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hello thanx for the help
thanx for answering my question im in 8th grade too. i am really good friends with this guys, best friends. and well its pretty obvious he likes me. the other day we kind of brushed on the topic. he said "well umm jen came up to me and told me i should ask you out because we make a good couple." and me being stuid said "oh" and he said "but evryone told me that i made a good couple with marie and you know how that turned out." and i said "i dont know" but yea i know that they broke up after a week. but i can pretty much tell that he does like me. he holds my hand in the halls sometimes and he hugs me and stuff like that. he even has a pet name for me haha. today he said "im stalking you" and i said \"oh wow im scared." and we laughed about it. and he is folloewing me because after school he saw mw but kind of pretended he didnt. so he went to get a drink of water and when i passed by he said hi and started to walk with me and my friend. but i know he just does it because he wants to spend more time with me. then i had to leave and he wanted me to walk with him and i said i had to go the other way which i kinda did. i guess i couldve walked with him if i wanted to but id have to make a big circle. anyways he was all "you hate me dont you?" and i said "no i dont" and he kept saying "yea you do." people think we're so cute together because we always mess around like this. but i just think hes weird haha nerd. too smart always has to be right about everything. what im really excited about is kind of far away, grad nite. we bought our tickets together which means we\'re sitting on the same bus and hes sitting next to me (he told me) and its gonna be great. i love this guy so much but i dont think i should tell him. i told him once before and he made it clear that he didnt really want to go out with me. but he told me that there were reasons at the time after i told him i didnt like him anymore. but we just became so close recently and i started liking him again. and by the way things look i think he might feel the same. ill make my friends leave him alone. that could make things better i guess. just thought you should know the details. and thanx a bunch i really appreciate it because there are not too many people i know with the same situation. i love you! =)
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Wow, deja vu much? That's pretty much exactly like me. Do you guys have an end-of-the-year dance? If he really likes you, he'll make his feelings known to you. Believe me. I don't know if you do this already, but when yo're on the bus together, you can just sort of lean you're head on his shoulder and rest it there for a bit. See if he tenses up or not. Like, his shoulders. Oh jeez, I just had a brlliant thought with that that I totally just forgot. But there is an importance to it if he does [tense up]. Since you gave me a novel about your situation, I suppose I could do the favor as well. Maybe you can see what happened to me and go from there:
I've been friends with this guy, let's call him W, since 6th grade and during 7th grade, I got to know him better (more classes). I started liking him in about January, after winter break. It wasn't major, but before that, some people already suspected something between us. Like how they tried to get him to ask me to dance at State Beta Convention (school thingie). I stopped liking him in March (now there's a story) and started liking someone else. Then I was done with men by the end of the year and just looked forward to National Beta Convention on Greensboro. And then he asks me to dance there. I sort of freaked out and ran away so that didn't end well...When school started, we didn't really talk, not that we had a lot of classes together (just one). Then, in late Sept., he asked me to dance at the welcome dance, but I think that's because my friend and his friend told him to because they knew what happened and how I still liked him. From there, we were sort of la-di-la. We were kind of going out, but not really, he never made it official. Then, in Nov., he asked me to dance at State Convention and I was really happy because I knew he did this on his own. Man, then it got really juicy (:P not really. But we were really...you know. At school. No, not in the obscene way). Then I went to his birthday party in Dec. and he put his arm around me and it was really nice. A week or two later, we (my friends and I; 4 of us) went over to another friend's house to watch movies and stuff and he put his arm around me again and we were all cuddle-buddies kind of thing. I was so into him then. But, during winter break, I started liking this other guy (N) and having two weeks to yourself is never good for the soul (that was also the time I started liking W). So I cotinued stuff with W until V-day when he asked me out. You'd think I would be jubilant, but instead, I think I had an epiphany or something. I realized that I didn't like W anymore. At all. So 2 weeks later, I broke it off, just because he had waited too long. Funny, I broke up with him for N and when I ended up asking N out, he said no. But I didn't really care. So now we're friends again, after 2 monthes of extreme awkwardness. So keep that in mind. Make sure that if he doesn't say anything, you have to. That was my mistake. And now, I know I really hate him sometimes because he's the smartest kid in school and everybody loves him (like, EVERYBODY. All the jocks and popular people too. But they used to hate him, so it's funny) and he's so cocky. But part of me wants to get back together with him. Kind of. Because we're such good friends and stuff and all our friends the same and everything and we're both going to Nationals (convention) this year again and it would be so much fun. 4 days of freedom. Now, I suppose I'm asking for your advice because I'm horrible at giving advice for myself. So N turned me down on the 26th of April and we haven't talked since. Do you think I really want to get back with W or it's an internal thing. There's another thing with it too (that story thing I mentioned), but I want to hear what you have to say first. I know I wrote you a novel, so sorry if you have to read the whole thing, but when I start, I just keep going. My apologies.
How long from now is your grad.? Our's in 2 1/2 weeks. Where do you live?
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