Ask dntletitgo2urhead!

Advice Column | Ask a Question | View Feedback |

About dntletitgo2urhead



Established in 2005, and five years later I still absolutely love giving advice to anyone and everyone. I'm an eighteen-year-old female living in New York state who is an aspiring web designer. Some questions are easier for me to answer than others, but I try to answer each question that catches my eye thoroughly and honestly based on the experiences of myself and people I know. I would be thrilled to answer any question that enters my inbox, so don't hesitate to ask. Thanks for reading.

Ask Me For Advice
View Feedback
Make Favorite Columnist

Gender: Female
Location: NY
Age: 18
Member Since: September 1, 2005
Answers: 95
Last Update: July 5, 2011
Visitors: 10400

Main Categories:
Love Life
Internet & Web Design
Random Weirdos
View All

Favorite Columnists
iwantthetruth
ericaisepicx
bigdogdaddy
Mercy_x_Me
soccer_crazii
Karen

Advicenators.com



19/F. This is the third time this week I'm crying myself to sleep :/

If it weren't for work or school...I'd have nothing to do! I just feel really sad. I have some friends and they're all nice people, but none of them "get me". I just don't feel a connection with any of them.

I'm a friendly person and I'm not socially awkward (promise). However, I'm not a super social person. I'd much rather hang around with a few people I already know then continuously meet random people. What can I do to change my situation?

I am in the same situation as you. 18 female and all I do is work and school. I have a few friends but I know what you mean when you say that you don't connect with them. I don't think that it's your fault. I don't know about you, but I live a pretty sheltered life and I've been stuck with the same class since Kindergarten, and I feel like they are all the same. But I want to tell you that there ARE people in the world that are different. I recently met some; so I KNOW that you will. There's nothing wrong with not being a super social person. I think you are just looking for long lasting meaningful friendships with people that you have a connection with, and how could you be expected to want anything less? That's what friendship is all about. Don't stress about it because true friends will come with time, and the best friends are the ones that aren't forced; they just pop up out of nowhere. I suggest that you try and talk to people that share your interests - like maybe your college major. I definitely don't think that this is your fault though. Good luck and just don't forget that there are other people like you !:)

[view]


i want to get a blackberry, but i dont want the data plan. i just want to call and text. is is true that i dont have to have the data plan for it to work?

I found myself asking the same question before I bought my blackberry. There are a lot of mixed answers to this question - but I will tell you from my own experience that a data plan is not needed unless you purchase the blackberry from your carrier because your carrier (mine is t-mobile) will "require" you to purchase the data plan upon checking out.

I have a t-mobile blackberry curve 8520 and I don't have a data plan, so yes, it is true that you don't need the data plan to talk and text.
Texting and talking are all that I need too, and they both work just fine without the data plan; I love the blackberry regardless.

I purchased my phone from a craigslist ad. Since I have t-mobile, all I had to do was put my sim card into the blackberry that I bought, and texting and talking were the same as they would be with any other phone. I just can't access the internet or wifi. For t-mobile and at&t you can just put your sim card into the phone and it will work the same way as any other phone would with your plan. I can't speak for any other carriers, though because t-mobile and AT&T are the only carriers I know of that use sim cards.



However, blackberrys require a data plan for picture messaging, so even though I have unlimited picture messaging (comes with my unlimited texting) I am not able to send or receive pictures on my phone unless I purchase data.

Blackberrys are great phones for messaging and talking. I highly recommend buying one, even without the data plan. Data plans are very overpriced and to me are unnecessary - so I choose to use my phone without one.

Just make sure you buy your phone online instead of from your carrier, because like I said the CARRIER requires you to have a data plan.

