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What should I do?


Question Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 3:56 am

I like this guy named rudy.
And we used to be best friends in 3rd and 4th grade.
Now were not.
He now says that we never used to be friends.
I think he hates me now.
Hes popular. And im....in the middle.
Should I tell him and ask him why he is hurting my feelings by saying mean things and ignoring me?
Or should I just let him Trash talk about me?


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kick_me answered Sunday July 23 2006, 2:47 pm:
if he is gonna trash talk about him why would you even want to talk to him...trash ttalk worse about him tell people stuff that was probaly embarrasing for him and you guys were in the 4th or 3rd grade

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Keosha answered Sunday July 23 2006, 11:39 am:
Ask him 1 on 1 personally so for 1 he cant embarrass you and 2 he isnt showing off in front of his 'friends'.
If that doesnt work, be the bigger person and brish ya shoulders off...
Hope I helped!
~Keosha

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laycieee answered Sunday July 23 2006, 11:12 am:
I think you should tell him how you feel, it's worth a shot. If this guy's denying you two were ever friends then he's probably a jerk. So, it's up to you but I don't think you should just sit back and let him talk shit about you. Good luck :)

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DefinedEyes answered Sunday July 23 2006, 11:11 am:
Well things change a lot,
people change even more.
The sad thing is, he probably denys ever
being your friend because he thinks hes better than you now, which is horrible.
But, dont let him talk about you like this,
heres the hard part, act like you dont care, even though I know you do. If you keep fighting back, it feeds his desire to talk about you even more. Eventually he'll get bored with talking about you, so he wil stop.
Hang in there.

<3

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ernst_384 answered Sunday July 23 2006, 10:19 am:
Don't let him talk trash about you, but you cannot talk trash about him either. If you did nothing to deserve this kind of treatment you need to talk to him about it. You can go to a guidance counselor, too. Hope I helped.

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