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well theres this friend i have and i always catch her in lies. a lot of my other friends do to, so we all know she lies. i never really wanted to confront her about it, but the other day she got mad at me, and we were fighting so i told her that i noticed that she lied ALL the time, and i even gave her examples, but she still says she didn't lie. well we all know she did, because she tells us all different things. well now we're in a big fight, so i don't even think i should have brought it up in the first place becasue i hate fighting,which is why i never brought it up before. so now what should i do? (link)
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I think that it is good that you confunted her about it she needs to know how you feel think of it like this you were in her shoes and everyone is holding something from you, wouldnt you want to know? I would I think you should fa sho reminder that you are her for her but you just hate her lieing and if she cares as much about you as you do to her she will understand and stop ehr lieing ways. hope this helps good luck!
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I have this one friend who is always flirting with my friends boyfriends, and even mine. We get mad at her all the time, and she tries to make us forgive her by giving us presents and stuff. We're sick of her! Whenever we get in fights with her she gets her mom involved too. It's starting to get on everyones nerves. Also, she always thinks we're talking about her behind her back, but we're not! HELP! ASAP!-Bethany (link)
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Bethany,
sounds like your friend is not a ture friend and you should tell her to stop fliring with your girl's boyfirends. Just tell her that she is not a ture friend would not flirt with your boyfriend and that you are not talking crap about her behind her back and she needs to get her story stright hope this all works out for you
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My boyfriend really really wants to do stuff with me like really bad when ever I kiss him he tries to do all this new stuff and I want to and everything but I am afraid of going to far... what should I doo? My dad is going to New York for a month and then we are suppose to move there because his new job and I don't want too!!!
Right now my Best frined has MONO! from kissing another guy and her mom is flipping out!! Help me What should i do with everything! (link)
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well hunny looks like you have alot things going on at once! well with your boyfriend seems like you are not ready for that and you should wait. I am the same way I don't want to lose mine either so I am gonig to wait and I think thats what you should do! I know you don't want to move but it might be the best thing for you! to try to get away from allthe things that are happeneing. Maybe you should talk to your dad and see if you guys might be able to stay, you never know he might find a job where you live. and with your friend you cant help her by having mono or with her mother but you can always be there for her and Just make sure she is ok and getting mono is not a fun thing trust me I have had it and my friends where there for me. just be there for her and she will thank you. hope my advice works and good luck with all your problems please tell me how it works out my e mail is footballchicka06@comcast.net thanks hun
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I NEED Help i love my ex but she dont like me what should i do im a 13 m (link)
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hunny you don't know what love is I am sorry you are only 13 you have you whole life infront of you so many other girls. hun you should move on or see how she feels. sorry if it don't work out but remmeber you got your whole life infromt of you! good luck
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I have been going out with this guy for 9 months(2 years unofficially) and we have had sex more than 80 times. I'm only 17 and I'm afraid that this feeling I have, like we are meant for eachother and are going to get married, is just an illusion. Other times, I can see myself marrying him. He's my bestfriend, lover, and the only man I have ever trusted. So is this feeling just "puppy love" or do you think it could be real? (link)
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Hey hunny i am only 15 and never been in love but I really think you should follow your heart and talk to him and seewhere your relationship is going and see if he is feelin the same way about you as you feel about him. I think you actully might have something you sould like you are in love! surly talk to him and see how he is feeling hope this works out! good luck!