[view]


I've been friends with this guy for 3 years and now that I have a boyfriend he's jealous. The thing is before i had a boyfriend we really liked eachother. People mistaken us for a couple because we hang out a lot. I had the guts to ask him out but then he rejected me. Now we can't be friends because he doesn't want to be friends anymore. He's hurt me emotionally and he can tell but he doesn't stop. Now he's telling me and his friends that I'm the one hurting him emotionally and that i was selfish. The guy I'm with is amazing. He respects me and he's very sweet. He doesn't call me names. The other one, my friend, always calls me names and say mean things to me. Now that we aren't friends anymore, i feel more like i'm not myself. Like I'm missing something huge. He's so mean and i told myself that i deserve better than to be called mean names so why do I feel so empty without my friend?

I think your "friend" needs a reality check. He's mad at you for leaving him for another guy? Well, he had his chance with you, and he decided not to take it, so it's his loss. It's not your fault that he didn't agree to go out with you; you gave him the opportunity, so he should quit the name-calling - because from what you wrote, you've done nothing to deserve that. How can he expect you to just sit around and be friends with him forever when you could be spending time with a guy that respects you and wants to show you that he's interested in you? Like I said, you gave him his chance to date you, and he didn't want to. So I think you're doing the right thing by letting your friend go. If he doesn't want to be friends with you, then that's not your problem because why should you have to settle for a one-sided friendship? You have the right idea when you say that you deserve better.

As far as - why do you feel different - well, it makes sense that you feel empty without him; this guy obviously was a big part of your life for the past three years. But please remember that you're doing the right thing by letting him go because no one deserves to be treated the way he treated you after you got a boyfriend.

(This situation happened to me before, I was friends with this guy...we were inseparable for all of last summer...everyone thought we liked each other, but he never asked me out even though he told me months later that he was going to but HE DIDNT, so...I started dating one of his friends (who was so much more respectful and sweeter all around) and he's still my boyfriend to this day...I am still acquainted with the other guy but like I said, as soon as i got a boyfriend he freaked out just like your friend did...they should have just dated us then if that's what they wanted...we made ourselves available to them but if they dont take the chance then they cant expect us to sit around with them forever!! thats not how it works! )

Good luck...also sorry for bringing my own situation into this!

[view]



fair warning this is sorta long. sorry, but please please read it. i'm desperate. i rewrote it zillions of times to make it a bearable length to read. also i will leave out some details to remain totally anonymous.

Here's the background on the situation. I'm 17 and a girl, my best friend, also a girl, just turned 20. we've only known each other for about two years and until last week we never lived closer than 2 lay-overs and 5 hours in a plane away from each other. the timing that we met was perfect because we needed each other in that moment. we became best friends in no time, we told each other we loved each other and were sisters till the end.

we had always been cuddly and slept in the same bed snuggled up with each other, but the next summer things got a little to close sometimes. another long story short, we ended up making out a few times. the first time was really "intense" nothing too much (thank goodness) just kissing and such. we were kissy all night like on the cheeks and forehead any pretty much everywhere except the mouth area. then she sorta crossed the line. i was shocked and freaked out. she asked if thats what i wanted and i couldn't get words to come out. i just shrugged and the makeout sesh continued for a while. another time it happened, i think it might have been my fault, but it got stopped thankfully, and another time just cutesy little pecks,mostly her, and still inappropriate for friends, but less so than the first time.

about 6 months later we were finally able...er i was finally able to discuss it like a normal human being. some bad stuff happened to me when i was younger, so sexual things even just kissing and relationship discussions make me a little uncomfortable. we found out at the time we sort of wanted to be more than friends but neither had the guts to admit it.

now go forward again about 7 months.

unfortunately i think i'm still hung up on the kissing, and wanting to be more than friends thing. i love her a lot, but i never want to lose her. and now she has a boyfriend so i'd feel like a selfish ass to bring it up. so here i sit again at 3:30am stressing out about this. i know that being more than friends isn't something i want in the long run. i want to marry a man and have kids and be a happy family. and i want my friend to be like their aunt and i want her and her husbands kids to be friends with me and my husbands kids, but right now i think i want to be "with" her. sometimes in my right mind i know that that's not possible and that it's not really what i want, but other times it eats me alive.

if you read this far, thank you so so so much. this has been killing me for almost a year now. here are my "simple" questions. what on earth do i do? do i tell her how i feel? or do i be a good friend and stuff those feelings down and never tell her how crazy she makes me when she talks about how in love she is with this new boyfriend and how they plan on getting married and all this other stuff? all these late nights in tears are wearing me down, i'm open to any advice anyone has.

