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i think i like a gay guy. i would ask him out if only he wasn't gay. hes cute but wears the same tight jeans that look like he got them out of the womens department everyday. i have no idea why he would wear that in the summer anyway. also with that outfit, he would wear a black shirt, black sneakers, volcom cap, and checkered belt. also only on one day he wore a different outfit. it was a marun (however you spell it, and if u don't no what i put, its that dark red and purplish color) shirt, plaid shorts, same belt and hat, and green sneakers. it looks like he took a pair of shorts out of my dad's closet. i don't know if hes gay or if he just doesn't have style. what do u think? and also i would like him if he wasn't "gay" and had better style. what should i do? thanks-♥
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Congrada-fuckin-lations YOU my friend are a steorotypical bitch. MANY guys wear girl pants an arent gay. I have 3 friends that are like that and they have girlfriends. Stop reading the great big book of steorotypes and face life. he does have style because his outfit is some fad now and its sweeping across the nation. Im not trying to be a bitch im just tellin you straight up and i dont care if this is something you dont want to hear. Get. A. Life.
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Okay well he may not be gay!
I am gay and well I dress like every normal guy, so you can't judge by clothes, the only way to find out if he is is to talk with him, flirt and see if he flirts back if so ask him out, although he may be gay theres a chance he may be bi.
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Been there, Done that. I'm an expert on this one.
1. If its just the way he dresses that makes you think hes gay, you still have a chance with him. A lot of STRAIGHT guys wear girl pants. It's not too big of a deal. Flirt with him and see if he flirts back. Look for signs, like does he have a lot of guy friends? If most of his friends are girls or other guys with questionable sexuality, he might be gay. but if he has a lot of guy friends who are definately straight, theres a good chance he is too. Talk to some of his friends and make something up like, "Didnt (your guy) date (a girl you know)?" and his friend will either be like, "no, hes gay" or "no, he didn't" and then you can be like, "oh well he must have dated a girl that looked like her because i swear i saw them at the movies" and see how they react.
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2. If this guy actually ACTS gay, DO NOT waste your time. 6 months ago, i realllly liked this guy, he was so cute and sweet, but i thought he might be gay. Well one day he told me he liked me so obviously he wasn't gay and we started dating. Ohhh girl, let me tell you, it got annoying FAST. All the "cute, semi-gay" things he used to do were all the sudden REALLY gay and he didnt really act like a guy. I mean its one thing for a guy to like to shop...another thing for a guy to sit online for hours shopping off websites. Just trust me on this one - if he acts gay and its cute, it will NOT be cute for long. if you want to go for it..then just flirt with him big time and ask him to "hang out" so if hes gay, its not a "date". Say stuff like, "Orlando Bloom is so hott" and if hes like "yeah" then hes probably gay. if hes like "uhhh ok i guess" then hes probably not. but my advice is to NOT try to date him.
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Ugh your really stereotypical. Grow up and give up with the stupid labels. Just because he dresses like that doesnt mean hes gay. Maybe he just likes to dress that way. And if you like him then go with it. You shallow little girl. Just because you think he has no style doesnt mean you should ditch him like that. Go ahead and rate me a 1... ur pathetic
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He's not gay.
He thinks he's emo/scene.
Thats how "scene" people dress. Its not very uncommon where i live, and alot of my friends find it rather attractive :P haha. The way a guy dresses doesn't determine his sexuality. If he is wearing the same clothes everyday, he might have a hygeine problem. Ask him out :] You'll find out preeeety quick whether or not he's as "gay" as you think or not :]
♥Shelby
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To me it doesn't really sound like he's gay.
It just sounds like he's stereotypically "scene." That's how scene guys sometimes dress. Tight girlpants, dark shirts/hats/shoes and checkered shoes or belts. Plaid as well.
It is his style and he probably likes it a lot.
It's not a good idea to judge someone on how they dress alone. If you don't know he's gay, you might just want to ask if he's seeing someone. If he says yes, ask who.
Also, keep in mind, he might have several pairs of the same jeans. I had two pairs of the same jeans last year just because they were so comfortable and fit me so well.
Be his friend. That way you can find out if he's gay or get close enough to him you can ask him if he is gay.
Or you could just ask him out. You'd find out real soon if he was gay that way.
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I think fashion sense is absolutely no way to figure out if a guy is gay or not. Ask him straight up, or ask him out. Then you might find out for sure. Speculation on someone else's sexual orientation isn't only pointless, it's rather rude.
As far as his style goes, if you consider him a friend you might ask him if he thinks he has any fashion sense and/or kindly offer to help him out. If he isn’t gay, that would be a nice way for you two to spend time together, if he is, you might find in him an excellent friend.
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Looks to me that you dont positivly know that he is gay. Just assuming by the way he acts and dresses. My boyfriend wears stuff like that too. [Yes, dorky. But I love him. lol] And he is just a skater with unusual taste in clothes. And even if your guy is homo-sexual, tell him. Im sure it wont hurt just to put it out there. If he is your friend, he will respect you. Maybe you will luck out and him be BI? Hope I helped you :]
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