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alright well i was best friends w/ this one chic like really close we couldnt be seperated but then she moved like a few cities away. for a while it was no big deal in fact for about a yr and a half we still hung out and everything but then she started getting into drugs and hanging out w/ the wrong type of people u kno so we kinda ended up drifting apart. she still lives close enough that we go to the same mall so occasionally i or some of my friends would see her there. and whenever i saw her she would be all happy to see me and nice and stuff but everytime another friend sees her they tell me she talks crap about me. i recently got her AIM sn and we talk online and shes kool but im not sure i wanna let her back in my life (link)
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Hey hun, I think second chances are always good! follow your heart! if you girls were bestof friends you shouldnt let drugs and friends get in the way. make sure your friends are telling you the truth. if it comes tothe point I really think you should bring your friends, you and your friend thats "talking crap" face to face they cant lie to you if they are face to face with you. they will arguee tell you come out to the truth! hope my advice works for you and if its fails I am so sorry good luck sweetie! E~mail me telling me how it went footballchicka06@comcast.net
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im 16/f and i weight 110 pounds. am i really really skinny??? (link)
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Hey hunny I am the same way! if you are eating right and you are just thin then I would not worry about it Iam 5'10 and weight 115 so I wouldnt worry about it at all if you are getting sick after eating then there is a diffrent problem but if not your just wont thin person! I am to so don't even worrie! I LOVE BEING THIN! you should to! hope this helps you good luck!
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my friend who has been ma m8 mate since nursery, but every few years she changes best friends now she goes out wif other m8s who r ma m8s aswell wif out teling me and i really feel left out. CAN ANY1 HELP ME PLZ PLZ (link)
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you should talk to her about it see what she has to say and if she feels the same way or she has a diffrent veiw on it hope it works out bye love
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I am decent looking, & I am called hot a lot but not very many guys fall for me! I have dated about 5 guys & I want a boyfriend but I want to find the perfect guy so I want to make guys like me so I can get to know them if I like them. Not just looks but personality too. I already love to have fun and hang w/ them & I can be girly & sporty. I have a really good sense of humor but it doesn't feel like a lot of guys like me more than just a good friend. My question is, how can I improve myself in looks & personality as I am going into middle school in a month & I want to make a good impression to everyone first & just also for myself so I'll be happier & be more confident. Thankz, I'll rate you. Sry this is so long but thankz for taking time to read this!
~Lonely and Unconfident :-( 12/f (link)
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Well hunny you are so young and have your whole life to find the perfect boi for you. Just be yourself and don't try to hard that you are obvious about it. if you want to be happier then you need to be youself and not some one the guys will like. Some one will fall for you. they will fall for the sweet and careing person you are! so keep you head up you will find the special person you are looking for! trust me I was the same way! i didnt have my first true boifriend tell I was about 14! so hunny keep up who you are! hope it works out for you good luck in middle school its a lotta fun
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Okay my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now. One of his really good friends is a girl and she and I don't get along. I dislike her because she has talked trash about him behind his back early on in our relationship telling me that I shouldn't like him, that he's a horrible person and he's a bad kisser and all this mean stuff. She used the fact that she dated hima s an excuse as well. She and I never were really good friends but she and he always have be like good friends. I now realize how hard it is for him. Because we dont like each other. He's told me how she'd make a comment when he would say he was with me or something about me and sometimes I'll admit I would roll my eyes and maybe make a comment when he talked about her. I've realized this is hard for him. I'm not sure if I want to be her friend but I do want to make things easier for him and easier for our relationship because at one point this situationw as a big factor and reason for our fights. And after our last big fight it came up again after it wasnt for like 2 months. I don't know if I should set aside my differences with her or if I should just ignore it? help please! (link)
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Hey hunny I think you should fa sho talk to him and tell him what she was saying and if he doesnt believe you then you need to sit them both down she cant lie to him when you are sitting right there and know the whole truth. Also you should talk to him and tell him how much you don't want it to end because of a girl and even if its your bestfriend tell him that maybe you guys should nit all hang out and it should be you and him and her and him not all together. sorry if this is really cofusing it understand and if it doesnt help but if it does I am really glad and hope everything works out!
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hi my best friends diched me for the popular gang , how can I get them back , they dont even talk to me now!!!!!! PLZ help Jenipher (link)
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Jenipher,
well if your friends ditched you for a popular gang and didnt take you with them then they are not yourr true friends trust me you want a friend that you can talk to and you know always will be there even if they found "popular" friends. Popular is just a word be you don't try to fit it trust me its not worth it! hope this helps you if not i am so sorry but good luck!