I don't think you should bottle this up anymore than you already have. You do need to talk to her, and you do need to reveal your feelings for her, but it should be as more of a confession than an ultimatum. I know you don't want to ruin her relationship with her boyfriend, and it isn't right for you to ask her to jeopardize her new relationship - So don't make her choose between a relationship with you and her relationship with her boyfriend. Just tell her how you feel in order to get it off your chest, and then you need to move on, because she has moved on and found someone else. I know that your relationship with her was obviously special, and that you feel like you will never find anyone else in the whole world that compares...but you will. (This is hard for me to say to you, because I am going through a similar situation where I met someone that in my mind was perfect for me, and I feel like no one else in my life can compare to him, and I don't want to move on from him...but I have to in order to stay sane, since he has moved on from me. I had the same problem as you - up until 4 in the morning, not being able to sleep or eat because of it.) I think you need to just put things in perspective - be grateful for the past, but realize that it IS the past now, and since your friend has made it clear that she wants to be with her boyfriend and wants to keep your relationship on a friend level, this is how you should think of it too. It will be difficult for you, since you have been desiring more of her for over a year, but since she doesn't want to be with you, (as it stands now) you have to move on. Tell her how you feel, and then move on. If she suddenly drops everything with her boyfriend after you tell her about your feelings for her and wants to be with you, then that's her decision. But all you can do right now is admit your feelings, and if she stays with her boyfriend, then you have to move on.
Sit her down and tell her like it is.
Good luck

[view]


I am starting high school next week and I'm really really nervous. I haven't gotten to talk to many of my friends over the summer and I guess I'm afraid they've changed a lot. I want to fit in and I'm afraid I won't. Is high school really hard? Do you get a lot of homework? Will my friends still be my friends? Should I dress differently than last year? I don't know what to think of this new school...please tell me everything you kno!

One tip I have for you is to get involved in a lot of stuff in the beginning of your freshman year, because it's a great way to meet people. Even if you're not really good at whatever it is you join, you will get better if you stick with it. It's harder feel like you're really part of the group if you join after freshman year because everyone already knows each other, so I definitely recommend trying out for sports or joining some clubs as a freshman. Don't worry about freshman year, because the school understands that it's a transition and they try to make it easy for the incoming students. You don't have to dress a certain way; eventually you will realize that it's best to just wear the clothes that you like and that you feel good in. And as far as your friends, there is a lot of change that happens from eighth to ninth grade, but as long as you make an effort to catch up with your friends from middle school, you will probably continue to be friends with them until you graduate. But, you will grow apart from some and make new friends, too. Enjoy every moment of high school because it goes by really, really fast!!!

[view]



I'm a 19 year old female, and I should be over this sort of thing. I'm very shy, and super sensitive about everything that happens to me. I probably read too much into things like little comments, but I can't help it. I instantly think that everyone hates me (even though I know they have no reason to). I can't take criticism. When I don't see my boyfriend for a day or 2 or if he doesn't call me, I feel sad and I cry because I feel like he doesn't love me since he hasn't called. If hes talking to someone else I feel like hes talking and whispering something about me, then I get sad and ignore him. If he yells at me because he says I want too much attention. I will cry, If he talks to me about it later then Im happy. I don't want him to leave me. There's been times when I think hes ignoring me because I just want to spend time with him. I have tendencies to become jealous very, very quickly; I get cry over everything; I push away my friend because I over react to everything. I get jealous when he talks to other people and ignores me. I dint want him all to myself, but I want him to spend more time with me. I get emotional over the most ridiculous things. I have now hurt my relationship with him, and I am at a loss for what to do. I need help. I get sad when he looks at other women or when I see one from his job, because I think he might like them. I just keep thinking he might wanna be with them, because they are pretty and have acne and scars. I don't bother him 24/7 and Im not always knocking on his door.
I dont get mad about things and throw tanturms, Im just mostly sad.
Then there are examples like today at the store, it was packed to the brim with people and screaming kids. It was all I could do to get out of there without losing it completely, and when I was at the register I asked the cashier if I could have 20 quarters for my 5 dollar bill and she refused saying that only place I can do that is to go to a casino. As a result, as soon as I got in my car I burst into tears. I don't even know why! She wouldn't give me quarters, big deal?
AM I really emotionally immature?

