What can I say? I'm fourteen, freshman, currently located in Alpharetta, GA. Born in Orlando, FL, I live for excitement. My greatest passion is singing. I don't really follow the asian sterotype, except sometimes. I want to go to FIT in NYC or Parson's New School. Most of the time, I listen to MyChem or HSM or techno. All I watch on TV is Disney Channel, Fuse, and Charmed. I think the strangest thing about me is how I dress. I can be classic: long skirts, trench coat, high heels or boots, etc. or casual: jeans, t-shirts, heels, sweaters, etc. or other: band shirts, converse, studded belts, black jeans, eyeliner, etc.
I usually focus on love life questions, but I can do everything. I guess I'm better at love life because I don't have one of my own =P
You can ask me for advice here, email me if you want, whatever. I'll answer. Promise =]
Yeah, I'm crazy. But you learn to love me.
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im in seventh grade and a girl. well theres this boy i like a lot and ive liked him almost the whole school year. we used to talk and laugh all the time in the beginning of the year when we sat across from eachother in science but since then we barely talk. im still in lovve with him tho. its the end of the school year and im woondering if i should tell him how i feel? im afraid that if he doesnt like me back, things will be awkward then. should i tell him? (link)
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I think you should just drop some hints that you like him and if he doesn't show anything about it, back off. It WILL make things awkward so be careful how obvious you be.
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there's a guy named logan. and last summer, we started hanging out even more and got really close.. most would have even called us "lovers". we both said we liked eachother.. and i waited for him. he never asked me out. 7 months of waiting, i went on to another guy. that didn't work out and i realized i still wanted logan. he and the guy i was dating didn't get along and were both jealous of eachother so i had to confess to both of them. (**he just called me :)**) but yeah logan was upset about it and the other guy didn't mean anything to me... so back in march we were coming home from a party and we ended up telling eachother we loved eachother.. and i believe we do. after almost a year of pretty much being together just not TOGETHER i think most people would be. he pushes my buttons, knows what ticks me off, but still leaves a smile on my face. i just know what its like to be IN love and i'm scared i might be for the first time.. we;ve been hanging out alot more again now and alot of people are thinking we like eachother again. i think we do, and i'm scared cause i don't want to wait for him again.. i just CAN'T do that & i've told him before that i couldn't just wait. most people think we act like a married couple too :) we're cute but i just don't know what to do to not have to wait.. and if i'm in love... HELP! (link)
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Ok, well, that's pretty much like how I was until I realized I had waited too long and just moved on. The guy I used to like, I liked him for about a year and I'm pretty sure he liked me back too. We were really close friends. I waited 6 months for him to ask me out. 6. And when he finally did, I finally knew I didn't like him anymore (I had been questioning it beforehand). If you don't want to wait, ASK HIM OUT YOURSELF. That's where my problem was. I didn't have the nerve. Just do it. Yes, I know it sounds really really easy, but it's freakishly hard. I know. Even if it takes a month, do it.
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Okay so i am hanging out with this guy i really like today. I know he likes me back and last time we hung out (sat) he kissed me.. with toungue. I want to make a move on him if he doesnt make any move on me today. I dont know how i should do it. What is a cute way to just.. kiss him without being like ackward? Also, i am worried about doing it cause maybe he just kissed me that once and thought" Hmm that was nice" but didnt plan on doing it again. I dont want to make it seem like im expecting it from now on (though it would be nice) hah
any answers would be appreciated/. =)
15/f btw (link)
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Well, my thought is, if you're walking by each other, just grab his hand. If he's surprised, he'll probably look at you, like he didn't expect it. And that when you can *PLOP* one right on him. It can be on the cheek, you don't have to have a huge make out session right there. But it'll ease into something. And then you can look like you were all shy about it. If he doesn't look at you when you grab his hand, that doesn't mean you can't kiss his cheek anyway. THEN he'll probably look at you surprised. You can kiss him again if you feel like it :P
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I love this guy. He is my world, hes my best friend and we've known each other forever. He knows how to make me happy and can always tell when there is something wrong. He goes after the guys at school who talk about me, and stands up for me. He knows that i give in easily and he knows how to hurt me. the thing is...He says he loves me, but i dont know if he does. He flirts A LOT. but he always hugs and kisses me and it seems like he only cares if Im happy. But the problem is that, he goes out with all these girls, once they break up, im his rebound girl. then he finds another girl and forgets bout me. it really hurts me. I dont know what to dooo (link)
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Ok then, you know what you should do? TELL HIM. STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. I know you love this guy and everything and that doesn't have to change, but you HAVE to tell him that you're sick of him always going to you when he doesn't have anyone else. Like you're his side line person. Tell him that you don't want him to do that anymore. If he really loves you, he won't.
