hair seem longer. and youll love the look. =]
--ashley

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at night i get really scared to sleep. i always think i hear noises and i cry and shake. i dont know what to do i've been having this prob my whole life. im 13 btw. does anyone have any tips i can do. i have those night time soundtracks but they dont really work and i always get scared to listen to them considering i think someone might be in my house!! PLEASE HELP ME=[

omg i have the same exact probel (13 too)
exept for me, i have a ouija board and me and my freind had a scary experince and i swear theres like a spirt still in my house, like i even have pictures with orbs in it =/

but i cant sleep at night at all even some nights i have to sleep with a light on.

heres my tips
-read a book that will really get you intrested
-get a lavalamp stareing at those makes you tired and daydreamy
-turn on the history channel that always makes me want to fallasleep.
-praying helps, when i ask god to calm my nerves, it works.
ok this is the best one i can think of =]
my little cousin has this toy thing, thats a spy lasor. and you set them up and when someone walks past it, it tellyou though a remote. its like a toy thats supost to be for spying. (you can find them at toy r us or somehting)
and set one up in your door way and hall mabie?
then you can see whos going by.
for this idea it wont work if you have cats or dogs that can set them off.

hope i helped and goodluck
--ashley

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well im 15/f
and i've never had sex before
but i do use my vibrating shower head as a vibrator, just about every night.

are there any harmful affects of doing this?

and also what are some other things that i can do around the house to get the same pleasure?

thanks in advance

try an eletric toothbrush...hopefully that no one in your family uses hah

no its not harmfull, you should also just buy a vibrator, try getting a cheap one at spencers or something. your parents dont have to know about it =]
--ashley

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okay i always sleep at 5 or 6 AM because its summer and wake up at 12PM-3PM around that time do you think this is bad?

umm, it could become a bad habbit when school starts, cause your body will get used to your sleeping pattern and you wont be able to get awake//to sleep, for school. lol it might take your body weeks to moths for your body to get back to its normal sleeping hours.

but have fun its summer just try to get back to your normal sleeping pattern before school starts =]
xox
--ashley

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i'm 15 and my parents won't let me get a nose ring. I don't blame them cus i wouldn' want my kid with one either. but i really do want one. lol sounds really crazy but since i can't get a real one is there a way you can get fake one's that look real?

im 13 and i have my nose pierced.
=]
just tell them that you are a very mature responcible young adult that whats body art and a change, tell them you will get a small stud, and then when it heals you can try a nose ring to see how it looks and if they dont like it you can take it out.
nose piercings have been arround for 1000's of years and in idia cutlure its a sign of beauty and respect.

good luck
and if you want a fake one, try clairs. =]
--ashley

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ok wlel im wearing the white and red dress to my grad

http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/dress.jpg

Do you think i can wear a black fake beaded necklace with it?

NNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
i like the other dress muchh better remebr?
hah i would wear the one the right!

the only way black would work with the red dress if, you had black shoes to go with it =] and mabie some bracelets

where did you get that other dress though pleasee feedback i need to know =]
--ashley

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if a hermit crab gets out of its cage
where would it most likely crawl to?

water, coldness, hidden, shelterd.
dark and small
--ashley
goodluck

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i just got my belly button pierced!
it is summer time and i got the cutest bathing suit.
i want to go swimming but my mom doesn't know about the piercing.
what do i do?

i would like to wear the bathing suit but my mom will see it. if i wear a tank top in the pool, the belly ring will show when i get wet.
what do i do?

it might get infected, but after healing just go to a freinds house then go to the pool or beach!
your mom will find out eventally.
i would say somthing like "omg mom last night i had a dream i got my bellybutton pierced!" "oh look (lift up shirt) dreams DO come true ;]!!"
hah
that would be funny
tell her your mature anough and that you will take good care of it, that your ready for it, and that TO GIVE IT A CHANCE! =] that always works
hope i helped and good luck!
--ashley

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i need alot of songs about moving on and losing loved ones,etc.cuz im making a cd for everyone in my graduatiing class and we are all devestated to leave.the other night was our grad dance and we cried a ton,anyway they played songs like goo goo dolls "ill stay with u" and "she will be loved" by maroon 5.any songs like that is amazing.thanks

Graduation - Vitamin C
the best song for graduationn!
=]
--ashley

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