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I'm a very smart kid. Really good with advice. I play the piano, and paint. My father and mother are together. One of my family members has Manic Depression. So I can help you with depression problems, or family problems. If you think your fat then I know what you're going through. But I can help, and I would be glad too.

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E-mail: ernst_384@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Iowa
Age: 13
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okay I'm 14 and I have alot of stretch marks on my thighs and they are starting to get lighter as I age and everything but I'm still really worried that maybe if a guy sees them he will find it a huge turn off and then I dont know what. :[ I'm not really fat or skinny but I've had these marks since I was 12 and I'm really worried that a guy will think less of me physicaly because of them....would a guy be? My mom had alot of stretch marks when my dad met her and he had no problem but I'm still worried. Please help!

I have that exact same problem! I'm neither fat nor thin, but I still have them near my upper leg/hip/butt. Don't get discouraged. Nobody can see them. Hope I helped.

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My Boyfriend is really clingy sumtimes and my friends have told him to kinda back off a bit but he hasn't done it that much what do i tell him?
Thanx

You could say,"I wanna go a little slower" or something. Hope I helped.

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Alright lately i just have been crying and crying and im not really sure why. i havent been hanging out with friends and i dont even want to. i feel like i have no one to talk to or to trust and i dont even really want to talk to anyone about it. i hurt myself a few times but my mom and sister saw it and made me promise never to do it again. now my mom is making me go to the doctors and i really dont want to. i dont know what to expect and im scared. because i dont really know what to say beacuse there gonna ask my what happend and nothing really happend.. it just kinda started you know.. do you think i have depression? i dotn know im confused, frusterated and lonely and i just want to hear anyones opinions on what to do or expect.. thank you

Maybe you could have depression, but I think that you are probably just stressed out, or being emotional from growing up. Hope I helped.

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I'm 15/f 110 pounds and 5'3". I ride my bike 1-2 miles 3-5 days a week (to work) and sometimes 10 miles or less on Saturdays. I do sit-ups sometimes before I go to bed. But still I feel kinda fat. What's a simple way to lose a few pounds? Like an example of daily meals to eat and excercises to do?

I think you should not get overworked about your weight. Because you are not over weight. It's good to exeresize, but maybe not with your thinness. Hope I helped.

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How did Carmen Electra become famous?

Bay watch. :)

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I am a guy, 32 years, even though people say I look and act 25. On May 9 2006, I met this 21 year old girl when she came for a 10-day workshop in my film school from another university some 3 hours drive from my film school. She is in her 3rd year. She gave me the impression that she liked me, always hanging around me, and I started to give her my time. I really got to like her afterwards. She told me she had no boyfriend, as her previous boyfriend, who was a student in her school had graduated and left the town and wasn’t calling her frequently enough the way she wanted and they tended to drift apart. Time could not permit us to start sleeping together before she returned to her school. She told me she was not good with long distance relationship but we agreed to give it a try. We exchanged phone calls everyday, with me doing most of the calling, but then she beeped (flashed) me very often whenever she wanted me to call. About first week of June she stopped beeping (flashing) me like she used to, even though I continue to call her regularly. I wondered if she wasn’t as enthusiastic about our relationship like before. I’ve visited her once and she promised to visit me in my school but she doesn’t until I graduated from my film school last month and left the town. I once told her that it seems we are not as imitate as before and she says it is because she has doubts that I can handle a long distance relationship. When I promised to play my part right, she promised to play hers too. In the last 9 days, I have been putting up in a town some 45 minutes drive from her school doing some screenwriting and I visited her once. She keeps saying she would come visit me in return but keeps saying she is not sure when, until she told me today that she will not come for reasons best known to her. I still do all the calling, she still doesn’t beep (flash) me always claiming she is broke, even when she is from a rich family. However, whenever we chat she sounds as friendly as ever. I have not slept with her or even kiss her, although I am not eager to, because I truly love her. I wonder if all is well, or if I am wasting me time on her.

Well, I'm a girl, and I think somethings fishy about her. She should take time from her day to see you and talk with you. Maybe she feels uncomfortable around a man who is 11 years older than her, but she still needs to be loyal to you. I think you should have a long talk with her about how you think your relationship is going with her. Then ask her how she feels about your relationship together. Hope I helped.

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Could anyone please take a look at this cover letter for me and give me a few tips and hints or tell me how to polish it up? Thank you.

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July 17th, 2005
Store Manager
XXXXXX

Dear Sir / Madam,

I would like to apply for the position of a part-time sales associate at XXXXXX.

I admire the upbeat environment in your store and am sure that I will fit in nicely with your staff and the image XXXXXX portrays to
customers. I am sure that you will find that I will be a hardworking and passionate employee as I am very knowledgeable in fashion and
accessories and am always eager to make shopping an enjoyable experience for anyone who steps into the store.

Thank you for considering me as a potential member of your team. I look forward to hearing from you.

Yours Sincerely,

XXXXXX XXXX.
XXXXXXXXXXXXX@gmail.com
XXXX XXXXXXXXX XXXXX,
XXXXXXXXX, B.C.
XXX XXX
(604) XXX-XXXX

Enclosed: Resume

For the date you wrote 2005 it's 2006. Other than that it's great. Hope I helped.

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i dont have alot of money to go out n by new clothes n new jewely.im 13 n my mom doesnt give me money. does anyone have any fahsion tips for old things or makeing jewly?? Thanx

Go to garage sales and find cute stuff. Then get some jewelry cleaner(if you need to clean any silver). And combine it with a cute outfit. Hope I helped.

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How can I make my hair less frizzy? Like more smooth and shiny? Thanks!!

For a beauitiful shine I use Loreal Glass Shine. From Wal*Mart. It's cheap and it works. It's back by shampoos, and hair care products. Hope I helped.