I am 18 female, and I can relate to a lot of the things you described. I am also very sensitive, have a tendency to cry a lot, and overreact to things more than I should. I also often take things for more than they're worth, and over-analyze what people say and do, just like you said you do. I don't think you are immature, I just think that you are a very emotionally-driven person. I have the same problem as you, so I haven't exactly figured out a fool-proof way to correct my overactive emotions, but all I can say is that we should probably just give ourselves a break and just chill out. Not everyone can understand our sensitivity, and we have to ease up on it or else the people we're close to may start pushing us away. Our emotions are not necessarily a bad thing, though. I think that it makes us a lot deeper than most people, and I would rather be emotionally overactive than shallow. As far as your boyfriend calling you emotionally immature, I think that a lot of it has to do with a lack of confidence. Be confident in your relationship with your boyfriend. If you really don't trust him, then it's not a good relationship for you because trust and honesty are key points of any relationship. But if there's no proof that he's done anything relationship-threatening, just give him the benefit of the doubt and find something to keep yourself busy instead of worrying about what he's up to every moment. The confidence theory goes for your friendships, too. And yourself. I have a hard time taking criticism too, because I always take it personally. But just remember that there's nothing wrong with you, and believe that you are a good person and you will be able to overcome your emotions.

[view]


I am a little confused with Degrassi. If you watch it, can you please explain to me what "The Boiling Point" is. Is it all the new episodes that are coming out? and I just finished what a girl wants, part 1 and my dvr cut me off. I saw Fiona putting makeup on her scratch from her boyfriend, what happened after that? Thanks!

My dvr cut it off too :( lol, but anyways, Fiona put makeup on to enhance the bruise and then posted it on twitter, and her boyfriend/a bunch of people in their school saw it and Bobby flipped out and showed the tweet to Declan at school. Bobby told Declan that Fiona was full of lies and that she didn't really have a bruise like that, and then Bobby stormed off while Fiona was walking up to them. Basically now Declan believed Bobby over his sister because when she walked up to them she barely had a bruise on her face.

Later in the episode though, Fiona got Declan to believe that Bobby really hurt did her when she showed him her bruised up thigh from when Bobby pushed her down the stairs.

[view]


alright so i like this guy james and were in a couple classes together and during our math class like ill look over at him and he'll be looking at me and he looks away really fast and we always just end up staring at each other and looking away haha, but then in another class like i walked into the room and his friend gordan tapped his shoulder and looked at me and james hit him and looked at me and then looked away.. weve talked a couple times but i dont know how to approach him and ask if he likes me? my friends say it seems like it but i dont know.. i have his s/n and i was thinking of just IMing him but we dont talk so i dont know what to say? do you think he might like me? what should i say to him or how should i find out if he does besides just asking because im kinda shy around guys i like..

It does seem like he likes you. He probably feels the exact way you do; you feel shy and afraid of what he's going to say or do if you approach him. So you should approach him! Just make small talk with him and you'll be fine. Since he's in your math class maybe you can talk to him when you walk out of the class if you don't sit near him. Find excuses to say something simple to him, it doesn't have to be anything special, just talk for the sake of it. :)Pretend he's one of your friends for a second if you get stuck and feel uncomfortable or shy. I/ming him is a good idea too. Good luck

[view]


i'm about to finish my schoolyear as an 8th grader, and we have this powerpoint slideshow with all of the 8th graders' baby pictures. i volunteered, along with my other friends, to do the powerpoint. and i was thinking of putting a slogan at the end of the slideshow. something catchy that has "class of '07" and "class of '11". anything catchy would be great.

thanks!

for yearbook we did a james bond theme, "007". im not sure if that was what you were looking for but hey maybe it would work :]
hope i could help...

