Hey my name is becky and im here to help. if had alot of problems in my life and people have help me so i guess im returnig the favor. I like sports and i do good in shcool. i think i can pretty much answer w/e u thorw at me.!
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ok i need ur help on something my boyfriend asked me to marry him and im only 17 bout to be 18 an im a girl but i like him and all and im preg. with his baby i just dont know what to do because if i do my dad isn't going to want anything to do with me anymore and if i dont then my dad will still alow me to be in my family but my dad doesn't like him and i dont know why not he is a sweet heart and i love him with all of my heart and everytime i go out with someone my dad never likes them and i dont see why not because he hasn't even got to meet my boyfriend yet he has meet him once and that is to only say hi but please i dont know what to do can you please help me out a little i would really appriciate that
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All dads are liked that " I HAT THAT BOY" " daddy u never met him" "I DONT CARE" my dads like that but aprents are suposed to love their kids uncondionally no matter what they . This really is a tuff decision. if ur not reddy with ur bf tell him ur not maybe u shud postpone it . i hope it all works for u in the end. GL
*becky*
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ok christmas is coming up, and i wanna get all my christmas shopping done. ok, the thing is im broke. i borrowed 50 dollars from my sis, and i need to buy holiday gifts. what should i get for my parents, mom & dad, 2 sis's ages 10 & 12, and my best friend, she's 15 and i also have like 7 god guy friends, nothing too close, but their goodold buds. any idea what i could get them? thanks, ill give you a 5 for trying. thanks in advance!
p.s. i rate for effort! ;) (link)
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WEll i think for yuor mom get her somthin nice and smells good like a set of fancy candles or a perfume. now for your dad, does he golf? if he does maybe get him a new club or if he likes base ball maybe buy him a autograpghed ball or tickets t a sport. now for your 12 yr old sis shes now becoming a teen, so egt her maybe some make up or a new purse or some new clothes. for the 10 yr old maybe a neckl lace or stuffed animal. now for your friend make her something to remeber all of you good times like a scrap book with pictures or suviners like tickets of somthing. the guy friends: Britany spears and superbowl tickets and theyre happy---Just kidding how bout hmm a stuffed animal. or depends on things they like (if like music get a cd, sports- a ball, fasion-a tee shirt.) Well i hop i helped MERRY XMAS!
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ok first of all im not going to amifat.com or any website like that bcuz i dont trust them, i'd rather get advice from real people my age etc. so don't tell me to go to any website.
I've always been really skinny. People always think im anorexic and all my friends are like where do u put ur food? But i dont get my period every month probably because of it so i don't know how healthy my weight is. I'm about 5'6 and weigh about 103. Do YOU think thats healthy. Some of those crazy sites have told me it's not, and i wanna no what u think. thanx (link)
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I thkn its perfectly fine cus im about 5'3 and weigh about 90lbs and im 14. but im just fine i have a high motabolism and i exercise alot
im in lotsa diffent sports and i have a decient diet. in my opinion ur just light. but if u think its worse then it shud be try a doctar
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I want to gain weight. No matter how much I eat, my weight doesnt go up. By the way, I am a vegetarian. Please suggest, whether there is any medication/tonic avaialble to gain weight. (link)
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hmm well....... mostly all i can thing of is either eat meat or eat allot of junk such as cakes and candy and stuff that will make u gain wait hope this help hun
*Becky*
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ok so my x-best friends ruined my life for the past couple months n now they wanna be friends again.. do i say yes n get hurt again or hold a grudge?? or neither... HELP!! (link)
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Tell the that u forgive but dont forget, give them a second chance but make sure they no that if they do that again then u shud find new friends.
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Does anyone know any nice places to get Cartilidge earrings.. also, do you buy the cartilidge earrings by themselves. or do you buy a pack of 2 like i want small hoops but i duno where i can find em. thanks (link)
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i have a cartlidge so heres what i say ...... some times at walmart the have like 5 single earing in a pack of all diff shapes and colors, but what i do is get the regular packs of 2 so if i loose on i have na extra
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well see in my religion its a sin to pluck or wax eyebrows but the thing is everyone i no who are also muslims pluck/wax their eyebrows except my mom and sister.. im almost 14 years old and i think its my choice wheater i touch my eyebrows ... and tonight my dad is goin to get his hair cut and i want to go w. him to get my eyebrows done wut cud i say to my mom to get her to say okay?
tnxs..ill rate u high (link)
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hmmm well you could tell her thats ur growing up and u want to make your own decisions. ask her to fogive u for the sin but u want to do somthing for yourself on your own.it should be up to you
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I lost my cuzin and i tell my friends itz ok i hav to get over it i really don't get over cuz i rele miss her and i love her. Shuld i keep tellin my friends this?
