yes and yes.both questions are yes.because they were inserted into her.your hymen is so small that anything can easily break.evenriding a bike or sitting down wrong.

Well.Tampons couldve broken your hymen.No doubt about it.and not everybody will experience pain during their first time.and fingering(masturbation) already took over.so that is more than likely why you didnt hurt.hope i helped.

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Ma.who ever told you that straight up lied to you.how the hell does sperm interact with the egg in the stomach.thats all in yo vagina.thats why its protection(rubber) for the penis.Not the mouth.and if you are concerned about getting diseases in your mouth then use a condom while giving head.its normal.dont let that rumor scare you cause thats exactly what it is.a RUMOR.and i dont know if i understand what you asked in second line so i'd give you my best advice.are you asking if sperm comes out of your mouth should you keep doing it?
only you would decide if you wanna stop.like i said before.it is normal.all you are doing is spitting it out.that is all.and only you can decide if it is gross.only because.you might or might not like the way sperm tastes.hope i helped.

grape™

sweetie.google a clinic near you and take you health insurance card.that should work out.depending on how old u r.hope i helped

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hey...good Question.Basically no bull.I learned all on my own.only your partner.would know how they liked to be touch.for say...sometimes.your partner would give you directions.and ima tell you to take it slow.cause all that force grabbing aint goin do nothing.unless your partner is a overall freak(like me ha!),your partner will be like "rub it" or even "grab it". so do both and slow.they will let you know to do it faster..harder..gentle..roughly.hopefully i helped.

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well.let me let you know.a bad kisser is when some one sucks up your whole face.literally.they do not know what the hell they r doing and on top of that they are sloppy ass kissers.if u think u are a bad kisser...basically follow their lead.except the whole sloppy art.believe me you will know.cause this person will get or be rough at times when they try to kiss you.hope i helped

grape™

ha!ha!.well the real term of that word is SQUIRT.its when a woman has the baddest orgasm of all(meaning to damn good).she squirts everywhere.nd truthfully men love that shit.believe me.it may look nasty like pee.but she is actually just cumming.and to guys...it makes it seem like he is doing his job.and for the guys that never knew about SQUIRTING--it may be a little unusual to him.he just may think u had pee'd on him.

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girl.you was trying to hurt yourself..literally.im not judging you.but think bout it.the springy part of a curling iron?.If you really wanted to use an objecxt.maybe something shaped like a penis...long..nice width size...and round tip/head.that spring messed u your insides.you should be very lucy your not bleeding..but it did however scratch you.thats why you are in pain.but if it continues to hurt.you have no other choice but to see a DOCTOR asap.okay.hope u feel better ma.hope i helped

grape™

please.please.please.boo.dont rush your body.i mean how old are you?.Even though you have had your periuod for two years. it does not however means that your period makes your ass and tits grow. You will have to give puberty time to get them boobs bigger. If you are trying to get some ass.good luck.im black a sister..and damn i do not have any ass.i mean i have a lil phattie.but not enough for my boo to grab hun. true statement though.find a soul food restaurant and eat some greens and cornbread, believe me.that ass will grow. and what will make it so much better...is if it was home made!.trust.cause home made is always better.they puttin some kinda fat in them damn greens.no lie.lol.but i hope i helped.and remember this though.somebody is always attracted to you.its just that you think they are not.it does not matter if you are a smaller size in the upper and lower body.believe me.it will fill out.and yeah.it oes depend on family history.

grape™let me know ifi helped out much.

Really can not even tell.My first time hurt.I will not say like all hell.But you could say that. Not trying to scare you because yes. You will get over it. Just really need to get used too it.for real.Maybe do it once and do it agian and again.hey it worked and helped for me. Maybe masturbation will even help.It will help you tolerate the pain. And if it keeps hurting you like a cramping pain.stop!.maybe you are not so used too it. You could always try again though.
hope i helped...

grape™

pre-cum is basically the cum coming out of the penis during action.it may be a little also...cum is just actually after the man has completely satisfied himself and the rest of his cum comes out of the penis...hope i helped.

grape™

well any kind of intercourse means your not a virgin. he may have popped your cherry but you could never tell. he could have scratched you or something especially if it was rough. and if u dont know how to speak italian.im pretty sure just pulling on his hand or waving your hand in front of his face wouldve made him stop.you will fortunately be fine though.it wouldnt last long at all.like i said.it couldve been a scratch.no doubt.and if he did pop your cherry.some girls bleed.not for long...hope i helped babe.

grape™

Girl dont sweat it.you was just too tight. and on top of that ince it hurt...you was not wet.so he was basically trying to do u while you was dry...try again.maybe foreplay will help...hope i helped

grape™

to add additional info...a girl after me had typed some advice.not to burst her bubble.but when it comes down to it...lube can brake the condom.its chemical can do something to it[learned in health class]and it some how pops.also lube is wet.it helps get u wet.but once that condom pop and the sperm hits u.the sperm moves faster into the uterus.believe me i know this.any kind of wet liquid in tha vagina helps sperm travel faster.so think twice on that one.

Well waht yall both need 2 know is that you need a condom. And he needs to know the proper way to put it on. If he doesn't know how then tell him. Slide the condom onto the shaft and always have a little pinch of room at the tip so when he cums the sperm will go right into the condom. If he doesn't do that then there's a possible chance the condom will break while he is still in and he wont even know it. Now getting to the sex part. Im sure you have seen a porno or a sex video at school somewhere. But im not saying do any kind of positions like a porn star would. But you will get how to have sex.


Thats all the advice I can really give you thow.
But you know waht?. If you do need anymore help get at me ok.


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This is easy....
Okay they lie because they dont want their friends taunting them about gettin' sex
its funny if u think about it..



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Well only your body will tell ya that but uh
yeah it hurts 4 a good while and its normal cause your just getting used 2 sex.




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Yes its your HYMEN aka CHERRY
when you are having sex for the first time
your hymen will break and it hurts


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Well I dun think thats too young even thow your parents might disagree with me. Im not an expert on sex but i do take classes.

1 thing your boyfriend should know is how to use a CONDOM I feel whatever boy that doesn't should be prepared to face life in 9 months... n e way if he uses a condom then you should have nothing to worry about SWEET!3 just make sure he puts it on correctly....

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I know everyone has told u ProActiv already but ima tell You too really use it , I have tried so many products even the 1's evrii 1 just told you and they didn't work , my doctor told me ProActiv really works so i have tried it and in days my skin is beautiful by minuttes so try it and rate me please ,hope i helped


ps... if u dont believe me den look at my picture on my column , my face had alot o pimples be4 i took that picture , now look at me i look good and i bet you will also just try it ok , get at me later on how it turns out please

well you might juss be the 1 again because if he did all of that and waited by your locker early in the morning that means he still wants 2 be with you so if you can plz rate and hope i helped you out ok so see ya grape

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