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me and my brother are always arguing and i hate it. he always calls me names and im older wot can i do (link)
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Sit him down and tell him how you feel. and tell him that you love him and you don't want to fight. i have been thought that to I got 3 brothers i get to fight with :)
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I have long , black hair ( i'm asian ) , and fairly light skin . What colour should i streak my hair ( keep in mind that i'm only doing three thin streaks , because i'll need to hide this during shcool time )
- army green
- neon green
- electric blue
- turquoise
- purple
- any other suggestions ? (link)
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hun keep it natural guys want the natual girls not the ones that have blue or green in there hair
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So me and my ex-boyfriend talk so much becasue we know for sure we are gunna get back together soon, this is just a break. But anyways, he told me that i was a horrible girlfriend which was bull *thats a reason we broke up* .. well, i wanna know some cute things that I can do that will really show him I'm still so in love with him. Any ideas? (link)
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sweetie you don't have to impress a guy by showing him how you can be a good girlfriend if he don't like you for you then he is not worth it. trust me you will find anouther guy that will bethere for you and like you for you not what you do for him.
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Me, and my friend have been fighting alot. Lets just say her name is ellie, well ellie and me have been best friends since the 3rd grade, so now thats about 4 years of being best friends. but now shes starting to get a little bossy, saying stuff like im getting to comfertable with her family like i dont say thank you enough. that kind of stuff tho i am fine with. but this morning she started to say that i was getting to comfertable again, and saying was acting really bitchy and all i did was i was hangin out with her brother, and her neighbor, but i was leaving her out. But besides this morning shes been fighti with me over a lotta little thing, and im starting to get really stressed out. i dont kno wut to do anymore. PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME. should i break the friendship, or try to work with it. im starting to feel like i cant breathe. (link)
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I have been though the same thing me and my bestfriend did it to but you know you have to sit her down and say you know what your getting to bossy for me and its not as much fun to hang out with you anymore. and see what she says and just keep and conversation open up to her ans tell her what you feel! you need to keep the communication open me and my friend are still friends and I told her the same thing!
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ok im 16 me n my boyfriend who is 17 have been going out for just over 2 weeks now.. everytime i think about him i get sweaty palms.. and all i can do is smile.. i feel like the only thing that could hurt me is him leaving me and i get all teary just thinking about it... am i falling to hard to fast?? i really think that im falling in love with him but ive seen so many of my friends go through the same thing and get hurt so im afraid to really open up.. am i being to guarded? should i end things before it gets too serious?? (link)
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you are 16 you have you whole life ahead of you. I think you should let him know how you feel but don't put it on him to fast. he will get scared and want to leave you, just tell him that you have only been together for about 2 weeks but you really like him see what he has to say. if he says its going to fast then stop and say your sorry but this is how you feel IM me and tell me how it goes footballchicka06.
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i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.
thxx (link)
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Hunny you really don't need a boyfriend. you might want one but they are really just a pain in the butt. but if you really need to know you jsut need to be yourself. don't put on an act they will find out who you are not the person you want to be!
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im gettin braces in like 2 days, and i was wondering
does it hurt when they put them on?
or does it hurt more a fefw days later?
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I just got them off it really dosnt hurt getting them on more aster a few days! live off soup!
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Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?
Signed,
Sad and confused!
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dear sad and confused,
you should for sure get incomtact with this guy you know you feelings are stong and if you never do it you will never know what you are missing out on. so just seewhat he is up to if he remembers you and what he is doing and all that good stuff keep it casual at first then go and get into the stuff you want to know about him! ;)
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Is 9th grade a good grade and does it go by quickly? (link)
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I just went though 9th grade. going to a new school where you know that there is going to be people 3 years older then you its going to be screy but it is also going to go by so fast but you have to keep your grades up and pay attion in class I never did and i failed 2 classes but if you do your homework and ask question you will be fine 9th grade is a blast!
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