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Hey everybody! I'm 14/f. Well, I have a fear of dogs. It's just that when they get close to me I'm so afraid and start to take off. Once when I was a young kid, my next-door neighbor's dog Kiki was chasing after me and I literally thought that it was going to kill me. I don't want to be afraid of dogs because I think they are the cutest things ever, especially puppies. Does anyone have any advice on how I can overcome my fear of dogs...I would really appreciate it! Thanks.

I have gotten bitten by 2 dogs. My whole finger is scarred permanently. I love dogs even though they can be aggresive at times. I was also chased by a rotweiler when I was 4 or 5. I also thought I was going to die! But I know that dogs can be very loyal, loving, sweet, smart, well-manered, and cuddly. They will only bite, or attack when they feel threattened, or when they are cornered so basically they won't bite you because you probably wouldn't/won't corner/threaten a dog/puppy. Hope I helped.

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SORRY ITS LONG i think im becoming anorexic because i never eat and well i eat but not alot.Yesterday i tryed to throwup on purpous but i couldt.Im scared for myself also iv been getting depressed latly and thinking about cutting i used to cut but i stoped because one of my ex friends told the school. I would never kill myself because i dont want to go to hell. After i cut myself i always feel so bad but i think i just feel that way because i dont want to get caught again.Boys and girls are always saying how hott i am but i dont think i am.I think im fat and ugly and i hate myself.It started around the time i started going out with my boyfriend.I cant brakeup with him because hes suacidel and i like him a real lot also he says i love you to me and i need to hear it.I need help! i need someone to talk to.DONT say my mom and dad because my mom has a deadly sickness and they have unuff stress and i dont realy trust any of my friends because i dont want them to tell like befor.Ohh ya i love to get hurt because i love the Sympathy and so i make when ever has happened worce. THANXS

Don't get discouraged about your weight. If people tell you that they think you are beautiful you need to belive it. Don't kill yourself, you have so much to live for. You can talk to a guidance counselor if you feel comfortable, or try re-thinking about how you can make yourself feel/look better (if you want to). Hope I helped.

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my boyfriend is a cousin ov mine.we have been together for one year and are mad about each other.just lately we have been arguing alot and he has started to get paranoid about us been seen together. im really scared of losing him. does he love me or not?

Do you live in Alabama or something??????? Why are you going out with your cousin????? I think you need more than advice. I think you need therapy.

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okay well, im 14 years old and my bf does foreplay, where he sucks my breasts. and i was reading a magazine somewhere and it said that one time a girl did the same thing, and she started producing milk because her body thought something needed it, because her boyfriend was sucking it. im so scared im going to start producing milk, please help!

Okay, well you and him shouldn't be doing that kind of stuff anyway, so if you do start producing milk I hope you will learn your lesson.

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im 13/f, how can i make some extra money for back to school shopping besides babysitting?

Mow the lawn. Clean the house(look for chande lying around also). This may sound odd, but if you drink alot of pop you can recycle the bottlesI've gotten like $10.00 before!(for a bagfull) Hope I helped.

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ok, my like best friend, has told me weird things ever since we were in like 5th or 6th grade. Like about God. & she told me yesterday, that god told her to like walk through a closet & she would go to heaven. & she thought she saw a white sparkly light. & then she thought yesterday, late at night, she saw a red lightt. & like she thought shes seen like jesus before & stuff.. so my question is, is she like pyscho? or is she really seeing this stuff? like, it was just weird. & like her mom, takes sleeping pills to fall asleep, her dad is like weird.. he takes pills for everything. he tells her that shes fat, when she probaly only weighs like 90 pounds & shes 13. & like he just puts alot of pressure on his kids..

do you think that has anything to do with it? like she always gets so worked up. & i dont really know what to say to her.

God can speak to you. He may not just speak, but he can send signs. Your friend could be lying, but you should still listen to her. She's your friend not a mental patient. Hope I helped.

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I like this guy named rudy.
And we used to be best friends in 3rd and 4th grade.
Now were not.
He now says that we never used to be friends.
I think he hates me now.
Hes popular. And im....in the middle.
Should I tell him and ask him why he is hurting my feelings by saying mean things and ignoring me?
Or should I just let him Trash talk about me?

Don't let him talk trash about you, but you cannot talk trash about him either. If you did nothing to deserve this kind of treatment you need to talk to him about it. You can go to a guidance counselor, too. Hope I helped.

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well my mom and my brother both smoke marijuana my brother is 22 and i was wondering how iligal is it is it unuff to go to jail and when your high how do you act im just a little scard

Marijuana is illegal no matter how old you are. Tell someone about this right away. Hope I helped.

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Plus+White 5 Minute Whitening


It is for whitening teeth and I was interested in trying. Does anyone know if it actually works?

Thanks! :)

No. Peroxide does. It's faster, better, and cheaper. Just don't swallow it. Hope I helped.

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im 13 and i dont know if this is normal or not you see my penis kinda leans to the right but i dont know if its normal or not and if it is wont a gurl think its wierd

I don't have any advice because i'm a girl heehee. I'm like the same age as you.

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I don't know what is wrong with me. I've been getting really nervous when certain people talk to me. When this happens, I start shaking and come very close to crying. A few nights ago I started laughing, crying, and screaming at the same time. I have an idea of why, but I can't seem to pinpoint an exact, rock-solid reason. Also, I sometimes find objects in my hands that I don't remember picking up or even seeing. I've been told by cloes friends of conversations that I can't remember happening, and e-mails I don't remember sending. Does anybody know what could be wrong?

My dad has Manic Depression, and he can be really weird at certain times. I don't know if you have suffer from those illnessess, but you might suffer from memory loss. Tell your mother no matter how scared you are. Hope I helped.

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