[view]


So today was my first day of sophmore year and I woke up with a gigantic white head. Yesterday I kinda squeezed it, so hopefully I thought there would be no ugly white center. Sadly today there it was. Larger, reder and more noticeable ever. And I saw the boy i liked and waved, but I feel like people are only staring at my nose! How can I possibly get the redness to go down so its not noticable.

First of all, congrats for waving at your crush with confidence, even though youre feeling a little insecure about your face. I assure you, EVERYONE's had/going to get/gotten zits. EVERYONE. And usually people don't even notice them, so don't worry. Here's the deal. Coming from a girl who *once* suffered with acne, here's my tips for getting rid of zits, and preventing new ones:


-DO NOT pick at it! It will make your white head come back in a matter of hours, and it hurts really bad, too.

-DO NOT use harsh products such as EXFOLIATORS (spelling?) and SCRUBS. Use an Oil-Free Acne wash, such as Neutragina, (sp.?) & follow the instructions on the wash. I personally have never used them, but I have heard that OXY PADS have worked good for my friends.

-SCRUBBING does NOT help. It will make your face WORSE.

-Despite what some will tell you, you can't clear up a zit in a day. Especially if you have a bunch of acne, you won't see results from the product you use TODAY until 3 weeks from now. Yes, it sucks, but we all go through this. One zit may be different. The best thing you can do is to simply keep your face clean.


-Wash your face with simply washcloth and water as many times as you wish, at least twice daily. You can also try an acne wash if you have a lot of acne, but for a one pimple, a wet washcloth will get rid of the dirt.

-BE CONSISTENT. This was the biggest problem I had when I had acne -- I would use a product for a while, and then quit when my face cleared up. Don't do this! Especially if you have a lot of acne that keeps coming back, it is important to keep using the same product consistently to prevent acne from coming back and getting rid of your current zits. Remember, it takes at least 3 weeks to see results.

Good luck with your pimple & crush =]

♥ Mandyyy

[view]


at my sprint store (i have sprint) they also sell virgin mobil phones and theres one virgin mobile phone i want but cause they are two different plans do you think i could get it.. because they do sell them at the sprint store and when i went on some website it said- "virgin mobile/sprint" as the header of the phone i wanted.

I really dont recommend getting virgin mobile because it is 25 cents a minute and you have to spend 20 dollars every 3 months and yeah. lol

[view]


hey
i was wondering where you can buy soffee shorts at? (for girls or women) because i go to the mall and almost everyone is wearing them with the top part of the shorts flipped back so you can see Soffee on the tags.. thanks !

I've seen them at Kohl's!just a little thing i wanted to say: you dont have to wear what everybody else is wearing! ;] be yourself!!

[view]


I have $300 dollars to shop with and out of these stores, I need the best 5 for me and my budget. If it helps Im 13, black, 5'5, my chest is 36C, medium waistline, thick hips. Abercrombie & Fitch, Aéropostale,American Eagle Outfitters,Ann Taylor, Arden B., bebe, Express, Forever 21, Gap, GUESS, H&M, Limited, PacSun, Victoria's Secret,Hecht's/Macy's,JCPenney,Sears, and Xcape.

