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My friend and I are arguing about the differences between punk, goth, emo, and indie in music and otherwise. I am not sure who is right. Can anyone help clear the topic up? (link)
Emo- There are many ways of interpreting it, although only a true emo can and true emo does never tell the world they are emo, it does mean emotional, although when it comes to music there is little true emo music around it is mostly on vinyl nowadays. So Taking back Sunday and Dashboard Confessional are the new emo, softcore rock.

Goth-Do wear black and are dark people but can be very religious and the nicest people around although society choses to not exept them becasue they think they are murderous people who whorship the devil and hate life, which is untrue, although some may be santanic it is not somethign all goths are.

Punk-Well the last person to define punk defined it fairly well.

Indie-I cant really define that my specialty is emo punk and goth was never sure about indie music.


I'm not trying to offend anyone,
there are a lot of stories about fairies, and there are a lot of stories about God.
We don't have proof that fairies or God exists...yet so many people are convinced God does, while fairies or something of the sort are classified as just things in story books.
I'm not trying to get attention or anything, but I kind of don't get it.
So, just wondering...do you have an answer? (link)
1) there is proof that God did exist. In the bible, relics things that different people recored.

2) People belieev in God easier because they have reson to

3) those who believe in God should belieev in faires because when St. Micheal was Fighting the Devil the Angels taht stood by and watched were condemed to earth until they are forgiven and are what many people believe are faires

4)Not an encredibule amount of people have seen faeieres opossed to the apperations of God Saints The blessed Virgin etc... and most sighting of Faeires turn out to be of drunk people or people who may have reason to wwwant to make people believe that they were taken by faeries, although there are incounters that are extremly beliveable...

5) That is the only real proof behind faeires although if you believe in God you shoudl be able to believe in living being such as faeries


Hi it’s me Chrissy. I am 13/f and from Virginia. I need your help. My best friend tried to do astral projecting one day, and it worked, and she freaked out. Then it kept on happening by accident. We are really freaked out and I don’t know what I can do to help her. Is there anyway to turn it off. She has been freaked out mostly because she said that everyone is moving in slow motion, she can hear everything perfectly, she can’t talk when she is in it, and everyone is wearing togas. After she is done when ever she tries to type it comes out in French when she tries to type in English, and she doesn’t know French at all. Like I said we are freaked out about this. She even saw me in her bathroom (wearing a toga) after the first time she did it. What is weird is we can talk to each other when she is in it. She keeps the phone on and makes squealing noises or bangs the table to communicate. I really want to help her. She has even gone into the past, on the moon, to my house, and met God. She is freaked out and I need to know how to help her. Thanks.

~*Chrissy*~

sorry about the catigory it could go in this or the spirit one (link)
'well it may be lucid dreaming...when she projects herself she should be able to se her body if not it is probubly lucid dreaming in which she is controllign what she dreams, althoguh if she hasnt mastered the art of lucid dreaming she might not relize that she is makign herself dream these things. as to her speaking french when she doesn't know the language, if its more than that please e-mail me(eevrlastingdreamer_9213@hotmail.com).


Okay i shaved one time and i go realli bad razor burn so i let it go away and my hair wetting kina long... well i went over to my friendshouse nad she said we were going to a water park teh next day so i hopped in her shower and shaved like halfway down from were my hair started(like not even to the lips down there u know) ... so like i came home today and shaved the rest and now its realli itchy and crap and like its down there bye the lips and i was wondering if that is just razor burn or could it be like a std for my friends razor or somethign!!!!! but i didnt go all the way down there with that razor and thats were it itches!!!! and theres lil red bumps were it itches...... and liek it itches right on the inside of the lips and thats it......so is it just razor burn or what (link)
It is probubly razir burn, make sure your using shaving cream and not dry shaving also mostierizing might help. And I highly doubt its and std unless she cut herself with that razor and then you cut yourself with the razor it coudln't be a std.


i know that this is a dunb question but what does getting fingered mean (link)
Okay when you masturbate(Assuming your a girl) your are fingering your self, or when someone else does it to you.