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i like a guy who is 17..and i'm 14. he will turn 18 3 days before i turn 15..is it like not illegal with parents permission (link)
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Well...unless you guys are going to get married or something, it's perfectly legal
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If you do will you please describe to me what they look like? (link)
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Well, that's a bit vain, don'tcha think? =gestures to comment below= I don't think I can really DESCRIBE what a pretty round faced person looks like, but I've been said to be pretty so (I'm on the right):
dfa
If you have a round face, just do things to make sure you don't accentuate that you have a round face. If you wear glasses, wear more square framed glasses. Don't have your hair too short. Stuff like that
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hey thanx for the help. yea he kindo of does that to me. he puts his head on my shoulder sometimes if we're sitting sometimes even when we're standing and of course i dont mind ;P heh. and today he was standing behind me and was hugging me from behind but not on the waist just on the shoulders. hes such a nerd and most people still like him. and hes so full of himself but what can i say somehow i still like him? i dont know haha. hes even friends with our english teacher and i stay in with him afterskool in her class just to be with him. haha. i was thinking about maybe if we're sitting close i could grab his hand instead of him always doing it. maybe as a way to drop a hint maybe? what do you think?
i think that you probably do have feelings for W and you do want to get back with him. a part of the story i never mentioned is that i used to like this guy too! and it was in january but he didnt like me at the time and v-day was terrible because everyone felt bad that he didnt like me. i still dont know how the whole 8th grade found out about this oh well. point being i liked him he regected me because well lets just say he "couldnt" like me...and we just became friends again. i mean we've known eachother since 7th grade but only after that insident we became best friends. i told him i didnt like him anymore but the feelings came back. maybe they never really went away. the point is if hes a good friend of yours then you probably really do think hes very special and you have so much in common as friends so as a couple you'd be great. and most likely W still likes you since you were the one to break up with him.
Are you guys going to the same school for high school? me and my guy arent but he promised to keep in touch. school's out on june 22nd. grad nite is june 8th. and the same day we also have an informal 8th grade dance. i live in Los anglese California. how bout you?
sorry bout the essay haha. but at least someone understands me. hope i helped you out a bit. confessing you like ur best friend is not at all easy i know haha. bye
SAM (link)
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Man, our life story for everyone to see. Sorry I haven't answered in a while. I kept forgetting to get on. You probably should lean your head on his shoulder too or grab his hand instead of him always doing it. I've been thinking a lot about guys lately because it's summer over here and it's sooooo boring. I don't really think I like W. I think I'm trying to (partially) get myself to like him because I think we were so great as a couple. And we were. We're all honors classes next year so we have all the same classes exceptfor different choruses. His friends are pretty much my friends and vice versa. We're both going to National Beta next week and that's where it all started last year. But I think I really don't like him anymore. After I broke up with him, he started being really cocky. More than he usually is. If I'm repeating myself, I'm sorry, I can't remember what I said last time. But now there's this other great guy, S, who I met this year and we're like, best friends. He went out with my other best friend in March or April. They broke up within a month. I don't know if I like him or not because I really like our friendship and I don't want that to be ruined if we break up. My friend G, the one that went out with him, is on a on/off hating him kind of thing. But I saw how he was when he dated her. He gets a little...too into the relationship. And when she broke up with him, he was tragically ridiculous the next day. He's over her though. I don't really know what I want. Maybe it's the cause of summer that I just want a distraction. And as for W, we'll just see how things go at Nationals.
I live in Alpharetta, GA. It's by Atlanta. Hey, do you have a facebook or myspace?