It all depends on your personal style and how much you are willing to spend on a single item. My style is sort of shown through these 5 stores: 1. Aeropostale, 2. Abercrombie & Fitch, 3. Forever 21, 4. Victoria's Secret, and 5. American Eagle; so I guess that's my top 5, and I'll explain my opinion of each store. [this answer is probably going to be very long..sorry.] even though i think you've probably gotten the point by now since so many people have answered your question, i'll try anyways. [By the way, I ALMOST always buy my clothes on sale just to inform you. I'm a sale person. =)]

1. Aeropostale -> One of my favorite stores! My entire wardrobe is mostly from here because the sales are outrageous but in the buyers favor! I love their jeans too, and I've bought some for like $6 before. They have cute tops, polo's, socks, sleepwear, underwear, & jewelry. I can never go in this store without buying something and I highly recommend it. You can always get like 7 things for...idk like $50. The only negative I have about this store is that they change the style of the store every time they restock. I've noticed that they have seemed to copy some of the fashions from A&F and some other stores but maybe it's just me! I am still loyal to Aero though, I LOVE it! =)
---
Prices for Aeropostale -> Usually they have a huge sale rack, so you can find things on there for about $2-$20. Their tees are 2 for $20. Hoodies usually $15. Polos are like $10 i think. Jewelry is in a big range of prices but is almost always buy one get one free. Jeans are maybe $30 and up when they're not on sale.

2. Abercrombie & Fitch -> I'm into the whole preppy look, not to stereotype myself, but I still absolutley adore Abercrombie. Their clothes tend to be a bit on the pricey side for my taste, but I can't help but splurge on their cute things. They usually have some bargains..and I love layering, so I buy a lot of tops from here. Jeans are a bit too expensive for me..I've never bought any from Abercrombie & Fitch. Abercrombie Kids also has cute jewelry and bags, but their clothes are usually too small for anyone over 13 [unless they are really teeny.] They have things on sale a lot too. My negative opinion on this store is that they have some low-quality stuff and a bit of overpriced things. I would only buy a majority of their stuff if it was on sale.
---
Prices for Abercrombie & Fitch -> Jeans are the most expensive item here i guess...regular price is around $120+ but usually on sale for like $89. They look very cute and hug curves, so buy them IF you want to blow half your money! Tops and things like that are usually $20+ regular price and about $9 when on sale. Hoodies are around $50. I LOVE their perfume and would totally wear it... but I don't think I would blow $50 on it.

3. Forever 21 -> Overall a great bargain store with adorable clothes. You will find a ton of accessories in this store, mostly vintage-looking stuff: beads, bangles, etc. They also have way-cute sunglasses for like $5. Belts are also very cute and unique. If you're looking for the latest vintage look and don't want to pay too much for it, Forever 21 is the place to go. The only problems with this store is that some of their things look cheap, and the other thing is that some of the stuff is low-quality. I've had a problem with their things because my tops that I bought from there got holes in them easily.
---
Prices for Forever 21 -> CHEAP, CHEAP, CHEAP! Hardly anything goes over $10 in this store. Like i said before their high quality sunglasses are $4.99 when they would be at least $15 at any other store. Tops are about $8-$15. They have great dresses for $12 and up.

4. Victoria`s Secret --> I love the Pink line, it's adorable! Their sweats are great for lounging and are really cute at the same time. I have sweatpants and a hoodie from Victoria's Secret and it's really high quality stuff at an okay price. Their undergarments are great too. The downside to this store is that it's kinda pricey..but the high quality and cuteness is worth it most of the time.
Prices for Victoria`s Secret --> Kind of expensive if you ask me. You can find a lot of coupons in the mail and other places to get free things like cotton panties and stuffed animals! ;] Very cute!

5. American Eagle Outfitters --> The best bathing suits by far. They're probably out of them by now though. I have a bunch of things from AE and have always been happy with it. I like their accessories; their bags and wallets are my faves. There's usually a lot on their sale rack too; for a decent amount of money you can find tops, jeans, capris and lots of cute stuff. I also love the layering possibilities of all their clothes since I love layer tanktops under tees and then pop on a zip up hoodie, all of which you can find in this store. I also highly recommend AE Jeans because they have a great fit and aren't too much money when on sale. The problem I have with AE is that there's not too much that goes on sale. I mean, there's some things, but not very much really does, and since only certain items go on sale, you can usually tell who bought it on sale and who paid full price.
Prices for American Eagle --> You can always find something cute in this store, but you have to dig hard to find something that's cute and doesn't cost you your life savings. Your best bet is to scan the sale racks often, but you also will want to buy some things at regular price because they go out of stock fast. T-shirts you can find here for as much as $30 or for as little as $9 when on sale. Hoodies are almost always full price which is usually around $40-$60. Jeans go on sale but it's hard to find the perfect size, so I would recommend paying full for jeans which is, again, $40-$60. AE has very cute buys and if you really want things from here you'll probably have to pay full price for it.