i think i like a gay guy. i would ask him out if only he wasn't gay. hes cute but wears the same tight jeans that look like he got them out of the womens department everyday. i have no idea why he would wear that in the summer anyway. also with that outfit, he would wear a black shirt, black sneakers, volcom cap, and checkered belt. also only on one day he wore a different outfit. it was a marun (however you spell it, and if u don't no what i put, its that dark red and purplish color) shirt, plaid shorts, same belt and hat, and green sneakers. it looks like he took a pair of shorts out of my dad's closet. i don't know if hes gay or if he just doesn't have style. what do u think? and also i would like him if he wasn't "gay" and had better style. what should i do? thanks-♥ (link)
Okay well he may not be gay!
I am gay and well I dress like every normal guy, so you can't judge by clothes, the only way to find out if he is is to talk with him, flirt and see if he flirts back if so ask him out, although he may be gay theres a chance he may be bi.


Ok, my boyfriend is BI. I really like him and stuff like that. We haven't been dating long, and people are already making jokes about me, him, and his sexuality. I'm getting sick of it. And I need advise other than, ignore them. Because no offense, but it dosen't work. Thanks in advance. :] (link)
Okay some of you are a bit mean there. Just because hes bi doesnt mean he'll cheat or anything. And about the comments try not to let them bother you, if you guys love each other who cares what others think and once they relize you don't care they'l stop


hey everyone... im a 15/f && i have been getting bullied since 8th grade by this girl && some of her friends... && this girl in 8th grade started IMing me on the internet and started cussing me out.. && then in 9th grade she got my cell phone number and started prank calling me along with her friends... && she also would say im ugly and i try to hard to fit in... she told me this when i talked to her eariler today!!! i wuz like im not ugly && i don't try to hard to fit in && i don't care what u && yur firiends think of me... but she was like fuuck you && go to hell && don't tell me what to do... do she's going to keep bothering me!! so how should i prevent her from bothering me? i've tried to ignore her && that didn't work... && i've tried standing up for myslelf (link)
BLONDShorty is probubly right BUT what shes saying is resroting to the bullies level, and should be used as a last resort only! Get some friends together, if there are are a bunch of people around you who will stand up for you that might make her stand down it's worked for me before, when my friend was being bullied one day, when I stood up for her the buly and her friend backed of .


this is for strong Christians mostly to answer. Is their any Godly way to relieve sexual tension without sinning when your single? I'm a strong, young Christian girl but imma teenager so I have raging horemones. I used to masturbate then I stopped then it went to dry humping. now I'm trying to stop it all but its hard. Is there any way to de stress? (link)
To reply with the first person to anser that isnt true it, the reason behind it is because of the scripture they believe you should only have sex to have a baby whcih is what he was preventing. Soem ppl also belive you are sacrficing the suold of a child when you amsturbate because many christian denomations belive that the sould comes from the seed.

And to reply with the other person to anser shes right, but dont worry, if you repent your sins to go and you are sincere you will be forgiven. So if prayer and guidance wont work(which it wont always we are born undetr the intent to sin) dont worry about it. God also said homogential acts(gay sex) is sinful for the reason it isnt for procreation but says if it is necasary for these acts then tahts all you can do.


What are some good songs to sing as a solo and without accompaniment besides "The Star-Spangled Banner"? (link)
Amazing Grace is a geat song for a solo


I have a huge, ugly pimple on my face and I need it gone by tomorrow. I rarely ever get pimples and when I do, they are easy to get rid of, but not this one! Are there any at home remedies I could try? I have a very important event to go to tomorrow and I can't have this thing on my face! (link)
Do not use toothaste!
When you use some home remides with toothpast food etc... it normaly clogs your pore and can do more damage than worse!
Use and ice cube to get the sweeling down and cover it with makeup.
But I recomend getting oxypads to clean you face in the morning and at night then get Oxy 5 vaishing formual and apply it after cleaning your face with the pads and it shoudl take care of any exess oil and will help control pimples.