Signed
Lost Cuzin (link)
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Friend-n.) One who supports, sympathizes with, or patronizes a group,
A friend is some one u can trust and u can tell them how u really feel theyll be there for you and sympathzize i hope ur helped
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How can you fade jeans? I need some way`s to do it, but not bleach, I`ve tried and it doesn`t work.
I`ve heard that cascade dishwasher suff work`s, anyone who`s heard about it know how to do it? Any help is appreciated !! (link)
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on a really really really sunny hot day leave them out side in the sun it work some thats all i can think of sorry.
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my bf and me go to diff skools and we see eachother mostly lyke ery other day or something but we havent seen eachother for a week...well hes at the mall with his frends...and the mall is about 6 blocks away from my house...and hes walking around with his friends and hes like @ this church thats 3 blocks away frmo my house..he knows where i live n stuff but he "cant cmoe see me bc his friends will only come if i hav friends for them" and none of my friends r home....so ther goin bak 2 the mall....it really hurts my feelings bc I ALWAYS go 2 his house hes been to my house TWICE and i go to his EVERYTIME...so he called n was like uhh idk ill call u later if something comes up n we happen to go by ur house again and iw as like watever have fun at the mall bye nd i hung up on him...im realllly mad at him.....wat do i do? hes gonna b online tonite i kno that for a fact n hes gonna b all sweet 2 me....and if he calls bak....do ii answer?? wat do i say? =\ (link)
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tell him to start pulling his own weight! if he wants u for a gf then hes gota make things equal like u switch off going to eachothers house and tell him that it wasnt right to have his friends controll weather he comes to see u or not. and thats not right that theyre using u for your friends. im not real sure what to say and if he does call back answer it and talk to him aboutthis.
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me and my bfs relationship is not very well right now...we jsut got into a small fight a week ago and made up but we havent seen eachother for a week...we always see eachother every other day....and its mostly his fault....idk...im really pissed....he is @ the mall right by my house right now....and he called from his older brothers cell and sed if i wanted 2 meet up there with him i said ya but i had no ride and i didnt wanna walk and *he coulda offered to come swing by my house n pick me up* and then he was like well my older bro is about to leave so i wont ahv a fone but my friend is comin so ill call u back frmo his phone n see wat he wants to do (like if they wer just gonna come over) and he sed hed call me bak...and HE HASNT its been over an hour....HE ALWAYS DOES THIS....whenever we make plans THEY NEVER HAPPEN....how can i talk to hmi bout this i dont wanna break up with him i really love hmi (we been together for 11 months)...but lately hes been pissin me off....wat do i say??=[ (link)
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grr thats annoying isnt it? next time u shud make the plans from start to finish u arange the rides and calls and places so he cant screw it up. think about the things he likes such as if he likes rock music, suggest a locol rock show or if he likes sports go to a AAA team base ball game or skating. or just somthing as plain as a movie but if u dont wanna break up with him but ur getting mad.....become a threat. make him feel like hes letting u down make him feel guilty like hes gunna lose u and that will hit him like a ton of bricks that he should try to get with you more. i hope i helped u
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my friend ( i just found out ) hasnt eaten in 3 days....we think she is trying 2 become anerexic...even though she is really skinny....she said she cuts herself 2...me and my friend malerie dont no wat we can do 2 help her....i offer her food but she doesnt take it....and she always seems depressed (link)
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.....well maybe u shud tell a guidance counselor or a trusted adult but maybe u shud find out what shes so depressed about, like maybe its a home probalem or a guy issue maybe one day u shud sit down with her and try and figure out how to help her.
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i went shoppin with my friend the other day and we kept running into my dad there and everytime my dad would ask me a question shed answer for me. well a little later my dad got rly annoyed and raised his voice at her and told her off for doing that. i got a little pissed because he had a point but i didnt like the way he was talking to her. so i told him to not yell at her because shes not his kid and he took her home just because i said that. then later he told me how my friend is a liar and she bossed me around and she takes advantage of me and all this shit. i kind of agreed with him on some parts but some of the other things she said was totally out of line. now i dont know what to beleive because my dad got me all confused. is it fair what he said and am i being bossed around? ill rate high because this is so long. thnx (link)
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well he may think hes doing whats right for u but these are your friends not his but if u think she does boss u around try and tell her to lay off a bit...also talk to ur dad and tell him that she doesnt do that stuff and if he could please not talk to your friends in that manner.i hope this was help ful to you.