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thanx for answering my question im in 8th grade too. i am really good friends with this guys, best friends. and well its pretty obvious he likes me. the other day we kind of brushed on the topic. he said "well umm jen came up to me and told me i should ask you out because we make a good couple." and me being stuid said "oh" and he said "but evryone told me that i made a good couple with marie and you know how that turned out." and i said "i dont know" but yea i know that they broke up after a week. but i can pretty much tell that he does like me. he holds my hand in the halls sometimes and he hugs me and stuff like that. he even has a pet name for me haha. today he said "im stalking you" and i said \"oh wow im scared." and we laughed about it. and he is folloewing me because after school he saw mw but kind of pretended he didnt. so he went to get a drink of water and when i passed by he said hi and started to walk with me and my friend. but i know he just does it because he wants to spend more time with me. then i had to leave and he wanted me to walk with him and i said i had to go the other way which i kinda did. i guess i couldve walked with him if i wanted to but id have to make a big circle. anyways he was all "you hate me dont you?" and i said "no i dont" and he kept saying "yea you do." people think we're so cute together because we always mess around like this. but i just think hes weird haha nerd. too smart always has to be right about everything. what im really excited about is kind of far away, grad nite. we bought our tickets together which means we\'re sitting on the same bus and hes sitting next to me (he told me) and its gonna be great. i love this guy so much but i dont think i should tell him. i told him once before and he made it clear that he didnt really want to go out with me. but he told me that there were reasons at the time after i told him i didnt like him anymore. but we just became so close recently and i started liking him again. and by the way things look i think he might feel the same. ill make my friends leave him alone. that could make things better i guess. just thought you should know the details. and thanx a bunch i really appreciate it because there are not too many people i know with the same situation. i love you! =) (link)
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Wow, deja vu much? That's pretty much exactly like me. Do you guys have an end-of-the-year dance? If he really likes you, he'll make his feelings known to you. Believe me. I don't know if you do this already, but when yo're on the bus together, you can just sort of lean you're head on his shoulder and rest it there for a bit. See if he tenses up or not. Like, his shoulders. Oh jeez, I just had a brlliant thought with that that I totally just forgot. But there is an importance to it if he does [tense up]. Since you gave me a novel about your situation, I suppose I could do the favor as well. Maybe you can see what happened to me and go from there:
I've been friends with this guy, let's call him W, since 6th grade and during 7th grade, I got to know him better (more classes). I started liking him in about January, after winter break. It wasn't major, but before that, some people already suspected something between us. Like how they tried to get him to ask me to dance at State Beta Convention (school thingie). I stopped liking him in March (now there's a story) and started liking someone else. Then I was done with men by the end of the year and just looked forward to National Beta Convention on Greensboro. And then he asks me to dance there. I sort of freaked out and ran away so that didn't end well...When school started, we didn't really talk, not that we had a lot of classes together (just one). Then, in late Sept., he asked me to dance at the welcome dance, but I think that's because my friend and his friend told him to because they knew what happened and how I still liked him. From there, we were sort of la-di-la. We were kind of going out, but not really, he never made it official. Then, in Nov., he asked me to dance at State Convention and I was really happy because I knew he did this on his own. Man, then it got really juicy (:P not really. But we were really...you know. At school. No, not in the obscene way). Then I went to his birthday party in Dec. and he put his arm around me and it was really nice. A week or two later, we (my friends and I; 4 of us) went over to another friend's house to watch movies and stuff and he put his arm around me again and we were all cuddle-buddies kind of thing. I was so into him then. But, during winter break, I started liking this other guy (N) and having two weeks to yourself is never good for the soul (that was also the time I started liking W). So I cotinued stuff with W until V-day when he asked me out. You'd think I would be jubilant, but instead, I think I had an epiphany or something. I realized that I didn't like W anymore. At all. So 2 weeks later, I broke it off, just because he had waited too long. Funny, I broke up with him for N and when I ended up asking N out, he said no. But I didn't really care. So now we're friends again, after 2 monthes of extreme awkwardness. So keep that in mind. Make sure that if he doesn't say anything, you have to. That was my mistake. And now, I know I really hate him sometimes because he's the smartest kid in school and everybody loves him (like, EVERYBODY. All the jocks and popular people too. But they used to hate him, so it's funny) and he's so cocky. But part of me wants to get back together with him. Kind of. Because we're such good friends and stuff and all our friends the same and everything and we're both going to Nationals (convention) this year again and it would be so much fun. 4 days of freedom. Now, I suppose I'm asking for your advice because I'm horrible at giving advice for myself. So N turned me down on the 26th of April and we haven't talked since. Do you think I really want to get back with W or it's an internal thing. There's another thing with it too (that story thing I mentioned), but I want to hear what you have to say first. I know I wrote you a novel, so sorry if you have to read the whole thing, but when I start, I just keep going. My apologies.
How long from now is your grad.? Our's in 2 1/2 weeks. Where do you live?
