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for the first time


Question Posted Wednesday January 16 2008, 7:44 pm

ok i know sex hurts for the first time but is it a pain your able to tolerate...like your able to suck it up? and does it hurt afterwards too? sorry i know this question is asked frequently!
thanx in advance!

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paintballmaster answered Friday January 18 2008, 10:59 pm:
this pain isnt bad and it is tolerable.but at the same time u r feeling good.and it might be a little soar after u r done

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grape answered Thursday January 17 2008, 2:34 pm:
Really can not even tell.My first time hurt.I will not say like all hell.But you could say that. Not trying to scare you because yes. You will get over it. Just really need to get used too it.for real.Maybe do it once and do it agian and again.hey it worked and helped for me. Maybe masturbation will even help.It will help you tolerate the pain. And if it keeps hurting you like a cramping pain.stop!.maybe you are not so used too it. You could always try again though.
hope i helped...

grape™

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Razhie answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 10:25 pm:
The truth is it shouldn't hurt much at all.

Think of it like getting a needle: when the doctor is sensible and good at it, and when you are calm and confident, it isn't painful at all. Everything just sorts of works itself out: It might be a bit uncomfortable, but it isn't painful.

Sex, even for the first time, should basically be the same thing: perhaps a good bit uncomfortable as you start, but NOT painful. If something is painful, you shouldn't be doing it.

You shouldn’t engage in sexual activities where you have to ignore your negative feelings (such as pain, shame or disgust). There is nothing wrong with those negative feelings, most of the time they are giving you important clues about what you and your body can handle.

Use lube, be relaxed and ready. If it hurts, stop. In all aspects of sex it’s important to listen to your body and respect your partner so there shouldn’t be any reason to continue something that is painful.

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Manderr526 answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 10:12 pm:
This question is asked a lot.
Don't ever be shy or embarresed.
Sex doesn't always hurt, but when you 1st start it will definitly be a little pain, but i gaurentee that you can handle it. From what i here some people barely notice and if your in the right mood with the right person, you will be perfectly okay.

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babiix answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 8:59 pm:
okay. Sex hurts but it is tolerable. When your in the mood and your properly lubracated it feels good. Afterward it will hurt but it only lasts for a few hours or days and that is just an annoyance not really pain.

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