Well i hope this HUGEEE piece of advice could help you at least a little bit. Good luck and have fun doing my favorite thing: SHOPPING ;]

♥ray

[view]


im 14/f.. would it be wierd if i went into abercrombie kids? because i looked at their stuff on the site and it looked like what teenagers would wear? do any of you guys shop at abercrombie kids? and also if a medium is in abercrombie, what would be the size for abercrombie kids? thanks

it wouldn't be weird to go in there at all. i'm 14/f as well and i have a couple things from there. i even know some (teeny-tiny) 14-year-olds who shop at abercrombie kids, like, every day. mostly the younger kids who like abercrombie & fitch's clothes who can't fit in it shop at abercrombie. unfortunatley you most likely won't fit into most of the clothes if you are a size 3 in jeans. however, abercrombie has very cute bags and other accessories that are obviously one-size-fits-all. but, you can probably fit into some of the larger clothes at abercrombie. i would suggest going into the store and trying things instead of buying them online before you even go into the store. good luck! hope i could help you! =]

♥ray

[view]


i really like this guy at my summer day camp. we're both counselors but i'm 14 and he's 15. he's so cute. i knew him from last year because my best friend was going out with his best friend..our best friends met at this camp that i'm going to now. well i don't think he really likes me very much i mean i'm kinda flatchested compared to the other girls at camp i guess.. and im kinda boring i guess..plus he was totally checking out my friend. ive talked to him tons of times but i'm pretty sure he only thinks of me as a friend. my friend (who he was checkin out) doesnt like him and she doesnt know that i like him although it's kind of obvious that i do..at least i think so. well i'm not really sure what my question is but yeah theres my story!! ok well if anyone has any advice for what i should do to get the guy (or maybe i shouldnt even try...i mean i'll only see him at camp, well i guess...i mean he lives like a half hour away and i obviously cant drive and my parents arent going to jump up to take me to a guys house or invite him to my house! ;] but then again im going to be at this camp for the rest of the weekdays in the summer and that would be a great oppourtunity to hang out with him.) okay thankss!

♥ Laurennn ;]

maybe once he finds out that the friend of yours that he likes isnt interested, he will notice you a little more and even start to like you as more than a friend. i think you should maybe flirt with him a little bit so that he knows you like him. since your friend made it clear that she doesnt like him, that means hes fair game. so go ahead and chat him up, become friends, get his number or screenname, and ask him out! since its day camp you can then chat him up while youre at camp, and then on weekends or after camp on the days you go. well whatever you do, good luck! hope this helped! =]

♥ ray

[view]


Is there a way to make your period come faster?

No, it just comes on its own. Why would you want to make it come faster?! For me it wasn't that much of a big deal it just came one day and that was that. I didn't get cramps or anything, but my friends all complain of cramps and things like stomach aches so I don't know why you'd want to have those things! =]

[view]


Hey there. Im a 14/f that likes to play the guitar. My brother has an electric and 2 accoustics. One of his accoustics is a really good one that cost over a grand, i use his electric. the electric isnt such a good brand, so i want to get my own. he knows people at the shop so ill get discounts but anybody have a good idea of a good guitar? I know ibanez, fender, gibson..are all good. Any other good ones?

I'd definetley get a Fender or a Gibson. I have a Fender Squier...and I love it. Go to the shop and ask the employees about guitars, that's what the people that work there are there for. lol.