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so i really like my best friend and he means the world to me but there is a slight problem. he always flirts with me so everyone thinks he likes me. i mean if a guy held your hand wouldnt you think so too? anyways i had a friend tell him that shes seen us together all the time and that we should go out. so then he told me what she said and i just said oh really and he said yea but thats what everyone said about this other girl and me and then you know how that ended up. (they broke after a week) i think he doesnt want a relationship or isnt exactly ready for one, actually im pretty sure thats it. but my friends were asking him if he likes me and he gets annooyed and or says i dont know or changes the subject. so hes a tough one to crack. what should i do? should i just continue to be friends that like eachother but arent dating? i mean whatever he wants is fine with me, its not worth being a mess over this. im pretty sure he does like me but i dont really know since he wont say. anyways thanx sorry this is long. i love you guys.
btw 14/f (link)
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Man, you're in the same hubbub I was in earlier this year (8th grade). I didn't actually think this happened to other people, but lo behold, it does. Anyway, I'm jsut going to tell you what I did and you can pick and choose. Just go with it for now. Stay friends like you have been, but try to get closer. Not obviously closer, just slightly so he knows you're interested. After a while (yes, this is an on-going-patience-required process), you'll start to notice whether he likes you back or not. My guy asked me to dance. We fell out because he was really shy and by the time he got the courage to ask me out, I didn't like him anymore, but when you're sure of it, you can talk to him about it. For now, just be friends and hang out a lot and go from there. If he makes some move to show that he likes you, go for it. If you say he's shy and tentative, YOU go talk to him about your status (after you're sure he likes you). Ask him whether he likes you or not (truly) and if you're going out. Because I had this ongoing this for about 3 monthes and we were practically dating, but if was never official. So when it's like that, talk to you. And have your friends stop bugging him. It does get awfully annoying. Sorry for my endless blabbering. I'm an all-out person. And if you're guy really likes you, he'll probably say something eventually. Mine didn't because he was the biggest nerd in school and that's how he is =P
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Im 15 and never been kissed. ..or had a bf TO KISS, but thats besides the point.
Part of me wants to get it over with, and the other part wants to wait it out for someone good.
The longer i wait, the more ill remember it though right?
Is it even that big of a deal to wait?
...But what if i dont get my first kiss till im like..36...omg. (link)
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Just chill and live for a little. It's not like you're so desperate you'd go up to a random guy and plop one on him. Wait for someone who actually cares about you and will make it special. And you needn't go hunting for him. When it's meant to happen, it will. Just give it some time. And when you're not looking, some great guy's going to come into your life. Or maybe you already know him. Yeah, my friend says I sound 80 when I say this kind of crap, but I believe it's true.
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i dont know if this should be under here but anyway
im getting my braces off soon [ april 21 ] yay :)
and i was wondering whats a good toothpaste to make your teeth make/ and stay white! thanks .
and pleasee no white strips i cant afford them (link)
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You shouldn't use white strips because the chemicals will break down your enamel. Just brush your teeth a lot. With a toothpaste that has whitening in it, but doesn't major on the whitening part.
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im 13, and boys my age are REALLY immature.. so i tend to like boys that are alottt older then me.
like, i like boys that are like 16-17.
is it bad if i dated boys that much older then me?
would be the pros and cons?! (link)
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Pro: he would be more mature, and thus, more experienced
Con: he would be more mature, and thus, expect more or push you too far
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is there a site that will give me ideas on how to make my own clothes?
i have jeans that still fit me but are too short and i want to cut them but after i wanna make them look all cool cus i do it all the time
any help is fine thank youu xoxo (link)
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Well, if you do it all the time, you shouldn't need ideas, should you?
I don't really know any sites that help but if you go to online stores or something, maybe you could get ideas off of it. If you're making the jeans like shorts, it'd be cool to write lyrics on them or sew a fabric panel to the hem. Or, get some of that, what's-it-called, fabric glue or something and draw on it.
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Whats some ways to flirt with a guy more, but like not to obvious.
Likes steps kinda if you want to do that it would help alot.. starting from friends, and then flirting ways not to be like for everyone omg and everything
or just ideas
xoxo thankk you
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If you're already friends or sort-of friends, here are some tips:
- Touch his arm sometimes (not obviously, but casually)
- Look at him across the room and hold his eye contact for a second and then drop gaze
- Smile a lot and laugh at his jokes
- Look him in the eyes when you talk/joke with him
- Find ways to walk with him, thus talk to him
- When you walk together, bump into him sometimes, always on accident -cough-
- Dress sexy (lol) and when you walk past him, look back (casually, like you thought you forgot something) and if he's looking at you, look at him, sort of smile but not jumbo smiling, and return walking
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I need eye shadow colors for;;
brown hair
medium skin
blue eyes
i want my eyes to pop out.
thanks (link)
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It depends on what color outfit you're wearing too. If your eyes are only and truly blue, maybe have a color that's on your shirt (if your shirt is solid with design). If you're wearing solid colors, it would probably go well to do a soft brown color. That should always go, despite your color shirt. If yo're eyes are more than blue, pick a color that is barely in your eyes, but if you looked hard enough, you could find it. Say, if you have flecks in your eyes. Use an eyeshadow close to the color of the flecks. That'll make the color of the flecks pop out a little more, thus making your eyes a whole different color.
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Im 17/F and ive never really had a relationship. Ive hung out with alot of guys and talked with alot of guys but never wanted to have a real relationship with any of them. All my friends have bfs and makes me feel like im abnormal that i dont want a bf..i just want to have fun. Am i weird? (link)
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No, that's perfectly normal. Okay, I want a boyfriend and I'm younger than you, but that's just because I have nothing better to think about (lol OCD problem :P). Having fun at your age is probably a good idea because soon, you'll have to think about going to college and everything. You wouldn't want a guy holding you down from studying. So, to completely answer your question, no, you aren't weird.
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14/m
Ok, the other day my friend(15/f)told me that she likes me. But she has a boyfried, and she doesn't know what to do...Do you have any ideas on what I should do, 'cause I like her to and I don't want to feel like I'm caught in some sort of love triangle...
But she really likes me and her boyfried and doesn't know what to do...thanks in advance (link)
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First, you got to talk to her. Then, you have to get her to talk to her man. Tell her she can't have both, she'll be hogging all the guys for everyone else. She's got to make up her mind. Or at elast go into withdrawl so she can figure it all out.
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whenever i find a boy DOES like me, it always seems like they are the ones i don't like! i always find something wrong with them. this is going to sound stupid, but there's a boy in my grade who i don't know well but i have always had a feeling he likes me (he compliments me, trys to startup convos, etc.) i don't have anything against him, and i think he's nice...but sort of awkward...like not totally sure of himself). he is also sort of emo punkish...not usually my type (like he likes screamo music, etc.) it's just not really my thing. i don't know what to do...whenever i am at home i think "oh well maybe i'll give him a chance", but as soon as i see him i change my mind & feel all awkward. what should i do?!?! (link)
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Man, I've been in your position before and it sucks. Something that might help is to talk to him online (gmail, yahoo, msn, aim, etc.). Since you only think that at home, then talking to him at home, and not literally to his face, might help.
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I'm a shy person but sometimes I'm not. If that makes sense. Well I never really showed affection with friends, no hugs or whatever. But in a relationship, I felt like it was okay.
So i have a boyfriend.
I hang out with my friend and my ex. I hug them, poke them, blah blah get into their face to annoy them. And it feels wrong because I usually don't get that close to someone.
Sometimes people say I'm cheating on my boyfriend when I'm hugging other guys.
Does it really seem like.. I am ? Because my boyfriend goes home early, so I stay to hang out with my other friends too... But if he were to stay, does hugging and messing around [not sexually] with other guys.. bad? (link)
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I don't think you should listen to other people. Let them say what they want to say. Don't worry about it, unless it gets really bad, like they're saying you're sleeping with your guyfriends or something. It shouldn't be bad. And if he's a little touchy that you're messing around with other guys, that's natural. It's instinctive for boyfriends to be a bit protective. But if he thinks your cheating on him, then maybe he doesn't trust you enough and you should have a talk with that boy.
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15/f
I'm sexually active, so I think it would be a good idea for me to start going to the gynecologist. The thing is, my mom won't let me go on birth control because of the possibilities of blood clots when I get older, and it would be a huge mistake if I told her I'm sexually active. How could I get her to let me go to the gyno? I really think it would be in my best interest, and good for my health. Also, I have a regular period, so I can't use that as an excuse, and she knows I do. However, I do have a very long period, (8-10 days) but she does too so it's just hereditary to her. I also tend to get horrible cramps, that make me not able/not want to move. I really don't know how to get her to let me go. Any ideas? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Actually, I find it very interesting that you're sexually active at age 15, but whatever. Yeah, I do agree that it'll probably end in chaos if you tell your mom. Unless your mom doesn't know, you should go to a gyno when you turn around 15 or 16. I think. It's good for your health, to make sure you don't get any problems..er..down there. Just tell her that. Most gynos will ask you if you want your mom there or not so you can ask your gyno if your mom could just not be there and talk to her(gyno) about it and what she thinks you should do.
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