I just dyed my hair a dark red/burgundy color and I really like it. How can I make it last as long as possible before having to color it again? Any tips or advice much appreciated!! (link)
Use shampoo's that help keep the color in your hair, and don't use shampoo to often, and if you do a lot of swimming in chlorinated pools it will more than likely eat away at the dye, so if you do try to stay away from them if you can.


my boyfriend is wants to have sex, and, im cosidering it. im 15, am i old enuff? i know about being safe and all, and i dont need to be lecture about how its not right cause the bible says its rong, im not religiouse. i just dont know if im old enuff to be having sex. (link)
Physcally yes your ready for sex. Although mentally you might not be. If your feeling anxious, restless and have doubts about it I'd highly doubt you're ready. If your not ready to have sex with him it might make things akward for you, knowing that you werent ready and that you didnt want to. Also sometimes having sex can destory a relationship if your not ready. So if your readly you should but you have to consider if your ready, do you feel like hes the one you want to be your first? Are you ready to lose you Virginity? Do you feel anxious about it? These are some questions you should be asking yourself, to make sure that your ready.


i get jealous of all the girls my boyfriend talks to... how do i keep myself from feeling bad. (link)
It's good that your jelous its a healthy emotion it shows when you care about someone. But hes going out with You not Them. Maybe you should talk to him and tell him how you feel about it or its going to keep happening and getting worse.


16/f
how can i get over or not get so sad/jealous over this guy that im really starting to like and i cant help it but has a girlfriend?!...we flirt nonstop and all this stuff but we are "best friends" as we say haha. i know ive fallen for him but i get so sad when he talks about his girlfriend and when he says he is gonna go hangout with her. i know its his girlfriend and obviously he is gonna do that stuff but i always forget that he has one because whenever we hangout we flirt so much like touchy/sexual but never kissed or really came close and everything and it feels like he is MY boyfriend. its hard not to talk to him or try not to be around him so much because its my cousins neighbor and my boy cousin is his good friend so he is over at their house like everyday and so am i! my other cousin is my best friend thats why i am over there so much and i dont have many other friends i hangout with and all i can think about is this kid..and hes not even mine..
ahh what do i do?

thank you (link)
Theres nothign you can really do. It might help to talk with him about how you feel about him, tell him how you feel about whats going on, and ask him to try not to talk to to much about his girlfriend. ♥


well im always around this really adorable kid that im starting to like. i pratically see him everyday =) but i wear the same things alot because they're my favorite clothes! and since i see him almost everyday i cant wear the same thing in the same week. but im not rich and i have to buy my own clothes and i dont have like any money and my friends arent the same size as me. i know this guy shouldnt care what i wear but when i feel "prettier" i have more confidence. what do you think i should do or can do? im getting SO sick of my clothes. (link)
GO to cheaper stores lik value village Walmart sear. It's cheaper and the clothes are stil good. then try mix and matching outfits so you don't have to wear the same stuff.


I was at my friend lillys house for her 15th birthday with a few other people. Everything was great we were doing manicures and making prank calls. But then it got really late and everyone got a sugar rush and were bouncing off the walls it was crazy! Well I was sitting on top of Lillys dresser next to her cousin Jenna and all of the sudden Jenna started rubbing my feet and telling me how soft my skin was....it really weirded me out. Everyone laughed like it was a joke...but it didnt seem like a joke to her. She looked kinda like my boyfriend does right after we make out. Should I be weirded out by this? I'm going to her house again on tuesday and her cousin will be there, and I'm kinda scared...should I be? Hellllp! (link)
Don't be scared. She was probubly joking around. But if it happens again you should tell her to stop, that you feel unfortable and that you would like her to stop.


Tonight my dad mistakenly caught part of the family garden on fire. Does it have a chance of coming back. If so, how do I take care of them(cucumbers, shuck peas, and watermelon). If you don't know don't answer. Also please try to use correct grammer or I'll mark low. If you tried then its fine.


No hard feelings
Jenni (link)
Well that happened to me before.
By the nest year once everythign recovered(this was a very big fire by the way) stuff was growing and better then ever.
SO just take care of the soil and maybe replant some pre-grown plants and the garden should be great and up and running within a few weeks.


Hi, I'm going to high school this year and I want to make a splash. I have changed a lot over the summer to more of a fun-loving and more confident person. I just got a great haircut, but I want some advice on clothes that I can wear that aren't too expensive and are modest (also, any ideas of stores that have good clothes, but not too expensive). I'm 15/f, blue eyes, blonde hair (shoulder length and layered) I am 5'3 and I weigh 105 pounds, so I have a thin frame. Any advice would be great! (link)
Stiches
Bluenotes
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They might be a bit more expensive but are good stores




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