[view]


Hey people :)

Okeey, here's the deal..
I'm a MAJOR procrastinator! The biggest ever!
All year, since last summer, I've done absoloutly nothing in French, thinking "I always pass anyway"..yeah, this year - THAT DIDN'T WORK FOR ME! Not at all! I'm so deep in, that if I don't pass the french test tomorrow, they won't let me graduate! Which basically is the same thing as saying my father will kill me.
So, I bet you're thinking "we're here to give advice, not to listen to your whining and b*tching" BUT, here's where I need your help, there's appearently no way to practise for the test, because we don't know what it's gonna be about, but my teacher told me that it was basically gonna be a letter written in french, that we'll have to reply to. And as long as I get 10 sentences right (or atleast 6) she'll let me pass. So my question is: how do you put together a sentence in french? Like, just the basics, what comes after a verb, where does the adjective go..the noun, and so on? Or maybe let's say the letter is from a foreign student, and the person is introducing her/Him-self, and she wants me to answer that..how do I tell this person a bit about myself? Or how do I say simple things like, "wow you have a lot of siblings" or "your family sounds great" "how much does that job pay" and so on, just serious first grade french I don't care about how advanced it is, as long as I write a couple of correct sentences I pass - and I know, I should learn my lesson for procrastinating, but TRUST me, I have! I so have! I'm freaking out here, my total future depends on it!

THANK YOU SO MUCH ♥

Hey, I'm only in 8th grade French, but I've taken two and a half years of it, so hopefully I've gotten the basics down. lol.

Example Conversation for your letter thingy:

Cher Monsieur/Mademoiselle/Madame,

Bonjour ! Je m'appelle [ YOUR NAME ]. J'ai les yeux [ bruns/bleus/verts ], et j'ai les cheveux [ bruns/blonds/rouges ]. J'ai [ NUMBER ] souers et freres. Ma mere est [ grande / petite ], et mon pere est [ grande / petite ]. Ma mere, elle est tres [ Sympa / Mechant ], et mon pere, il est [ généreux / égoïste ]. Moi, J'aime bien aller à [ Chez Moi / le Parc ]. Je detese aller à [ l'eglise / le college ]. Tu aimes aller à parc d'amusant? [ J'aime / Je n'aime pas ] aller au parc d'amusant. à bientot!

Sincerement,

[YOUR NAME]

TRANSLATION:
Hello! My name is [ YOUR NAME ]. I have [ brown/blue/green ] eyes, and I have [ brown/blonde/red ] hair. I have [ NUMBER ] sisters and brothers. My mother is [ tall/short ], and my father is [ tall/short ]. My mother, she is very [ Nice/Mean ], and my father, he is [ Generous/Selfish ]. Me, I like to go to [ My house/the Park ]. I hate to go to [ church/school ]. Do you like to go to amusement parks? [ I like/I do not like ] to go to amusement parks. Well, See you soon!

Sincerely,

[ YOUR NAME ]

I hope this helps you, good luck on your exam! I have to take one, too. If you need to know some more French, or a certain word/phrase, AIM me at x0xrachel27x0x or email me at rachel714@adelphia.net, and I'll be glad to help you! Au revoir! :]




[view]


im trying to make a works cited but whenever i try to indent the second line the first line moves over with it...is there anyway i can prevent this from happening? thanks, i rate.

Hey, I have a great website for you to check out. It makes your works' cited page for you, basically. All you need is the information. The website is: http://www.noodletools.com/login.php

If you need help figuring it out, AIM me at x0xrachel27x0x or email: rachel714@adelphia.net ♥

Hope I could help you!!

[view]


well im going out with this guy.
and i have been wanting to DATE him for about 2 years now. and now that i have him ;; im kinda bored b.c when i was wanting him. i always had somthing to do. and now that i have him i feel like there nothing else to want so what can i do now.
the relationship is amazing its just.. you know werid b.c i got everything i wanted and i feel like theres. nothing else to want. and now i dont know what i should do?

I think you should tell him exactly what you posted! He'll understand and then you can both decide together where you want the relationship to go.

[view]




<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker