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Peace. it's ya girl Z here. lemme get to the point.. my name's Zainab, 17 years old, and from Montana(and NO i ain't no cowgirl). i am muslim and insha'Allah i am going to be married next month to a wonderful guy named Alim. love ya baby. so if y'all need anything just holla atcha girl. peace to fingers
*Z*

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Well I recently started maturbating and for a couple of days iI've been getting these things that I call "pleasure spells". I call them that because I have no idea if it's an orgasm or not. This is what happens: I masterbate and all, then my clitoris gets really hot, then I feel this sort of tightening and tingling down there. Then, this is the wierd part, it feels like I have to do kegels (sp?). I do a couple of those and the feeling drifts away. Orgasm? Not an Orgasm? If not what is it?

okay sounds like you are almost to an orgasm. just speed up a lil' when you hit that point, and you should reach an orgasm. once you have an orgasm you will know it. it's different for everyone, and kinda hard to explain but it's a sure thing that you will know.

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Me and my girlfriend want to have sex but she hasn't really had a penis inside of her. Other than it bleeding, is there any way people would notice that she did it?

okay this may sound freaky, but sometimes mothers can just tell that something is different. but physically she may have a small glow to her, doctors can sometimes tell, but they can't tell her parents without her consent, but other than that, no.

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how do you have an orgasim?

well you have one by being very sexually stimulated. if you are a girl, it is sometimes harder to reach them than guys. but if you get one you will definitely know. there are different ways to get one:
1. sex- not always for girls but yes for guys
2. stimulating the penis/cliterous
3. sometimes just by daydreaming about that special someone, or looking at their pics. this doesn't always work, but for me it does.
anywayz there are different ways for everyone. but these are the main ones. so hope my answer helped.take care
*Z*

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My friend who I've known for like 10 years of my life we were talking about sex and stuff and she said shes scared to have sex because her vagina smells.
She said she cleans it right and it smells fishy and because shes a virgin she doesn't want to douche so I didn't really know what to say to her.
Is there any advice for her?
cause it was kinda weird hahaha.

well douching doesn't take away her virginity but i know what she is talking about. anywayz besides cleaning it regularly with feminine wash, they only other way may be to douche.

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well my boyfriend wantds to finger me but im scared it will hurt like hell...x should i be scared did it hurt you ...x please tell ...x

well it hurts a little at first, but nothing compared to sex. fingering is to get you ready for his penis. it may hurt, but it shouldn't hurt too much. have him start with one finger then continue increasing from there. but if you are worried bout letting it show if it hurts, try it yourself to find out. hope this helped a lil'. if you need anything else just lemme know. take care.
*Z*

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in what grade do you have the class sex ed?

i had to classes cuz i went to two different schools over the years. one was in 4th grade and the other was in 6th grade

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me and my boyfriend are both virgins. we tried having sex the other day but it hurt way too much so i stopped him. i know its supposed to hurt ur first time but is there any way to decrease the pain.. or should i just stick it out?

ello,
well yes it is going to usually hurt the first time. to decrease the pain have him use his fingers first until it doesn't hurt so much then try the regular way.
*Z*

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Can a girl get pregnant if she is on the pill and you "let go" in her the first week after her period?

ello there,
yes you can. the pill isn't 100% protecting you. plus if you add the fact that he released inside of you, then you up the chances. but after a week or so if you are still worried, go take a pregnancy test. and if you miss your next period then make sure you check it out.
*Z*

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okay, so when you shave your pubic hair do you shave against the hair or with the hair?

ello there.
shave against the hair. and if you tend to get red bumps then after you shave wash the area well with body wash or soap.
*Z*

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ok so i got my first period in the end of august and ges wat now its november 20th and i still havent gotton another period! im very confused should i be worried? is there something wrong with me?!? should i tell my mom i havent gotton another period since then? please help i totaly dont kno wat to do?

ello there.
well you don't need to be too worried cuz it's normal for that. i got mine 2 times then didn't for 8 months. everyone is different and it will take a while for your body to get used to the changes. mine still isn't and it's been bout 4 years. anywayz if you still are worried bout it then yes go have it checked out. maybe if you tell your mum she can help you out a lil' cuz she's probably gone thru the same thing. okay take care and i hope you get a lil' comfort.
*Z*

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there's this "game" people play. i dunno what its called though which is what i wanna know. its where there are two people. one person puts their hand on the person's knee and moves it the other persons leg until that person says stop. and then they switch roles and sees who endured more. and the person who endured more ist he winner

its weird. do you have any weird games you play with your friends

this game is called "do you trust me now"... my one friend got kicked out of alcohol counseling her 8th grade year for playing it with a teddy bear.lol

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ok this is my first year of high school an i am really scared cause i dont know how the kids at the school will act some of the kids be picking or teasing the freshman wat shall i do

well of course it is tradition to pick on freshman, everyone goes through it. but what you need to do, is don't let it bother. don't let them see if they hurt you are upset you. don't give them that pleasure.

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Hey! I'm not shure if this goes in this category but - does anyone know how to get good karma?

Thank yoU!

well it is more of an idea or superstition but if you do good deeds and works and are a good person then it will come back to you someday.

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my left boob is bigger than my right one! is it gonna be like this forever?? i dont like it!!

well if you are left handed or just that arm alot then yes it probably will be. everyone has one bigger breast. but if you are right handed or just the right arm alot then, it will more than likely even out.

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out of opinion, would you say that 5'4'' was tall or short for a 15 year old girl?

it's average, i am 5'5 1/4 and i am 16.

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what does g mean? people are always like "what up g" and once someones profile said "away, being G of course"

g means gangster. but nowadays it is just used as hi to a friend or someone you meet.

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I am 15 and I will be turning 16 in October. Should I be worried that I haven't had one sign of a period yet?

No reason to be worried. some girls don't get them until they are 18. everyones body is different.

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i want a bra that doesnt give me any padding, but i dont want a sports bra. wut kind should i get?

well it all depends on how big your bust is. but if you live near a wallmart, go into the bra section and you will see some hanging up with wires, no be careful not to always have it on cuz it can do some damage. but just look at them, usually if they have wires, they won't have padding just the cloth.

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Could someone please give me some long distance relationship tips.. he'll be driving in 6 months.. if that helps any.. We love eachother and ahve been together twice and will see eachother in less than aweek.. but yea, idk the next time we will before he gets his licence and i may start dating him soon! please hlep!

well long distance relationships can be hard. i live in USA and my fiancee' is in Egypt. so it takes patience on both ends. and you have to trust one another enough to believe that they are not with other dates. and it helps if y'all can talk on the computer IM. and also call eachother often, just so you know that you both are still devoted to eachother. best of luck!!

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If you want to move to another country, would you find a house and a job in the area, or a job and a house in the area? Why?

Thank you.

well if you don't have a job already lined up, then i would go and spend a little while in a hotel until you find a job, then get a house near the job, that way you don't have to move from the house if you can't find a job close.

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