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I have a friend and she dosent tell anybody but i found out..i think she was raped or abused or sumthin she is 13 and her boyfriend is 15 and i is always making her wear hoe stuff like if she wears long pants i rolld thumb up for her to be like short shorts then feels on her and (grabs her front) and back....and the other day she must have left my camra on at her house and when i got it it showed him strapping her to the bed and like you no and she liked it....yuk but im really worried about her..she is 13 he is 15 or 16 and this is like everyday...and she cant be with no one.....and like everyday she dresses bad and we were best friends in elementry and i no (link)
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oooo.... thats not good....well all i can say is talk to her tell her the things that are bothering u and sort them out... let her know that this guy isnt rihgt for her if that dont work try talking to her parents of ur parents or a trusted adult...if her probalem gets worse police may be involved..... she could do one wrong mistake and throw her hole life away..... its scary i know....but its true and if u dont try and work this out u and her may regret this in the long run.
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Ok....I'm a single girl, 16 yrs old, Junior in high school. And there is a guy in my school, who is a grade ahead of me who had expressed that he likes me and "thinks im hot" and yadda yadda yadda. So anyway, ever since hes confronted me about it I've been starting to notice how cute he is and that i like him, He is always flirting with me but he is a very flirtacious type, and not just with me but with other girls. He calls me every now and then to hang out but I always have plans!!! And im afraid hes never going to call me again b/c I'm always busy, eventhough he still talks/flirts with me. If he doesnt make the move soon enough, I will. But i dont wanna come off in a strong way, or have him say no. I just wanna ask him to go out somewhere, liek the mall or movies. He flirts with so many other girls and everyone tels me "hes a dick dont go with him" but i really like him,. He smokes weed, which im against, but Ive had a boyfriend before that smoked weed so i tolerate it, he has a great personality and he is my kind of good-looking guy. What should i do? (link)
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well try and find a day when u know u wont be busy then call him and ask if he would like to go to the mall and if u do go then maybe he'll get to know u more and like you more and wont flirt with other girls. ignore those other girls maybe thier jelous cus he likes you not them.and if he smokes weeed and u are against it just tell him "i wont make you quit but i ask that you dont do it around me." he should understand.
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PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ THIS...IM SURE ALL YOU GIRLS HAVE GONE THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS! okay here's the thing...there's this boy...let's say..."Dylan". well me and dylan go to school together and just last year i began talking to some of his friends just sayin how i thought he was cute and all. so at the end of last year that got around to him but we barely said hi. then over the summer we talked alot and he even began calling me cute names. we expressed to eachother how much we liked eachother and everything then rigt before the summer was over he ended up telling me he wasnt ready for a girlfriend. i mean i was okay with that i just felt like he had led me on for so long. well now we're over that but i hear from more of his friends that he likes me again and im sure he can tell that i never quit liking him. my question is how do i get him to finally confess that he likes me if he still does without asking him the question flat out? thanks!! (link)
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hmmm.... toughie.... try getting one of your friends to ask one of his friends if he likes u taht way u wont be the one asking and ull still find out. try and get people to find out for u...
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Hi! I'm 14/f and I kind of like this guy friend of mine. We'll call him Dave. Anyway, as I said, I kind of like him...that way. And he recently told me that he likes me, too...that way. Except I'm kind of afraid of him asking me out because it would be my first real boyfriend, and I don't know what I would do with a boyfriend! It would be SO awkward going on a date to dinner or something with Dave, and I'm not really big on huge public displays of affection. And I think he has a few friends who don't really like me all that much. Any advice?? (I rate!) (link)
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hmm i felt that way when i qwent out w/ my 1st real bf..... u say u cant imagin going out to dinner with him.....then dont. maybe to skating or go to a movie. personally i dont like going to dinner much either, u say u also dont know what u wud do with one.... well u could talk to him on the phone and exchange gifts (x mas is commin soon *wink*) and go places with him... u dont have to get real serious to where u have to go to his house or go to dinner, just do what u think your ready for. oh yea ps. it dont matter what his friends think..... if he likes u thats all that counts.
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ok im a 15 year old dude and my gf goes to a dif skool and it really sux i know most of u think thats gay but itz all good.. but i don't get to see her a whole lot i don't get my car for three months. do u know how i can strengthen my relationship for these next three months b4 i can see her a whole lot more? (link)
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Well try and play it cool.....trya and meet her at places like the movies or a resturant every once in awhile or call her and email her alot ...... heck send her flowers... with relation ships were u dont see each other alot .... the relationship starts to break apart so do what ever u can to let her know u sttill love and care about her.
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how can you tell when a guy likes u? ill rate (link)
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Hey.... some times it can confuse u when trying to figure that out, but try and make a trap for him to fall into..... like drop somthing in the hall and see if he helps you.....or try and get your friends to find out or try and find out from his friends........ if that doesnt work....let me knw ill see if i can give u more.
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